EXTREME - she wants to MARRY me - ive seen her only for 3 weeks!!!!!

[skip2mylou781]

yea, a girl i met on myspace and hooked up withe, which included her sleeping over 3 times and us fvcking like 10 times in the 3 weeks we been seeing each other, she not only told me she LOVES me, but she said she wants to spend the rest of her life with me and marry me and have a future till the day that we die (her words).

Im 21, shes 18. She apparently had a near-death situation recently and wants to live life to the fullest degree, which i think is why shes bein so fvckin drastic about MARRYING me

shes not a psycho, she doesnt stalk me, she seems very normal otherwise, and is very very sweet.....


BUT THIS MARRIAGE THING IS TOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

she basically said shes never met anyone as perfect as me (thanks sosuave lol), and "knows" she wants to be with me forever.........

shes had a good amount of bf's before so its not like she doesnt kno wat love is cuz shes loved guys before, and apprantly there are alot of guys currently who wanna get with her, all of who she rejects.

PERSONALLY, i just want her as a fvck buddy, cuz shes daaaaaamn good in bed and shes really pretty (HB8), but of course she started sayin she loves me and all that crap, and so in order to not blow it and to keep fvckin her, i just went along and told her i love her too.

HOW DO I GET OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE SHYT BUT STILL MANAGE TO KEEP HER AS A FB? IM SERIOUS, THIS IS ONE OF THE FEW TIMES I AM ASKING FOR HELP ON THIS FORUM CUZ I DUNNO WAT TO DO WITH THIS EXTREME SITUATION

 

[Fash]

you need to tell her something along these lines. Do it in passing and NOT when she has just mentioned the marriage thing...

"Isn't it great that we can spend time together and really get to know each other better? I mean I think you are great and I really like you which makes me want to know more and more about you. I think it is really important for people to get to know each other really really well before they even think about taking relationships further, don't you feel the same way???"

She will be forced to say "yes"

What this does is get her thinking and make her understand that. If you are thinking of just having her as a FB, forget it! She doesnt sound like that type of girl!

Trust me

 

[skip2mylou781]

wat kind of girl does she sound like? id only assume that its NOT NORMAL for her to wanna marry me, or anyone within 2 weeks of knowing me!

 

[Socialreject]

wat kind of girl does she sound like?

Your average vanilla flavoured relationship hopper. They hop from one guy to the next till they get to a poitn where they feel they "had" tomany guys already and then they develop LMR bigtime...

She doesn't seem to have gotton to that point yet though, she sounds very naive in fact... i recon she will get to that point sometime soon after she realizes you aren't going to marry her... or even "be" with her ;-)

 

[Hurrican]

wow!!!! she is ****ed up mentally A LOT bro.

You can easily tell her that you will wait and if she loves you and respects you she will wait for you. Tell her how silly she sounds wanting to marry in less then a month.

 

[skip2mylou781]

yea its very creepy the way shes jumping into having me in her life forever........her only saving graces are that shes really sweet, really good in bed, and 100% NOT a *****

 

[skip2mylou781]

lol at least shes not a ***** yet....i only known her 3 weeks so who knows......wow i just wanna not hurt her and still fvck around with her, cuz i mean im saeein other girls too but of course im bein pimp about it and hiding it all from her

 

[Emart06]

run away now

Do not continue to date this girl. trust me dude, my ex said the same thing after 2 months. It was insane, she eventually dumped me with no warning or signs that anythign was wrong, and doesnt even wanna hear my voice now. Girls like this r cracked in the head. Run! Find soemone who is mentally stable and has better social skills. I wish I had.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

I think you better fess up and tell her the truth. Immediately. If you're smooth you may be able to keep her on as a FB. If not, then it's probably for the best you not see each other anymore.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Hey skip, just go along with it bro' she isn't seriously. These are things that women say when they are really bein turned on by ya. Gon head and talk love to her, just don't be serious about it, lol.

Over time we'll see if she can hold up HER end of the stick and be marriage material.

 

[Last Man Standing]

This hor wants to find a husband?? HUH??

Tell this hor that "last man standing" said that a man has sex with hors and does NOT marry them!!!!

She is a psycho ho to even think of such a plot - let alone verbalize it to you!!!!!!!

She is going to get pregnant - if she isn't already and she'll blame it on you - it is a trap - get out now!!!!!

 

[skip2mylou781]

all good advice indeed...donjuanforever, ur advice sounds very different but i deff feel wat u mean and its true, im hopin this whole marrying me thing is just an extreme form of sweet talk to turn her on more, i kno i do that to girls too (i dont say im gonna marry them tho)........goddamnit shes totally normal in every other way aka the way she acts with me and stuff, but yea this is tooooooooo far for me............now the decision lies in whether i should keep her as a fvck buddy or just cut all ties completely

 

[skip2mylou781]

oh WOW i was just gonna go to sleep and i called her to tell her to relax on the marrying thing and to just be together and see how it goes.....and she told me she had a ****ed up convo with her ex bf within the last 2 hours and after hearing wat i said bout easin up on the marriage thing, SHE DUMPED ME


LOL


psycho to the extreme!!!!!!

im happy tho, now i dont gotta worry bout this idioticy!!!! thanks guys

 

[Serialized3]

The crazy ones are always the best in bed, aren't they

 

[abcd_z]

The crazy ones are always the best in bed, aren't they

Don't know, working on finding out for myself.

 

[Serialized3]

Oh jesus, dude, the craziest 2 girls I've ever been with...well...

K was a totaly nympho, she'd phuck all night long, hard too, get all into role playing, but I had to dump her cos she was mad bipolar and would cry about her dead grandmother during sex sometimes...damn

C was all psycho over me, like obsessed with me, saying all kind of crazy stalker b|tch stuff, but oh man, she was a squirter, like in those pornos, she could like squirt this clear liquid like two feet out of her vag...it was insane.

 

[skip2mylou781]

ive fvcked her real good a good number of times now, but the only thing that really concerns me is she says shes on birth control buuut someone pointed out that it could be a trap and she'll get herself pregnant and she could be lying about being on birth control....even tho she deff doesnt come across as a liar

 

[wayword]

This is actually a good question - a lot of the Game aims at accelerating things.

But what happens when you want to SLOW things down? How do you hit the brakes without coming to a complete stop?

 

[MrCode]

This is actually a good question - a lot of the Game aims at accelerating things.

But what happens when you want to SLOW things down? How do you hit the brakes without coming to a complete stop?

Simple: just don't see the girl as much. Call her once or twice a week at the most and see her in person about once a week as well.

Girls usually go into LTR-mode when you are seeing them too much.

The chic in this thread just sounds whack though.

 

[WesCottII]

Damn. I've had a near death experience, and I never felt the need to marry anyone.

Good luck bro.