Experts on Human Mating - Interest Gauging

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These are apparently from "experts" on human mating. I didn't come up with these. I just copied and pasted them elsewhere and posted them here.

I have no idea if this has ever been posted in our forums. But regardless, I think these are some good indicators of whether a girl is interested or not.

Even if it has been posted before its not a bad thing to mull over these again for remembrance sake.






Experts on human mating state that women may display the following signals when they are interested in you:

1. She blushes in your presence.

2. She plays with her hair in your presence.

3. She walks past you more than once. She is trying to get your attention.

4. She keeps looking at you. She can not take her eyes of you.

5. She shows some flesh in your presence, like pulling on her collar or lifting up her dress.

6. She moves closer to you.

7. Her chest is facing you.

8. She smiles at you with a full set of teeth; not just the upper row.

9. She stays near you for most of the night.

10. Her head tilts slightly down when you look at her; especially if she is blushing at the same time.

11. Her shoulders are slightly raised when she is talking with you.

12. Her arms are open and to the side when you talk to her.

13. Her pupils are enlarged when you make eye contact with her.

14. She licks her lips in your presence.

15. Her head is tilted slightly to the side when you talk to her.

16. She breaks apart from her group of friends to talk to you.

17. You are with a group of people and she talks to you more often than anyone in the group.

18. She asks you questions about yourself.

19. She laughs at all of your jokes.

20. She says that you are cute. (Obvious)

21. She tells you something personal about herself.

22. She compliments one of your clothing items.

23. She asks for a cigarette or for a light.

24. She asks for the time.

25. She makes verbal contact with you before you make verbal contact with her.

26. She mentions that she is recently out of a relationship.

27. She says something overtly sexual to you; even if it is in a joking manner.

28. Her attitude is more playful with you than with other members of the group.

29. She touches you in any way.

30. She gives you any kind of compliment.


Experts on human mating state that women may display the following signals when they are not interested in you:

1. She has her arms crossed in your presence.

2. She turns her back to you.

3. She turns her shoulder to you; i.e. giving you the cold shoulder.

4. She appears stiff in your presence.

5. Her legs are tightly crossed in your presence.

6. She does not make eye contact with you.

7. She pretends that she does not notice you.

8. She talks to friends instead of you.

9. She does not display any emotion when you make your approach.

10. She clings to her friend when you approach her.

11. She pretends she is lost in the music when you make your approach.

12. She does not smile back at you.

13. Her head tilt is perfectly strait.

14. She does not raise her shoulders at all when you make your approach.

15. Her lips are pursed in your presence.
 

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Yeah I figured it was worthy of a post. Haha

I find a lot of guys on here always ask whether or not a girl is interested in them or if a girl likes them. These are some of the best ways to find out, without fully asking them.
 

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Great stuff!

But the sad thing is that a lot of guys who frequent this site won't have the balls and man the fvck up and approach!
 

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om1xr said:
Great stuff!

But the sad thing is that a lot of guys who frequent this site won't have the balls and man the fvck up and approach!
Yeah I agree.

At the end of the day it all comes down to fear.

If a person isn't able to confront their fears of approaching women then they will never be good with women.

Monogamy as the end goal or not, the man that goes out and talks to 10'000 women has FAR greater options, becomes less needy and clingy, ends up getting the best girlfriend because HE chooses her, and ultimately ends up in the powerful state of abundance, as opposed to the guy who just sits around and waits for the girl to approach him and ends up settling for the first girl that shows a little interest.

'Tis a sad thing to see a whole life toiled away just because of the presence of fear. A lot of people will avoid achieving something they KNOW will make their life 100000000x better just because of the obstacle of fear. Fear only exists in the mind. This is why I propagate confronting ones fears head on with boldness. The best life is one with fearlessness.

But yeah, these interest gauging techniques will be of far greater use to the guy who approaches a lot of women, no doubt.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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good post buddy
If you can find, get this book
the body language project, it has many more points like above
 

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narcissist said:
Yeah I agree.

At the end of the day it all comes down to fear.

If a person isn't able to confront their fears of approaching women then they will never be good with women.

Monogamy as the end goal or not, the man that goes out and talks to 10'000 women has FAR greater options, becomes less needy and clingy, ends up getting the best girlfriend because HE chooses her, and ultimately ends up in the powerful state of abundance, as opposed to the guy who just sits around and waits for the girl to approach him and ends up settling for the first girl that shows a little interest.

'Tis a sad thing to see a whole life toiled away just because of the presence of fear. A lot of people will avoid achieving something they KNOW will make their life 100000000x better just because of the obstacle of fear. Fear only exists in the mind. This is why I propagate confronting ones fears head on with boldness. The best life is one with fearlessness.

But yeah, these interest gauging techniques will be of far greater use to the guy who approaches a lot of women, no doubt.
I started long ago, to "approach" based on the fact, in my mind, that, I'd have to approach these women if I wasn't off the clock, if I was on the job, so the fear is just not there when you are forced to approach women in your daily routine job, so I just transferred that to what I do in my time off, which is, treat it 'as if' I was still at work, except at night, so I coulda been a secret investigator whatever, security, whatever, she doesn't know me from Adam, and I'm role playing 'as if' I am on the clock at some job that requires me to be in the bars at night investigating these women (for instance, I've been hired as a private investigator to get the dirt on these chicks to relay to their husbands/boyfriends). It was easy, then.
 
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