Examples for AFC

[the_afc]

Surprised hah ?

An AFC posting here ???

Well my friends, you all started as AFC! I don’t believe a natural born DJ would get into trouble to read posts in a forum like this. He has better thinks to do. After all, he knows many tricks and he is practicing them all his life. And he must be a phd DJ by now.

You all started as AFC !

So, I’m proud to say I am an AFC. Because I know that, if I try hard enough, I will eventually get over the disease, like you guys. But for know, I have lot to learn. I’ve read the bible, I’ve read many-many posts in the forum but many of the tips are for experienced DJ. They are for people who already know how to practice the art and the tips help them to become better. Of course, there are also tips for beginners and for AFC like myself, but most of them are very abstract.

I think that some examples would be much better help than tips. You have all been in my place, searching and learning, and you have experience in the filed. The filed of changing your AFC mode to DJ mode. You all have some examples to share.

I’m asking you to tell what the first thinks you did was, in order to change. What was the first step?

Through some examples of your first steps and lot of us, the AFC, would appreciate it a lot …

 

[Fender]

Try the Bootcamp. Cuz really...that's the ultimate AFC killer.

If you really got to know...the first step for me was to HANG AROUND MORE GIRLS. Sounds simple. Sounds stupid. But it works.
Start talking to girls you see at bookstores, at school/work, whatever. Just get more contact with girls!

And yes, I agree with your point of getting more examples around here. But examples with text isn't always great. We should have some kind of Video forum or something. There used to be a free seduction video site somewhere but it got shut down. We should make our own!

Btw, this should go into discussion, not "tips"

 

[dice]

the first step is creating a desire so strong to change yourself that you'd almost prefer to be dead then continue on the path you are on

the second step is destroying self destructive thinking with confidence. I went from completely unconfident self pittier to i-dont-give-a-f confident bordering on arrogant but not quite in under a month just from reading all the amazing posts on confidence and changing your thoughts, especially in the bible. Read some posts on body language as well. i HIGHLY recommend associating with people that possess the characteristics you want to obtain, there is really no better teacher. I wouldn't have made the progress i did without watching alpha males work their magic.

 

[Holland]

I just started out with 3 things.
- Establishing and maintaining eye contact untill she looks away.
- Confident posture
- Slow, calculated movement (moving around, gestures and facial expressions)

Example:
I was going for a week on a school tour with a lot of people from different classes so I got to meet a lot of new people. So I tought to myself. I'm going to practice these things, then see what's going to happen. Look if I can see any changes. Well, this one girl was totally into me by the end of the week. Her and her friends gave me all kinds of clues for it (like her friend telling me she was talking about me for like 3 AM in the night and I could see it in her behaviour ), but I just decided to ignore them for the moment. I nearly didn't talk to them, only when they would talk to me. On our way back to home, she comes sitting next to me. After talking a little she says: "You probably know already but I like you... a lot." Unexperienced as I was I said: "Well that happens some times."
Then she asks: "Do you feel the same way?"
I was all like, **** you shouldn't admit you like her blaberdie bla bla and said something even worse: "Mmm I don't know" .
Still don't understand why I said that. She says: "What can I do with something like that?" And I tought to myself: "Yeah you're actually right too". She was all embarrased for the rest of the ride and that was the end of it. Extremely stupid, I know. But fact is: I did managed to get a girl to get totally into me and talk about me to her friends till deep in the night just with behaviour, body language and eye contact.
Too bad that I screwed up later but that definetly isn't going to happen next time.