Extraordinary black pill post @ Incel forum

[MatureDJ]

I know everyone says don't read about those "losers", but this post is extraordinary black pill, and I remember back in the day when I had a good job (LOL), it was still very tough to get any traction - it helped, but quite rarely, considering - whereas being an older & poorer English teacher abroad gets me much more traction.

https://incels.me/threads/statusmax...d-money-maxxing-are-all-a-myth-its-over.44369

I recently finally moved out on my own. I put a downpayment on a nice condominium. It really is a great feeling to call the place you live in "your own" and to be able to pay the bills. I also furnished it nicely with a 4k TV, nice appliances, and all kinds of other nice ****. I have a decent job where i make solid money, and i even have a car of my own (nothing special, but it beats the bus). Do you know what all of this has done for my sex life? JACK ****. i tell girls that i live in my own place and most of the responses are a sarcastic "congrats" and "cool". they STILL dont give a ****.

The blackpill is this: when you are statusmaxxed, careermaxxed, and moneymaxxed, you only make it WORSE for yourself by still being single. in a females mind, she looks at all of those positives, but when she still sees that you are a single loser a red flag goes off in her head. It goes something like this: "He has a good career, lives alone, and has a car, so why is he still single then?". And just like that she is turned off, because if you still have to chase after girls even with those things, then you must be lacking elsewhere. either your **** is small, you are not popular, you are ugly, etc. Being maxxed out doesnt help **** and only makes you seem even more pathetic in some ways. Chad works at chipotle for $8.25 an hour and lives in his moms basement with an air mattress for a couch and still slays. His place reeks of weed, there are blunt roaches everywhere, and he plays xbox all day long in between his minimum wage shifts, but he still has girls sleeping over every other night.

Now, don't get me wrong; the attitude adjustment that this forum instills does help a little bit, but a polished turd is still a turd. Think about a fat chick, and then think about her with makeup; she's still disgusting.

Here's a great response:

Women have always felt the disgust of men (ugly) providers.

The feminist revolution has as its central goal to give total sexual control to women, so that they do not have to be subjected in any way to sex with ugly men, women in control of the sex market is the same as GL guys in control.

All hysteria with harassment is to prevent ugly men from approaching women.

Handsome men do not have to do this since they make it clear that they want to have sex with them.

In the future the rich but ugly men who try something with women will have the same fate as Harvey Weinstein.

Status game is a failed game in the 21st century.

 

[StrayCat]

And I thought I was pathetic with the way I thought. These people are nuts with the surgery if they think that's going to help. Self improvement is the most important thing that helps for one's own self esteem.

 

[Mike32ct]

This stuff sounds like common sense.

1. A guy who has a good career but is chronically single is a red flag to women.

No shocker there.

 

[Infern0]

I'm fairly sure that a lot of these forums are infested with trolls and liars who are either on the wind up or grossly overstating their achievements in other areas.

They are full of "attractive men" with "250k salaries" "mansions" "sports cars" who apparently can't even get a 5/10 interested

Nonsense imo.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Maximizing looks/money/status for the sake of meeting women is still validation-seeking, and playing in to the hands of women. People like this miss the point completely. They are still just provisioning beta males.

Self improvement is exactly that. Improvement of the self. Developing and proliferating the sense of self and self-worth. The guy who looks maxed and status maxed still believes he is unworthy, therefore is unsuccessful, regardless of his material accoutrements. It's not a case of being single. A lot of single men are still successful with women because they believe that they are worthy.

The unsuccessful guy gives off a vibe of desperation. Everything he does is for the sake of getting laid; and that will be very awkwardly apparent to everyone he meets.

The successful guy does what he wants for himself, even if that is earning minimum wage and dwelling in a basement playing Xbox. He gives off a relaxed vibe because he is content and KNOWS he is deserving.

Personal entitlement is a double-edged sword. Fullfilment of that entitlement really depends upon how it is conveyed to the outside world.

 

[marmel75]

Material things are far far below confidence, attitude and body language on the list of things that will make you attractive to women.

 

[sosousage]

I know everyone says don't read about those "losers", but this post is extraordinary black pill, and I remember back in the day when I had a good job (LOL), it was still very tough to get any traction - it helped, but quite rarely, considering - whereas being an older & poorer English teacher abroad gets me much more traction.

https://incels.me/threads/statusmax...d-money-maxxing-are-all-a-myth-its-over.44369




Now, don't get me wrong; the attitude adjustment that this forum instills does help a little bit, but a polished turd is still a turd. Think about a fat chick, and then think about her with makeup; she's still disgusting.

Here's a great response:

just improve your look then and gg

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

basically suggesting going back there for sex

And it's the weakness of indirect suggestion that makes the legs clamp firmly shut.

Direct is often the best policy when it comes to initiating sex; 'let's go back to my place', 'I want to be inside you', 'Come over and I'll make some food'. This way, it's your idea, not hers. Girls don't want sex to be seen as their idea. But it has to be direct. Not wishy washy, 'I've got my own place'.

Indirectly suggesting that you have your own place comes across as creepy. The exert lacks any context. For all we know, the guy is just walking up to women in the street and telling them he's well-off, has a car and house of his own, and expecting them to literally fall to their knees with desire. Perfect example of a nice guy beta bucks provider.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Maximize one's SMV is common sense.

Women do the following with filters, makeup, leggings, sports bras, hair dye, extension's, nails, etc.

Men are lazy when getting piece. RsdTyler points out the following with Dre and his new album.

The things that affect the cesspool that iis that SMP is, beta thirst, high kill count but cucks pandering tto single moms aand cratered smv. Marrying *****s and fatties.

I cannot speak ffor everyone here. Speaking ffor myself, I know most women over the nnect 5-10yrs will see a bloke like myself, never been married, no kids as a red flag.

I don't care. The pursuit iis top form smv, late teens early twenties. Ie best years not cawk carousel epiphany rubbish.

Bachelor life iis preferable IMHO.

 

[corrector]

Maximizing looks/money/status for the sake of meeting women is still validation-seeking, and playing in to the hands of women. People like this miss the point completely. They are still just provisioning beta males.

That is self-improvement though.

Self improvement is exactly that. Improvement of the self. Developing and proliferating the sense of self and self-worth. The guy who looks maxed and status maxed still believes he is unworthy, therefore is unsuccessful, regardless of his material accoutrements.

That's still self-improvement. How is improving your looks, status, etc... not self-improvement? Then he should buy x-box, quit his job, go on welfare and then he'll start attracting women because it works for Chad? Why not just concede that looks only works if you have something to work with in the first place (i.e. you are a Chad). Some people are Chad, others are not, and no amount of self-improvement is going to change that.

It's not a case of being single. A lot of single men are still successful with women because they believe that they are worthy.

The unsuccessful guy gives off a vibe of desperation. Everything he does is for the sake of getting laid; and that will be very awkwardly apparent to everyone he meets.

Right, if he's white he should go after LBFM's from South East Asia so he won't be desperate?

The successful guy does what he wants for himself, even if that is earning minimum wage and dwelling in a basement playing Xbox. He gives off a relaxed vibe because he is content and KNOWS he is deserving.

As you said, a successful person is a bum who plays X-Box, collects welfare, doesn't want to work, because he has the missing ingredient, or whatever Chad(ness). You could be a criminal or worst scum on the planet, but if you can attract women and they like you then you are a hero. You are a Chad.

Personal entitlement is a double-edged sword. Fullfilment of that entitlement really depends upon how it is conveyed to the outside world.

...and if you are getting laid and are a Chad right?

 

[StrayCat]

That forum is like visiting a graveyard of lost men and souls. I am surprised none of those members has not off'd themselves yet. It's so depressing I couldn't stand more than a few minutes at that forum. I do not know to feel sorry for them or what not. To me, it seems a lot of them either have mental problems or are just so far gone there is no turning back. They live in a negative online fantasy world.

 

[Soflobro#3]

I might troll that forum. Could be fun.

 

[MatureDJ]

I might troll that forum. Could be fun.

I have a feeling that the FBI is watching that forum ...

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

this post is extraordinary black pill,

That post ain't anything but extraordinarily idiot.

Dude isn't maxed anything. He's bragging about his toaster and not having to take the bus.

He HAD an IDIOTIC idea that "all you need" to pull mad puzzy is a job and a house and a car. As if all you needed to do is what most dudes do AS A MATTER OF COURSE.

And when the poon doesn't start dropping out of the sky, he acts like it's some black pill life changing realization.

The idea that you have to have an actual PERSONALITY and some SOCIAL SKILLS to get some action is edgy black pill insight is RETARDED.

 

[Serenity]

I can see why women wouldn't want to go anywhere near him...

 

[peanutbuttablunts]

I know everyone says don't read about those "losers", but this post is extraordinary black pill, and I remember back in the day when I had a good job (LOL), it was still very tough to get any traction - it helped, but quite rarely, considering - whereas being an older & poorer English teacher abroad gets me much more traction.

https://incels.me/threads/statusmax...d-money-maxxing-are-all-a-myth-its-over.44369




Now, don't get me wrong; the attitude adjustment that this forum instills does help a little bit, but a polished turd is still a turd. Think about a fat chick, and then think about her with makeup; she's still disgusting.

Here's a great response:

On face, this reeks of misogyny and therefor hate and therefor INSECURITY. Women do not like insecure men, racist men, misogynist men, etc. Some do, but these are bottom barell girls and just terrible people in general. Women WANT to be objectified, this is true, but its a contractual simulation of objectification, initially she wants to be subjectivized ...she deserves dignity just simply because she is a human being, but think about it, shes a ****ing human, treat her like one, women are not gods. I know this advice seems like ****: but all of this "oh god women won't like me from the get-go beacuse of x y z reason" is in your head. if you think like this its already bunked out. from the initial post its quite obvious that this dude is paranoid from the OUTSET, which is where he fails. you must *know* how hot of a **** you are, because you are a hot ****, this isn't a game people: YOU ACTUALLY IMPROVE YOUR LIFE. the key is that all of attraction is based off of retroactive disavowal. meaning: very initially she may not actually like you or think youre attractive, but starts to notice how attractive you are bc of your spirit. beauty is in the imperfection. youd be surprised how much of this is psychological, how much of the failure is just paranoia, and how much actual control over you have over your own attractiveness, and how most of this process is just simply self-affirming life. read some philosophy...Kierkegaard or maybe some hegel if youre so inclined. takes longer to learn but esoteric knowledge has some interesting info about it.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

That is self-improvement though.

It's only self improvement if you improve the self. Earning and worse still spending money for the sake of impressing other people isn't self improvement, it's provisioning.

 

[corrector]

they haven’t showered in a week and wear the same clothes for more then a week. I have seen this dude pull GORGEOUS girls and he wasn’t even trying!!!

Maybe it's because natural pheromones are washed away whenever you take a shower and soap up. You also tend to be lest vested in social interactions if you dress anyhow.

 

[peanutbuttablunts]

Maybe it's because natural pheromones are washed away whenever you take a shower and soap up. You also tend to be lest vested in social interactions if you dress anyhow.

I dress like a gd bum and have dreadlocks and bitches cannot stop flocking I'm not even exagerating

 

[corrector]

It's only self improvement if you improve the self. Earning and worse still spending money for the sake of impressing other people isn't self improvement, it's provisioning.

What do you define as improving yourself exactly?