Explain to me in a serious, non insulting way, why women do this?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Now what I have recently begun to notice is that sometimes (or a lot of times, depending on how much I choose to ignore it or focus on other things) women will say that they like you, will text you and tell you some **** like they dreamt of having sex with you and stuff and that they'd do it all over again just like in the dream (yes, this is actually what happened in my situation). So basically I told her, let's try it. She's down, and even asks if I'm joking and I'd say what i usually say: You don't joke around or play games with these kind of things. No biggy, she's dtf. But then the cop out "oh I thought you were joking like you usually do". Well, I facepalm and feel like backhanding the b!tch with the power of Thor, but keep my cool. Keep my actions consistent and congruent, as if it didn't phase me at all. It did bother me and give me a sickly feeling for the first 45 minutes when she copped out but after that I was fine.

Now I wouldn't be typing this whole thing up if this ***** wasn't completely off my mind. But the problem is, when I went nc (about 5 hours ago) she has sent me over 150 texts. It looks a little something like this:
http://www.buzzfeed.com/hgrant/this-is-what-crazy-looks-like-via-text-messaging though not as bad (Jesus, the measures I would take to get that girl to shut up is beyond me lol).

What she got me wondering though is, if women won't fvck you or do ANYTHING with you, why the hell do they still want you around? And why will they keep telling you that they're horny and that they basically do want to fvck you but still won't?

I don't want any replies where you all are bashing women for being 'inferior' or too 'emotional' or any of that either. Just serious, non-insulting answers

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I just don't take women seriously anymore. If I ain't hooking up with her than she is not worth stressing over.

 

[EFFORT]

As a rule of thumb sex has to "just happen". Even if she describes it like that in detail. A lot of explanations, anti slut defense, society programming, etc. No need to get upset though, the situation sounds like a lay up. Invite her over to watch a movie/have dinner and tell her that no sex is happening whatsoever, you're on your period and feel fat. Be fun and physical when she comes over but keep with the theme that no sex is happening. Stay physical tickle, kiss, pull away, massage, kiss, pull away, eventually she'll cave in.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

The answer is simple: you never communicate with words, but rather actions.

By telling her you were interested and making your intentions clear, she got less horny. If you were mysterious and responded "Hmmm.. Maybe, if you're a good girl" then she would have been really trying to be a 'good girl' for you so she could fvck you.

Recently (last week) had a girl do this to me, it's a sh!t test in a way. Long story short, we had boned in the past but I got back into her and I was making a reference to something different, and told her to guess what it was. She said that it was third base. I told her it was the coffee I was willing to try if she bought it for me. She laughed and teared up out of embarrassment on the phone.

Next day, not only did I get to third base with her, I fvcked her pvssy so hard her eyes were rolling all around. Funny thing is, they don't want you to show interest with words. They want you to lead the way and get what you want, like a real man. From day one, I told her that's how I am. Around her, (I hate to use this terminology) my alpha characteristics really become pronounced. And she's damn fine.

Next time keep your mouth shut. Tell her something like "funny that you feel that way" or something snarky, just because you can be that way. Tonight at the grocery store I saw two friends and had a lengthy convo with them, and this HB with a great ass in those yoga short shorts walks by in headphones. I told them "Hold up" and told her to take out the headphones. Of course she did (women respond well to commands). Ended up with the number as my sister walked past me haha. Friends were amazed.

Morale of the story: women want to be told / shown what to do. Talk initiative.

Sorry for the rambling, I'm a bit drunk haha.

I get what you're saying, but I barely actually talk to her. I have put myself in the best possible position with her, to the point where everyone around me is saying to me "bro, she wants the d" cuz she makes it obvious, but the thing is, when it all comes down to it, she'll cop out.

Come to think of it though, I was told that she is a prude by some people. But this kinda stuff is total bs. She wants to **** me but at the same time doesn't. Like come on girl, make up your mind already, you can't choose both, lol.

As a rule of thumb sex has to "just happen". Even if she describes it like that in detail. A lot of explanations, anti slut defense, society programming, etc. No need to get upset though, the situation sounds like a lay up. Invite her over to watch a movie/have dinner and tell her that no sex is happening whatsoever, you're on your period and feel fat. Be fun and physical when she comes over but keep with the theme that no sex is happening. Stay physical tickle, kiss, pull away, massage, kiss, pull away, eventually she'll cave in.

I think you are somewhat right cuz I've been kinoing w/ mostly nonsexual. I'll give this a try next time.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's a power trip of sorts. Some women like to dangle the carrot to see if you jump on it.

I prefer to call them out on it. "Yeah sure. You're all talk and no action."

Then see if she goes for your zipper lol. If she doesn't, you at least called her bluff and did it in a way that didn't seem too hungry/eager.

 

[RangerMIke]

The answer is simple: you never communicate with words, but rather actions.

This. It all about the moment for a women, they are very emotional. One minute they are totally into you and the next... nothing. The biggest problem men have is they talk too much. The words coming out of your mouth are irrelevant to the actions she can read in your body.

A woman comes right out and tells you she's DTF, you really should be saying anything, accept "Sooo...what would you do to me?" and start ramping up your kino.

To be successful with women you have to learn how to communicate emotionally with her. Rather than say "Certainly, I would love to have sex with you." (GAG!) Just look her in the eyes and imagine you are fvcking her and that she is enjoying the heck out of it. I don't know how they know, but they can freaking read your mind and pick up on this.... if they like what you are thinking they will respond in kind.

 

[Trump]

What she got me wondering though is, if women won't fvck you or do ANYTHING with you, why the hell do they still want you around? And why will they keep telling you that they're horny and that they basically do want to fvck you but still won't?

I don't want any replies where you all are bashing women for being 'inferior' or too 'emotional' or any of that either. Just serious, non-insulting answers

Bro if you are asking this type of question you have a lot of learning ahead of you. Just because someone says something doesn't mean they will or have to follow through.

Politicians give a reason to their country to go and invade another country, kill lots of people, then a week later come on tv and smile and say "oh, sorry that wasn't the reason we caused death and destruction, but what can you do. It's good we did anyway."

CEOs spin things as much and as far as possible as long as the public invests in their product. When the company struggles, the CEO says "people weren't spending money, not my fault." He gets his massive payout, moves on.

Now just because a hot women says she wants to have sex with you, she has to follow through? Come on bro. I'm afraid if you get into a business deal with a pretty girl she will sweet talk you and take all your money.

You got to pay attention.

 

[SeymourCake]

They're d!ck teasing you. They just want to know if they're capable of getting laid without doing the act itself. It's another form of validation. They're still seeing it they still "got it".

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

OK new question: is it still worth persuing/persisting?

 

[nismo-4]

Attention wh0ring. Never take women seriously.

I have a one strike policy for all new women. Mixed signals and many other signs of disinterest will have me delete the number and move on. I ain't got time to waste on a girl who won't put out.

Actions over words.