Expert DJ's HELP ME!!!

[keyforit]

****ing bs friends in highschool man... this guy i know who i thought was my best friend because we always chill and **** decided to tell my girlfriend I was cheating on her because me and him got in a fight. That is so ****ing messed up, he went behind my back and told my girlfriend I was cheating on her, but the real mest up part is that the girl I was cheating on her with was her good friend. Ouch, i know. To make things spicier the girl was my ex girlfriend, i started to keep them both on the DL because they had a fight and ****. Dude basically i don't have my good friends anymore because they all think i'm an *******, but hey real friends are the ones that are there no matter what u do wrong. No friends, no girlfriend, no scam partner, no nothing. My girlfriend left me thursday when she found out! the day right before my ****ing prom, I was so pissed cause she didn't want to go with me and she sold me out in the last minute. Luckily I found a replacement that night. ANyway I still want something with my ex ex girlfriend(the girl i used to cheat on my girlfriend with) but she says she can't trust me or believe me. Is there any ****ing way I can win her back? I don't want to leave this girl alone cause she gives some pretty mean head!!! LOL HELLLPPP ME!! THANKS TO ANYONE WITH INPUT! Later

 

[Eternal]

For the love of...

Let me start off by saying: you are an idiot! Why did you cheat on your girlfriend in the first place!? Furthermore, why did you cheat on her with your ex-girlfriend, who is also her friend? You were asking for it right there...then you want to get back with your ex ex? You have a LOT to learn! Start reading...NOW!!

 

[keyforit]

ok first off y0 i have serious game cause i had them both on the downlow and it was going good for about 2 weeks. It would of worked if the only person who knew about it wouldn't have snitched!!! anyway i learned from the mistake and i want the girl back simple as that man. Is this situation a little too crazy for even you crazykid? You didn't give me any real advice there buddy.

 

[Eternal]

I'm not going to comment on your "serious game." Here's the number on question: why did you cheat in the first place? Next, you cheated using your ex, but did SHE know you were cheating? If not, there's a reason she won't trust you, and she won't go back for you, no matter how hard you try. Face that fact. Answer the first question though, it should be interesting to read.

 

[Da Game]

All I can say is that's the risk you take when you cheat. Breaking promises to people is really, really not cool... And what the fvck were you thinking, doing it with one of her FRIENDS? Did you really expect it to NOT get back to her?

If you want to sleep around (which is cool) don't tell girls you're going exclusive with them when you're not. Outright lying is not nice.

I will say that your friend sucks though. Ratting out another guy ain't cool - though he shouldn't have had anything to rat you out about in the first place. Consider this a learning experience, and have a little integrity in the future.

 

[jmm854]

Dude basically i don't have my good friends anymore because they all think i'm an *******

Maybe that's because you are an *sshole. If you won't take responsibility for your actions then don't act.

 

[PimpWannabe]

You are one goddamn crazy kid, your extremely lucky that you where
able to last as long as you did before getting caught. Though your friend
may have been and a**hole for ratting you out you still wouldve have gotten caught soon anyway. Of all the people to cheat on your gf with, her best friend...you better get yourself a new girl quick cause badnews like that spreads damn quick.

 

[keyforit]

Ok yeah you guys have good points, but really the fact of the matter was that I acted upon emotions rather than intelligence, heart rather than mind. I still liked my ex girl so when she was running to me i accepted it and because I was too foolish to use my mind I jepoardized the **** I had with my girlfriend.
Look guys I know this isnt the easiest problem to deal with, but could you atleast try and give me a real solution besides the whole guilt trip? I appreciate your input and everything, but I know all that already I just need to know what I can do so I can stay with my ex ex girlfriend. Thanks.

 

[keyforit]

Originally posted by jmm854
Maybe that's because you are an *sshole. If you won't take responsibility for your actions then don't act.

And seriously dude It was a mistake. My good friend wanted to ruin my prom night by having my date leave me, he didn't ruin the night but she did leave me. It was all plotted and he did it intentionally. I'm not going to say cheating on girls is right, but in this situation I was entangled in a web of lies from the beginning and for that reason I went along with everything that was brought to me. See when I left my ex ex girlfriend to go out with her friend(ex girl now) I began to develop lies and lies as no one knew anything about it. As time progressed one lie led to another and there was a explosion at the end. It was a mistake and I have learned from it all. If I ever do cheat again I'm not telling a soul and I'm not cheating on friends. LoL

But really the truth is my ex ex girlfriend is the one i care about, I did this all for her so why can't she understand that and come back with me? The fear of people finding out?

 

[Sammo]

Okay i see you have been through the guilt trip, well since we don't know any of the people you have told us, apart from what you have told us, we don't actually know if it's possible to get your ex ex back. Even if you told us about her, we still wouldn't have enough info because it would be from your perspective and you don't know what goes on in her head.

But don't try to learn how the engine works, just drive the car! You can spend hours analysing what makes her tick and what could get her back but in the end would it really be worth it? I mean, you could spend a long time figuring everything out, or you could just make a move and see the easy way.

As i see it, you have 2 options:

1. Forget about it, and resume normally, start focusing on finding new girls and brushing up on your game.

2. Give ex ex girlfriend the chance to be with you, and if she says no, then your left with option number 1.

Hope that helped.

 

[keyforit]

Yeah i'm going to use option 2 in a spicier type of way. I'm going to make her feel sorry when she says no. Looks like i'm going to have problems meeting girls in school because of cheating reputation, but I can work something out. thanks

 

[keyforit]

Anyone else with suggestions?

 

[ilyadaimpaler]

suggestions for what?

think about man, just get yourself out of this situation, plenty of other girls in the sea.

and one question, why did your best friend decide to ruin your prom night?

 

[BMW]

SO, let me get this straight...you were not faithful to your GF and you feel that you deserve a faithful friend who will not betray you? Kind of a poetic justice if you ask me.....you betray your girl and your friend betrays you. This will be the story of your life until you decide you have had enough of your "serious game"

 

[keyforit]

Well I guess who I thought was my real friend really wasn't eh? People can backstab you at times, even the people you never imagine. I don't think I deserve anything, but honestly my ex girl knew I liked her friend and she knows I did everything to make her happy so why the **** is every1 pointing the finger at me. Stupid ass *****es. I hate hs girls.

 

[es_mer8]

No, a true friend will have your back, even if you do stupid **** and they'll trust that you'll find the right path. There is a quote my friend always says about girls that I feel is 100%: bros before hos. Its true. Girls come and go but if you got a good friend, then you're in a better position. This guy is not your friend. He probably thought he could get in their pants if he told them. Forget the moron, the ex, and the ex ex. Get new friends and girls. Beware of the LFN though; if you're considered a dog by girls, that can cripple your opportunities.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by keyforit
Yeah i'm going to use option 2 in a spicier type of way. I'm going to make her feel sorry when she says no. Looks like i'm going to have problems meeting girls in school because of cheating reputation, but I can work something out. thanks

Oh for the love of...yeah, great idea, guilt her into going for you...that should work . Try to work something out? Pardon me while I .

 

[keyforit]

ok when i'm getting head i'll remember that. Nice guys finish last u dork.

 

[Da Game]

Originally posted by keyforit
ok when i'm getting head i'll remember that. Nice guys finish last u dork.

Dude, just get over them. There's gonna be tons of baggage and likely no easy action out of this situation. Find new girls.