Bgarrido's Dating Success Plan
Strategically withdrawal from this girl and make yourself about 1/5th available as you have been previously. This is a variation of No Contact, but I don't think in this case full no contact is necessary. Because you've had such an incredible amount of contact with the girl, limited yourself to about 1/5th of what you were doing before will have a dramatic effect. Remember, you don't have to respond to every text, phone call, ect. As we will see later, you will have other things to do....
Also, stop Skyping this girl. You don't live a million miles away and you see her 5 times a week at school already. That's more than enough.
You obviously have a LOT of free time, so find something productive to do with it. Learn how to play an instrument, do woodworking, start working out (really, start lifting immediately), anything. You have too much free time and need to find a passion to fill it with. Be it some philosophy book (Immanuel Kant is really good and if you can get that in HS, your mind will be ready for college), any hobby I've already suggested or something else. Physical activity will make you in better shape and do wonderful things for you like increase your natural testosterone levels and decrease your natural estrogen levels. Do you realize that even in men, ALL fat cells secrete estrogen??? Go to the health and fitness forums and politely ask for advice about how to get started with a good workout routine/diet. In the meantime, hike, rock climb, join a sports team, play sports, FILL UP YOUR TIME!!!!!! If you want to be a DJ, you have to to realize you have the world at your disposal and all of this free time you have is an absolute waste when you can't find a passion to fill it with. And that passion should never ever ever be a woman who has done nothing to earn it. And a woman should never be a man's only passion.
Then, start breaking rapport. If you don't know what that is, ask or figure it out. You can do this through C & F, push/pull, whatever. And do this in a way that's sexualized and sexual. Read Atom Smasher's stickied thread about how to be more sexual. Start being more sexual. Immediately.
Make another date with the girl. Do not leave it up to her. Come armed with a plan, time, and date and tell her what all of those things will be. Don't leave anything up to her. And avoid a traditional dating frame (like dinner and a movie). Do something that involves more action like rock climbing, hiking, or even bowling. Or just take her to your house and watch a movie. IE
You - Let's go out this weekend.
Her - Okay
You - We'll watch X movie at my house. I'll pick you up Friday night at 6.
Her - Okay
If this confuses you at all, read my most recent post about telling girls what to do and read my post entitled "advice" and pay particular attention to the advice Victory Unlimited gave me.... listen to everything that guy says!
Once you have plans, follow through with them obviously. And you will have to sexually escalate in order to avoid friendzoning yourself. If you can't kiss the girl sometime during this date, as far as I'm concerned, you're done. You have already held her hand. That's not a big deal anymore. You've already cuddled. That's not a big deal anymore. If you can be with a girl who's resting her head on your shoulder and you can't move over and kiss her, there's a problem.
And this may be debatable on these boards, but when you kiss the girl, don't be a wussy about it. You either kiss the girl with conviction or don't kiss her at all. What I like to do is when I'm on the couch with the girl and have my right arm around her, at some point and turn my body towards her and with CONVICTION, put my left hand on her cheek and draw her in towards me while I move towards her. I have strong eye contact with the girl initially with a look on my face that comes naturally from thinking "I want to fvck the sh1t out of you RIGHT NOW" and then move my gaze down to her lips. And I kiss her.
You are the man. It's time to start leading. Let me know if you have anymore questions.