Experience After First Sex

[Aragon034]

Again,


A) After loosing your virginity are you WORRIED LESSSS ABOUT SEX? (not as scared as when you were a virgin because it was an unknown experience to you)

I'd say so, it doesn't matter what it is, once you do it once, the rest of the time it gets easier.

B) Seduction becomes a template meaning...
1. u ask for her number.
2. take her out, do the talking routine
3. get laid

Again, what are you looking for? a girlfriend? a ****buddy?

C) How is your confidence level? how much did it increase
It increased a fair amount, especially when dealing with women you KNOW you'd love to screw

D) Did you loose your approach anxiety?Sure why not? I can't really comment too much on this since approaches have always been aasy for me

 

[War Against Betaism]

So let me get this straight:

Since all the DJers don't care too much about sex we are only here to learn how to chat with women and not bed them since it's not a great experience anyway?

You guys realize that this "sex is not that great" will be an excuse the next time you are gaming and fail. The way I see it, sex is more than an experience, it is checkmate. You call the shots now. But if you're still playing the game with her, then you are still her LJBF boy.

No one said sex isn't great, it's just not great as it is made out to be. It's still a wonderful experience but it's nothing to fetch like $500 or rape someone over.

 

[oakraiderz2]

No one said sex isn't great, it's just not great as it is made out to be.

Umm...its better than its made out to be. A hot girl with a banging body working your shii is pretty damn neat. Nothing beats busting a nut on a girls boobies :rock: :rockon: :cheer:

 

[War Against Betaism]

Umm...its better than its made out to be. A hot girl with a banging body working your shii is pretty damn neat. Nothing beats busting a nut on a girls boobies :rock: :rockon: :cheer:

Well I guess it goes as far as personal preferences goes, but its not valuable enough to the point where people pay loads of money for it or force to have it.

 

[verysuave]

Again,


A) After loosing your virginity are you WORRIED LESSSS ABOUT SEX? (not as scared as when you were a virgin because it was an unknown experience to you)

anyone feels the same?

 

[Maeisgood]

After I lost it the only thing I feared was girls wanting to commit to something. All men fear this. But overall, I feel so much more confident now.

Much of it is thanks to this forum and similar things. I've learned more truth about life from David D and this than from any one other source probably.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

It's sex man, not murder. You'll only 'regret' it if you don't wear a condom.

When I first got laid, I went to the bathroom, toweled off big jim and the twins and walked down to 7-11 for a big gulp. No blue birds landed on my shoulder to sing Disney songs and no ray of sunshine broke through the clouds to shine on me. Nor did I think "damn, that was terrible, I've lost all respect for myself, I'll never be the same again,...sob!" The traffic lights still worked, the busses ran on time and food still tasted good.

I've had sex with 41 women in my time, I got laid first when I was 17, I've been having sex with my wife 2-3 times a week (and a hummer on her off weeks) for more than 12 years now. Sex is a great part of life for me, not some epic experience of cosmic importance. It keeps you healthy in body as well as psychologically. It's an important part of a balanced life,..heheh.

 

[typical]

I dunno about you but when I was younger (only a few years ago actually)

It wasnt the sex that I was interested in it was the buzz of just picking a girl up you know.

I mean the sex was awesome but the thrill of the chase so to speak was even better

 

[Sin Verdad]

I was dissapointed by it. Jerking off is a much better way to get off and you have to deal with less b*ll****. Knowing you can have sex with a girl is much better than actually doing it IMO.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I was dissapointed by it. Jerking off is a much better way to get off and you have to deal with less b*ll****. Knowing you can have sex with a girl is much better than actually doing it IMO.

I would usually short myself out that way. If I think there is a potential chance I could have sex with someone in a hypothetical sence, then I'd just masturbate about it, lose interest and forget about the whole thing. After all, why buy the cow if you can have the milk in your own imagination. Besides what you imagine occuring is probably better than the real thing - there are no smells, risks, and you can be just lazy.

 

[SmoothTalker]

I know I've said before that sex is not AS good as you would expect based on how much we want it, but come on!

Some of you guys must have had some lousy sex if you'd rather wack off. It takes some getting used to the different stimulation but once you get it its definitely better than your hand, both physically and the experience in total, smells and sounds included.

As for the original question, after I lost mine I was pretty happy.. First time was actually pretty good despite what people say about it always being terrible. I did have a shift in my thinking just about how its not a big deal and "sweet, I've done it " but yeah, the world definitely doesn't change.

Surprisingly, while I was less strung up about it, I actually started wanting sex more after losing my virginity rather than less, which probably had something to do with the reenforcement of it getting better every time I did it for the first dozen times.

 

[Berlex]

mouth > my hand> vagina (with condom)

 

[SmoothTalker]

Hmm, berlex might have a point.

I realize most of you probably only have sex with condoms.

Because almost all my sexual experience was with a LTR where she was on the pill and we both got tested just to be safe, most of my sex was without a condom. It makes a HUGE difference, and how thin it is is irrelevant, the end fact is that a condom means your actually ****in a piece of latex.

I hope nobody takes this and does something stupid like have unprotected sex in a situation where it's not safe, but its something to keep in mind for those of you that say sex doesn't feel good.. When you get a chance to (safely) experience it without a condom, it definitely jumps to number one for me.

 

[Maeisgood]

Sin Verdad is correct in a way, but if you truly have a boner for someone, then go for her.

Women are extremely complicated and there is always the risk of STDs and making bastards. Atoms can be split, Mars is being mapped, the human genome is mapped, but our scientists will never be able to explain 1/2 of our population.