Tired of people complaining about sosuave? DO something about it godammit!
The reason why theres not much good stuff around here is that DJ's are limited in their thinking. The basic DJ way is
1) Be a man
2) See no. 1
w00t! We're soooOOoOoOo smart! Although one cannot argue with "Be a Man," there is more to seduction than this! We might as well change the name of the site from sosuave to Pook!
"Delete all posts not made by Pook!!!"
Pft...there is so much more than this. A few months ago, I thought I had learnt everything I needed to know about seduction (having re-read the bible about 50 million times). Then, I read "The Game" by Neil Strauss (good book btw), and realised I knew NOTHING. Then, I stumbled on Juggler's material and realised once again that I knew NOTHING. Finally, I discovered Swingcats e-book and for the third time in the space of 1 week, I realised that I knew NOTHING about seduction.
WHY OH WHY?!?! Having spent nearly 2 years on this site, why was I so STUPID (seduction wise)??? It's because the DJ way is limited.
"But the DJ way is the BEST way! We should be PROUD of our methods!"
Agreed, the path of the DJ is pretty delicious on the whole. But why limit ourselves? I believe in taking the best from each method and creating our own ****tail of seduction methods.
So brothers, here is my proposition. We will all go out, and learn about another method other than the DJ way. Be it mystery method, gunswitch, juggler or any other. Learn it, test it, experiment with it. Then, come back here, and tell us what worked and what didn't.
Who knows, maybe this site WILL get better because of this.
with optimism and faith,
Fender.
p.s I'm currently learning about Juggler's method. It's probably closest to the DJ method in that it doesn't rely on routines and canned openers. However, his method places more emphasis on conversation and wide-rapport as opposed to sexuality. I'll report back once I field test some of this stuff!
The reason why theres not much good stuff around here is that DJ's are limited in their thinking. The basic DJ way is
1) Be a man
2) See no. 1
w00t! We're soooOOoOoOo smart! Although one cannot argue with "Be a Man," there is more to seduction than this! We might as well change the name of the site from sosuave to Pook!
"Delete all posts not made by Pook!!!"
Pft...there is so much more than this. A few months ago, I thought I had learnt everything I needed to know about seduction (having re-read the bible about 50 million times). Then, I read "The Game" by Neil Strauss (good book btw), and realised I knew NOTHING. Then, I stumbled on Juggler's material and realised once again that I knew NOTHING. Finally, I discovered Swingcats e-book and for the third time in the space of 1 week, I realised that I knew NOTHING about seduction.
WHY OH WHY?!?! Having spent nearly 2 years on this site, why was I so STUPID (seduction wise)??? It's because the DJ way is limited.
"But the DJ way is the BEST way! We should be PROUD of our methods!"
Agreed, the path of the DJ is pretty delicious on the whole. But why limit ourselves? I believe in taking the best from each method and creating our own ****tail of seduction methods.
So brothers, here is my proposition. We will all go out, and learn about another method other than the DJ way. Be it mystery method, gunswitch, juggler or any other. Learn it, test it, experiment with it. Then, come back here, and tell us what worked and what didn't.
Who knows, maybe this site WILL get better because of this.
with optimism and faith,
Fender.
p.s I'm currently learning about Juggler's method. It's probably closest to the DJ method in that it doesn't rely on routines and canned openers. However, his method places more emphasis on conversation and wide-rapport as opposed to sexuality. I'll report back once I field test some of this stuff!
