Explain this to me

[styleman]

Ok so basically ive never asked a girl out and girls have always asked me out, or put me in a position that they are asking me out im just saying the words.

I dont think im wrong in thinking that its the guy who normally asks the girl out.

Im not bad looking but im nothing special either, im even a bit overweight at 5 ft 8inches tall and 75kilos.

I would say im a confident person, but im still human, certain situations intimidate me, including hot girls, and these girls im talking about are hot, they have intimidated me at times.

The kind of words i get from girls,

"so are you into me?"

"what do you think of 'us'" big emphasis when she said us.

Another girl ccomes over to my place with a friend of mine, id never met her before and within about an hour shes in bed with me and my friend has long gone.

Im not bigging myself up at all, ive failed with girls before. I cant say that ive ever been shut down on by a girl, or theyve ever been rude to me, so stories of that happening baffle me, but then again asive said i dont really approach girls they te d to approach me.

Anyone can shed some light on this???

 

[trrush]

yeah ugly fat girls like you, so what?
you're just internet boasting, cut that stupid **** out, it's childish.

 

[styleman]

yeah ugly fat girls like you, so what?
you're just internet boasting, cut that stupid **** out, it's childish.

I dont think you'd call them ugly....

Not boasting, am confused. Did I touch a sore spot chap?

 

[trrush]

yeah, you touched a sore spot, now what?

 

[styleman]

yeah, you touched a sore spot, now what?

Call your mummy....

Oh and keep your useless comments to yourself, thanks.

 

[trrush]

called. she said that the persona you're trying to portray in this post doesn't match what you said in your previous ones.
good luck to you.

 

[ArcBound]

Dunno, it has happened to me before as well.

 

[Iceberg]

Ok so basically ive never asked a girl out and girls have always asked me out, or put me in a position that they are asking me out im just saying the words.

Girls ask me out too. I'm sure most semi-attractive, cool guys will get asked out. It's just that you don't want to build your entire game around NOT asking girls out because it's unreliable. The only reliable way to get your choice of women is to take initiative and ask them out.

It's like, a bear walks down to the river, and occasionally a salmon will swim right into his mouth. But if he really wants to eat regularly, he better learn to hunt.

 

[kentgraham10]

To be honest my first reaction was that the girls weren't that good looking. Even if they were attractive, I GUARANTEE that you have seen a girl before that you wanted to approach but simply didn't have the skills or confidence to strike. Although its limited, let me speak from experience.

Even before I improved myself (physically, mentally), girls would express their interest in me. Out of all those encounters over the course of about three years (senior in HS to sophomore in college), I would say about 3 of them were a HB5 or better (one was a 7 in my books but that's only because she fit my type almost perfectly with one or two exceptions). So will girls (even girls you may find attractive) approach you? It's definitely not out of the realm of possibly. However...

I think the point on coming to this site is you don't want to settle with one 7 approaching you in three years at college. Instead, you want to be able to go out there with the confidence to approach ANY girl you find attractive. I'm still working on it, and the results aren't spectacular, but now I am confident to talk to anyone in my classes (alpha males/hb7 and above). Even if you can't get in bed with a girl you are going after, at least you put yourself out there. I'm still working on this and I suggest you do too. No reason why you should limit yourself by waiting for girls to approach you.

 

[styleman]

Girls ask me out too. I'm sure most semi-attractive, cool guys will get asked out. It's just that you don't want to build your entire game around NOT asking girls out because it's unreliable. The only reliable way to get your choice of women is to take initiative and ask them out.

It's like, a bear walks down to the river, and occasionally a salmon will swim right into his mouth. But if he really wants to eat regularly, he better learn to hunt.

Very true, only thing is, perhaps I missed the point in my first post that I was persuing these girls and I would say they were at least HB7s. The girl who asked what do you think of us is a HB9/10 in anyone's book.

I did persue them. The only thing is I never had the guts to ask them out, be a gf whatever or make the first sexual move, they did that and that's why the success baffels me.

 

[SoSuaveDude]

Very true, only thing is, perhaps I missed the point in my first post that I was persuing these girls and I would say they were at least HB7s. The girl who asked what do you think of us is a HB9/10 in anyone's book.

I did persue them. The only thing is I never had the guts to ask them out, be a gf whatever or make the first sexual move, they did that and that's why the success baffels me.

Nice! how old are you and these chicks, and where are you finding them at brah?

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Very true, only thing is, perhaps I missed the point in my first post that I was persuing these girls and I would say they were at least HB7s. The girl who asked what do you think of us is a HB9/10 in anyone's book.

I did persue them. The only thing is I never had the guts to ask them out, be a gf whatever or make the first sexual move, they did that and that's why the success baffels me.

What's there to be baffled about? Unless we're talking about dozens and dozens of women, it sounds normal to me.

I'm glad for you. But this type of thing isn't rare. Unless, like I said, we're talking about some absurd number of women. And you're just sitting at a bar stool, enjoying your beer while women shove their hands down your pants.

...And if that's the case, you're obviously some movie star.

If we're talking about you spending months talking to girls, not asking them out, and then they finally do it.....well yeah, that happens. Sometimes it even happens without spending months talking to them.

No need to be baffled.