Explain HB9's behavior please?

[GoodForm]

Have known her for a while but there is nothing going on (kept her as part of my 'networking'). Met her for lunch as she has started working full time. Things started off great until we got to the cafe. I saw a hb7 working at the counter I knew so had some harmless flirting and chatting as she went past everytime.

HB9 didn't seem to mind yet from lunch then onwards her enthusiasm and bubbliness dropped greatly. When we normally kino alot, we didn't today. We even went to a different cafe because she said she had no money on her card (although we went to an atm for her to grab some cash). I mean she was still talking to me asking me all these questions but it seemed there was something on her mind.

 

[Wildebeest]

i dont know much but...

people/girls respond to perceived competition differently
some will give up
some will lift and try harder

she was internally conflicted by that flirty interaction with the 7 obviously. she said she had no money on card (when she did) because she wanted you to validate her by spending money on her? you hurt her self esteem when you where flirting with the 7. some girls arent aware of where they are in terms of attraction, perhaps she doesnt know she is far more attractive than the 7?

 

[Mike32ct]

Have known her for a while but there is nothing going on (kept her as part of my 'networking'). Met her for lunch as she has started working full time. Things started off great until we got to the cafe. I saw a hb7 working at the counter I knew so had some harmless flirting and chatting as she went past everytime.

HB9 didn't seem to mind yet from lunch then onwards her enthusiasm and bubbliness dropped greatly. When we normally kino alot, we didn't today. We even went to a different cafe because she said she had no money on her card (although we went to an atm for her to grab some cash). I mean she was still talking to me asking me all these questions but it seemed there was something on her mind.

I can only think of two possibilities:

1. She's attracted to you and got really jealous, almost hurt that you were flirting with the other girl.

2. She's not attracted to you, but considers you an "orbiter" of sorts. It still hurts an HB to lose a PRIMARY orbiter. They don't want the orbiter to succeed with ANY female. He must just remain floating "in orbit" providing HER with lots of attention ONLY.