Brains&Instinct
Don Juan
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Hi all,
Some strange story here, in which I tried some stuff, and it worked!
I met a girl at a family party a month ago. I didn't talk to her because she resembled to my previous gf too much. But at the end of the party we were standing in a small group talking about something. I didn't say much. Suddenly she said something like "I think depressed people have a more accurate self-image." I found that intriguing so I said to her "Did you figure that out yourself?" She didn't respond. I thought she wasn't interested in answering my question. I left the party.
Two days later this girl mails me (she moved heaven and earth to find my email adress) and wants to write "philosophical" mails to me. I think ok, but after one long mail in which I showed what I thought about some deep stuff, I realized this is not what a DJ should do. So I decided to try to write more DJ-mails, being very mysterious, gradually working towards a more sexual kind of correspondence. This started with some small joke she made and that I interpreted sexually. Positive response and the horny mails began...
At this point I saw she was desperately falling in love with me, having seen me only once very shortly (at the party). She wanted to meet me. I said no a couple of times, telling I had no time (we live rather far apart). In the end I thought ok, let her come over and I'll be able to see what I caused in her little head.
So she comes over, I try to be mysterious, not showing too much interest (which I also didn't have by the way, makes things easier, it was just practice). I thought let's drive her as crazy as possible. So I set up an ACTION DATE. I didn't tell her what we were going to do, but said she should bring some sport clothes (made her curiosity level rise like hell, and my mystery level
).
We had a drink, then I took her rock climbing (actually indoor wall climbing, there are no serious rocks where I live) And I can assure you her adrenaline was flowing when hanging at 20m above ground level .
Afterwards we went for a drink and I took her to a restaurant I reserved (everything very planned!!!).
She already tried to kiss me twice, but I didn't go with it. I always broke the 'atmosphere'.
But after the restaurant I thought, well ok, let's give her the kiss. So we kissed.
It was late already and she missed her train. Since she lived 1 hour far (by car), I drove her home. On the road I thought let's do something exciting. She was touching my face and hair while I drove. I took her hand and directed it more downwards, to more interesting places . I figured I had to fill up so I parked near a gas station along the highway. It was dark, almost no other cars. So we started to make out. I said let's go to the back seat. So we did. She had no problem with me removing her bra, kissing her breasts, rubbing her pvssy... But when I tried to take things a step further, she said she never did it before. So I stopped. I knew I didn't want an LTR with this girl (I already told her in a mail I wasn't interested in an LTR and we already talked about sex without relationships, so I assumed she would be ok with that), and I think a first time should be with someone who really cares about you (and by 'care' I mean in a more long term romantic way).
I filled up the car and drove her home.
I stopped a few streets before her house and told her I didn't want an LTR, I liked her, but didn't have romantic feelings for her.
I waited a while to be sure she would be ok and not do stupid things once in the house. I tried to comfort her as much as possible. I dropped her at the house, kissed her goodbye and left.
Now I really couldn't believe what happened. Somewhere I felt sorry for the girl. On the other hand this experience boosted my confidence enormously. During the date I was constantly wandering if I should take things further or not, knowing I didn't want her for an LTR, while she did want that (it was just obvious). But on the other hand I reasoned that a man should take what he wants and have no regrets.
What do you guys think about this? Did I go too far?
Sure it was an amazing experience.
B&I
Some strange story here, in which I tried some stuff, and it worked!
I met a girl at a family party a month ago. I didn't talk to her because she resembled to my previous gf too much. But at the end of the party we were standing in a small group talking about something. I didn't say much. Suddenly she said something like "I think depressed people have a more accurate self-image." I found that intriguing so I said to her "Did you figure that out yourself?" She didn't respond. I thought she wasn't interested in answering my question. I left the party.
Two days later this girl mails me (she moved heaven and earth to find my email adress) and wants to write "philosophical" mails to me. I think ok, but after one long mail in which I showed what I thought about some deep stuff, I realized this is not what a DJ should do. So I decided to try to write more DJ-mails, being very mysterious, gradually working towards a more sexual kind of correspondence. This started with some small joke she made and that I interpreted sexually. Positive response and the horny mails began...
At this point I saw she was desperately falling in love with me, having seen me only once very shortly (at the party). She wanted to meet me. I said no a couple of times, telling I had no time (we live rather far apart). In the end I thought ok, let her come over and I'll be able to see what I caused in her little head.
So she comes over, I try to be mysterious, not showing too much interest (which I also didn't have by the way, makes things easier, it was just practice). I thought let's drive her as crazy as possible. So I set up an ACTION DATE. I didn't tell her what we were going to do, but said she should bring some sport clothes (made her curiosity level rise like hell, and my mystery level
).We had a drink, then I took her rock climbing (actually indoor wall climbing, there are no serious rocks where I live) And I can assure you her adrenaline was flowing when hanging at 20m above ground level
.Afterwards we went for a drink and I took her to a restaurant I reserved (everything very planned!!!).
She already tried to kiss me twice, but I didn't go with it. I always broke the 'atmosphere'.
But after the restaurant I thought, well ok, let's give her the kiss. So we kissed.
It was late already and she missed her train. Since she lived 1 hour far (by car), I drove her home. On the road I thought let's do something exciting. She was touching my face and hair while I drove. I took her hand and directed it more downwards, to more interesting places
. I figured I had to fill up so I parked near a gas station along the highway. It was dark, almost no other cars. So we started to make out. I said let's go to the back seat. So we did. She had no problem with me removing her bra, kissing her breasts, rubbing her pvssy... But when I tried to take things a step further, she said she never did it before. So I stopped. I knew I didn't want an LTR with this girl (I already told her in a mail I wasn't interested in an LTR and we already talked about sex without relationships, so I assumed she would be ok with that), and I think a first time should be with someone who really cares about you (and by 'care' I mean in a more long term romantic way).I filled up the car and drove her home.
I stopped a few streets before her house and told her I didn't want an LTR, I liked her, but didn't have romantic feelings for her.
I waited a while to be sure she would be ok and not do stupid things once in the house. I tried to comfort her as much as possible. I dropped her at the house, kissed her goodbye and left.
Now I really couldn't believe what happened. Somewhere I felt sorry for the girl. On the other hand this experience boosted my confidence enormously. During the date I was constantly wandering if I should take things further or not, knowing I didn't want her for an LTR, while she did want that (it was just obvious). But on the other hand I reasoned that a man should take what he wants and have no regrets.
What do you guys think about this? Did I go too far?
Sure it was an amazing experience.
B&I