Experiences with married women?

Oscar Wilde

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I was gonna post this as a poll, but maybe some stories would be better.

Have you guys had any experiences with married women? Would you take the chance if you got it, or is it against your morals? Would you lose respect for your friend if they slept with one?

Any stories?

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I had a woman that was married and all over me all the time at work....she would tell me that they are basically not together this and that and whatever else, but me personally, I won't date a married woman. She even ended up divorcing him, and still won't leave me alone. I just use her to try out all the DJ tactics I can think of.....I think it's only working b/c I'm not interested.
 

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3 different times.. and would not do it again.

i have debated this issue till the cows come home.. there are positives and negatives..

logically it seems that its not a bad thing.. both people are happy, and the wife probably goes home in a better mood and enjoying life more. (that's if she's in a bad marriage).

it also seems to be a decision between only 2 people.. you and her.. so you might think, well its only our business anyway.. and that's probably correct in some way.

2 times, i broke it off but she wanted to continue (and couldn't work out why i wanted to stop!- but they were in bad marriages.. low IL, no time etc.), and 1 time, we both agreed.

on the other hand.. and this is why i won't do it anymore..

If i was married.. even if unhappily, and some guy was seeing my wife, knowing that she was married and goes home to her husband each day, .. i can't see myself holding a good view of him, or showing much mercy if i met him.

I believe what goes around , comes around.. and i just wouldn't like it to happen to me, so i won't do such a thing myself for honour reasons.

There are also practical reasons.. such as the hassle of trying to schedule times to meet, places, and also coming to terms that the other person is leading another life... that can be a drag.
 

Oscar Wilde

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Interesting. My experience was different - I was in the position of accepting an ONS with someone I'd never meet again (travelling). Was staying with a friend who may have known her/her husband, so didn't want to upset him.
 

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I was still married....

...when I hooked up with my present gf... does this count? Actually, at the time, my ex and I were going through with divorce. I had always had a spotless record (came close a few times) while married, and with a month left before it was final, we did the dead. It would have sucked if my ex came back and said, 'Hey lets work this out.'
 

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My ex-gf got married. Then I got married. Then we hooked up for a while. Then my wife sort of found out. Man what a mess. Still married, and would still hook up with the ex-gf, but am watched so carefully by the prison guard ... I mean by the wife, that it just isn't feasible.
 

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Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
I was in the position of accepting an ONS with someone I'd never meet again (travelling). Was staying with a friend who may have known her/her husband, so didn't want to upset him.
Actually, to tell the truth, I was too horny to pass it up - she was cute asian, I hadn't had one before, but they are very sexalicious ;)

T'was on my mates couch... next morning I told him I was too drunk to get it up even if I had wanted (he was hollerin at me). She supplied the protection, so it was hardly like it was the 1st time - how many married women carry rubbers around? :)

Life's too short!
Oscar.
 
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