Tonight i had an experience that i think will help some of you to understand what it means to be dominant.
I am a day student at a boarding school. My girlfriend is a boarder. I usually stay till about 730 at night at school to hang out with her, but then after that boarders have study hall and i usually go home. But today, my girl is all aroused and begggs me to stay till after study hall so we can ****. So i stay all through study hall, sitting by myself in the library which is humiliating, waste my whole night just so i can see her for 25 minutes after study hall.
I go get her at 930 and tell her were going to my car. She agrees, but doesn't sound super enthused like she was a couple of hours ago. So we get about half way there, and she says "this walk is soo long. theres better places than your car". I stop and say ok show me where they are. We start walking back and she names a couple of other places but she doesn't really know where to go. Now im sorta angry cause shes wasted part of my 25 minutes that i waited 2 hours for, and its too late to walk to my car and have enough time to have sex, so i'm just like i guess well just go sit somewhere.
We just sit down make out a little, but its clear neither one of us is into it. Then she says "I hate you sometimes" sorta sarcastic but sorta not. Im like what? and she says "i just really don't like you right now". Im pissed now but retain my composure. We keep talking each of us getting a little angry, and she says i quote "You should have forced me to go to your car [and have sex]".
Now, you gotta know that this girl wa forced to give a guy head once, which put her through two years of therapy and she had to leave her school. And now she wants me to force her to go to my car?
But this is how girls work. They will say they hate when guys force them to do sexual things and how it hurts them, but in realitythey want you to dominate them and force them to do what you want. This point cannot be stressed enough. I am begining to think that her complaining about going to my car was a **** test, that i failed, which is rediculous because we have been together for over 4 months. If i had just said to myself "i am here to get laid. I dont give a **** what the girl thinks", i would be happy, and she woud be happy.
In summary, do what you want. If the girl gives signs that she isnt too excited to do that thing, stop giving a **** and do it regardless. Force her and dominate her.
I am a day student at a boarding school. My girlfriend is a boarder. I usually stay till about 730 at night at school to hang out with her, but then after that boarders have study hall and i usually go home. But today, my girl is all aroused and begggs me to stay till after study hall so we can ****. So i stay all through study hall, sitting by myself in the library which is humiliating, waste my whole night just so i can see her for 25 minutes after study hall.
I go get her at 930 and tell her were going to my car. She agrees, but doesn't sound super enthused like she was a couple of hours ago. So we get about half way there, and she says "this walk is soo long. theres better places than your car". I stop and say ok show me where they are. We start walking back and she names a couple of other places but she doesn't really know where to go. Now im sorta angry cause shes wasted part of my 25 minutes that i waited 2 hours for, and its too late to walk to my car and have enough time to have sex, so i'm just like i guess well just go sit somewhere.
We just sit down make out a little, but its clear neither one of us is into it. Then she says "I hate you sometimes" sorta sarcastic but sorta not. Im like what? and she says "i just really don't like you right now". Im pissed now but retain my composure. We keep talking each of us getting a little angry, and she says i quote "You should have forced me to go to your car [and have sex]".
Now, you gotta know that this girl wa forced to give a guy head once, which put her through two years of therapy and she had to leave her school. And now she wants me to force her to go to my car?
But this is how girls work. They will say they hate when guys force them to do sexual things and how it hurts them, but in realitythey want you to dominate them and force them to do what you want. This point cannot be stressed enough. I am begining to think that her complaining about going to my car was a **** test, that i failed, which is rediculous because we have been together for over 4 months. If i had just said to myself "i am here to get laid. I dont give a **** what the girl thinks", i would be happy, and she woud be happy.
In summary, do what you want. If the girl gives signs that she isnt too excited to do that thing, stop giving a **** and do it regardless. Force her and dominate her.