experiments and games

[iqqi]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
Is this guy famous? If so can you give me a few hints about who he is and what type of music he plays?

hahaha, only in my town (and the surrounding area). he is in a local group that is critically acclaimed, so to speak.

why, sound like someone you know?

 

[MysteryWoman]

Is he well on the way to becoming famous? (no I don't know him), I only thought that famous musicians get groupies (not that I am calling you one)

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by iqqi
my previous diagnosis was correct. he has a super huge ego. used to groupie chics, relies on the popularity of his band to create IL.

so i'm not going to any of his concerts (for atleast a month), and i may not answer the phone when he calls back. i don't want to hear anymore about his damn band!

this is something i said earlier in the thread, if you read.

i am positive that he is used to chics liking him solely based on the fact that he is on a stage (a pedestal so to speak), with an audience. and i am sure he knows that this is something that works for him. so you are right on that count, and i am trying to figure out how to proceed with a character like this.

BTW, if anything, his celebrity would cause me to shy away and not take him seriously. it was his persistance towards me and sh!t that made me give him a chance.

i have groupies on my own, i am too ****y to be a groupie or part of any "male fan club" for that matter.

 

[Slickster]

You've got to be kidding iqqi

You call a female toying with a guys emotions an experiment???

Sounds like daily routine to me. Most women are experts at this.

Throughout your experimenting, toying, gameplaying, and general f*cking with people's heads I am very curious to know exactly what it is that you are learning here?

Is it maybe that a young, attractive woman can pretty much get anything she wants from a guy by playing head games and being manipulative???

I'm pretty sure we all know that anyway.

Apologies for the flaming iqqi but this post just doesn't seem like you. Are you in a bad head space or something?

I think the only real thing you are going to learn with this experiment is that game playing, toying, and head games only result in a loss of respect. Unfortunately, for you.

 

[iqqi]

Re: You've got to be kidding iqqi

Originally posted by Slickster
Throughout your experimenting, toying, gameplaying, and general f*cking with people's heads I am very curious to know exactly what it is that you are learning here?

Is it maybe that a young, attractive woman can pretty much get anything she wants from a guy by playing head games and being manipulative???

hi slick. have you read the whole thread? what about my response to PRL on page 3? if you say the same thing after reading that, alright.

but i am not a game player, at all. this is just a learning experience, i am sure the guys involved will be alright. neither of them are AFC's.

i am experimenting. i think that one is narrowminded if they never try things in another way than their own once in awhile.

most of my experiments actually tend to involve DJ bible tactics, so...whats the prob?

 

[Slickster]

Hi iqqi, just re-read your response to PRL

so i guess what is really going on here is i am not good at people coming in and out of my life. this is basically an experiment to try and change my mind. i want to be able to enjoy these indivuals i meet and grow to love, and not be devestated when i have to let them go. (it is usually me who walks away from the situation, after the player has fcuked up somehow).

i am trying to learn to love, and let go.

Letting go of someone you love is NEVER easy. Why would you want to be "good" at that? The only way to get "good" at letting go is to never love in the first place. Which is quite sad really.

and at the same time, i am trying new things. i am a very honest person, very free spirited. so i do what i want. this tends to mean i can get caught up easily in another, because i never play games. if i want to see a guy, i see him. if i like him, i let him know. which leads many times to me being taken for granted, and a tragic ending, as i don't play around.

You sound like a dream girl to me. If this is really how you are then you are a RARE individual. Being taken for granted sucks. I have quite a bit of experience there too. However its probably our own faults for choosing the people we do to get close to.

so i thought that i'd try things most girls do, just to see what happens. it is not to intentionally hurt anyone, although i am only being honest when i say it is manipulative and playing with emotions. these cats are going to be fine, though, if you are concerned with their well being. i will end up loving who they are as a person, knowing me. i can't go too far romatically with anyone i don't really like, anyways.

Don't be so quick to think they'll be okay. I truly believe in karma in this world. Especially when it comes to love and relationships. Be careful.

so it is about trying new things, just to see what i can see. ya know?

You definately are a curious one aren't you? My advice is to stick to your guns. Keep it real. Stick to higher ground. Continue being the most excellent iqqi you can possibly be and forget about the games.

P.S. If you were here right now I'd give you a hug and a great big smooch.

Have a great Christmas!

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by Slickster
P.S. If you were here right now I'd give you a hug and a great big smooch.

Have a great Christmas!

aww, shucks!!

what do i get for my birthday? (xmas eve)

 

[Slickster]

Yeah, yeah excuse the sappiness.

But its X-mas and I'm just trying to spread some love.

 

[phloyd]

iggi,

I don't really think anything you've done with this guy so far would be considered game playing. I think honestly, weather you admit it to yourself or not, you really dug this guy to start with.

I think you are tired of being in relationships that don't work out and are looking to take a new direction like an AD process of weeding out type thing. Everyone should be doing this anyway.

If you've never tried this, than indeed it would be an experiment.

The main reason I replied to this thread is it goes along with a wierd phenomenon that I've never witnessed (4 times this year so far) until lately.

The situation is that various girls I'm acquainted with will totally badmouth some guy they know or a guy they just met. Some guy they shot down in a bar or just a mutual friend they seem to dislike.............THEN a few days later, they're dating the guy!

Maybe I've just never noticed or maybe its just because I talk to a lot more girls than I used to.


I agree with you that you failed the experiment.....It only took him a couple of days to get a date with you. Try harder on your next experiment.

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by phloyd
I agree with you that you failed the experiment.....It only took him a couple of days to get a date with you. Try harder on your next experiment.

it took him like 7 months to even get the number, phloyd my man.

the experiment has just begun!

you are confused as to why the girls you notice badmouth a guy, then date him? i can't tell you what is up with them. i have experienced it vice versa, with a guy bad mouthing me, when i knew he really wanted me. i think he did it to get my attention.

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but in this case we speak of here, with playarappaboy, i didn't bad mouth him. although i was pretty patronizing and sardonic when responding to his stares. i have an impression of him as being a brat, basically. but i found his persistence on me intriguing and flattering, so i gave him a chance (my #). and he is winning me over as he appears to be intelligent and artistic.

so wish him luck.

Originally posted by phloyd
I think you are tired of being in relationships that don't work out and are looking to take a new direction like an AD process of weeding out type thing. Everyone should be doing this anyway.

If you've never tried this, than indeed it would be an experiment.

exactly correct. what is AD process? antidump?

 

[Player_Supreme]

Re: Re: experiments and games

Originally posted by crazykid
Sure, I'll do it with you and I bet it'll be fun.

You took some of the words outta my mouth! except let me add it will be addicting, cause I'm like a drug. Your first hit and your hooked for life! hahahaha!

 

[phloyd]

iggi,

Maybe I'm just a little unclear of the whole situation. In my mind I guess I thought the experiment just started a few days ago after he got your #. Anyway at this point you said "He seems to be a nonclassy, bratty, enflamed ego player". In my humble opinion, that seems like what I would consider badmouthing or at least that you didn't think highly of him.

But, his persistence prevailed and within two days, you now see him as "intellegent and artistic". That just seems like a quick turnaround to me.

When I said AD I was refering to antidump. I'm sure you're familier with the weeding out thing. The machine to filter out the bad eggs.

It just seems like you came around for this guy pretty quick.(or have you?)

Anyway good luck with your experiment. I hope it will be a good learning experience..............Plus I'm a little curious as to what will happen next.

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by phloyd
Maybe I'm just a little unclear of the whole situation. In my mind I guess I thought the experiment just started a few days ago after he got your #. Anyway at this point you said "He seems to be a nonclassy, bratty, enflamed ego player". In my humble opinion, that seems like what I would consider badmouthing or at least that you didn't think highly of him.

But, his persistence prevailed and within two days, you now see him as "intellegent and artistic". That just seems like a quick turnaround to me.

It just seems like you came around for this guy pretty quick.(or have you?)

ok, i can clear this up easy! the number was given due to persistence (during those 7 or so months of pretty much stalking me), even though i still had less than stellar impressions of him.

but i am openminded, and the turn around is coming from getting to actually know him. i seen him as intelligent and artistic when i hung out with him for the first time last night. before then i had never even given him a chance to really speak to me.

i still think he is most likely ego enflamed, seeing as he is a performer. and i am sure he is a player, as some of his moves last night were textbook. (i laughed at him, my version of a neghit for players).

i am able to experiment because i am not too invested in any outcome. as a matter of fact i have a date with my other variable, rico, in one hour.

i'll be stepping into the lion's den, sosuavers, and i confess i am very fidgety at this moment....

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Why is this starting to sound like a HBO BOXING special? Both of you are sizing each other up and trying desperately to read each other moves. Its like Player vs DonnaJuana ... who is going to win? *Crowd goes wild for IQQI*

P.S: Hope this helped me get bonus points so I can get you into my bed and **** the living daylights out of you ... erm ... I mean sweet bunny lovin.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

This's sh!t !

This thread is disgusting!

All fellow Djs out there! Read this thread and beware of girls like iqqi that have no conscience of their actions and no notion of what is to be played with your feelings!

Those are the ones that turn good guys into bitter and hopeless people!

Beware with female games like those!

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Re: Re: experiments and games

Originally posted by Eternal
Sure, I'll do it with you and I bet it'll be fun.

yeah lets all do it !!!
were nothing but mammals

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Re: This's sh!t !

Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
This thread is disgusting!

All fellow Djs out there! Read this thread and beware of girls like iqqi that have no conscience of their actions and no notion of what is to be played with your feelings!

Those are the ones that turn good guys into bitter and hopeless people!

Beware with female games like those!

theres nothing wrong with being bitter
but being hopless is suicidal.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Re: Re: This's sh!t !

Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
theres nothing wrong with being bitter
but being hopless is suicidal.

Oh yeah, being bitter is a fantastic thing!

The point about "being hopless is suicidal" is correct!

 

[B9]

whatever happened to iqqi? thought she was an interesting poster myself.