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[inzone50]

Alright, so my gf of 5 months was showing high interest level. txting, calling, sending me pics, her friend txting me saying she is always talking about me, wanting to spend alot of time together, talking about "our babies"... baby names...

I wasn't acting all AFC and emotional... i build rapport. And also used the term our kids...

Now she became a bit distant... less txts, calls. spend less time together... she when she talks about her future she doesn't say anything about me, and its now "her kids"

But, she is all happy when she is with me... I act the same as before. i don't show that it bothers me.

She said that she is sorry if she seems a bit dipressed this week beacuse all her friends are going away to UNI and she won't see her family and ****... she now lives in my city cuz she goes to UNI here.

So questions is... how come she getting distant as of late? **** test?

BTW she invited me to a family get together that is 2 months away and said i don't have to go but it would mean so much.

sex is still good.

 

[inzone50]

anyone?

 

[zerocelcius]

Sounds like she is going through some stuff with her friends. Also you’re at the Mile Marker that usually sees a lot of the Romance of a new relationship disappear.

When a relationship is new the sky is the limit. Girls will plan their wedding, tell all their friends how amazing it is, and even picture having your babies. Just like a new toy it's appeal and romance goes away.

What you should do is get away. Take her and yourself to a place away from all the reality.

Go some place where you can have an adventure together. Bolder climbing, Cave Exploring, Mt. Biking, Camping, etc. Make sure it is far enough away to leave the depression of her friends leaving and keep it live. When she brings up the depressing stuff listen than change the subject.

 

[inzone50]

i need more answers

 

[inzone50]

yow is it so hard to type ur opinion?