Hello Don Juans!
My Ex and I have began talking again, agreeing to remain friends. Initially, things were fine, we talked or texted every so often. We went out to dinner, everything was good, we had some great laughs and had a great time together, but she made it clear to me, at least verbally, that she was just fine being single, we did end the night with a small kiss. Lately, the frequency has increased to everyday. No talk of a sexual nature but twice this week she wanted to get together and eat, once on Sunday, but I had plans with family and again tonight, although not directly, she texted me "what's for dinner?" I really didn't want to see her tonight because earlier in the day she had texted me to say hello. I ended up calling her because i didn't feel like having a text war. One of our issues before we broke up was she felt i texted too much, so i made an effort to call more instead of texting. When i called her, her first response to me was "why are you calling? I thought your preferred method of conversation was texting?" Her sarcastic comment kind of rubbed me the wrong way, especially that we've been talking on the phone almost everyday for the last week. What is she really doing here?? Is she just trying to be friends or is she actually thinking we are trying to get back together? Verbally, she seems to not have any interest in getting but her calling and talking with me everyday, wanting to meet for dinner says something different.
To be honest, im not interested in getting back with her at this point, since really nothing has changed on her end, just wondering what may be going on in that mind of hers.
My Ex and I have began talking again, agreeing to remain friends. Initially, things were fine, we talked or texted every so often. We went out to dinner, everything was good, we had some great laughs and had a great time together, but she made it clear to me, at least verbally, that she was just fine being single, we did end the night with a small kiss. Lately, the frequency has increased to everyday. No talk of a sexual nature but twice this week she wanted to get together and eat, once on Sunday, but I had plans with family and again tonight, although not directly, she texted me "what's for dinner?" I really didn't want to see her tonight because earlier in the day she had texted me to say hello. I ended up calling her because i didn't feel like having a text war. One of our issues before we broke up was she felt i texted too much, so i made an effort to call more instead of texting. When i called her, her first response to me was "why are you calling? I thought your preferred method of conversation was texting?" Her sarcastic comment kind of rubbed me the wrong way, especially that we've been talking on the phone almost everyday for the last week. What is she really doing here?? Is she just trying to be friends or is she actually thinking we are trying to get back together? Verbally, she seems to not have any interest in getting but her calling and talking with me everyday, wanting to meet for dinner says something different.
To be honest, im not interested in getting back with her at this point, since really nothing has changed on her end, just wondering what may be going on in that mind of hers.