Example: Don't Take Advice From Women

[John11276]

This weekend my friend's gf had two friends down. One was supper smoking the other was alright. One was clearly on to me and the other was cold as hell. I had a friend with me, neither of us hooked up b/c the gf would not leave us all alone.

Anyway, the next day I state that I could of had her friend if she would have left us alone. She says, no she wasn't into you, but the other girl was into your friend. I talked with my friend and he sees the way I do and is as disturbed as I am that my friends gf sees it backwards.

May not make much sense, bottom line DON"T TAKE WOMEN'S ADVICE ON WOMEN.

 

[WaterTiger]

OF COURSE she was going to say the other girl didn't find you sexy! You are HER BF! She's not stupid! She doesn't want to loose you to anyone else.

 

[b's nuts]

Originally posted by WaterTiger
OF COURSE she was going to say the other girl didn't find you sexy! You are HER BF! She's not stupid! She doesn't want to loose you to anyone else.

You should read more carefully. Yeah womens advice is ****, some friends of mine that were girls help send me down the AFC road, telling me that I am "nice" and some girl would love to have me because I was so "nice". Yeah don't listen to hoes.

 

[DEKKA]

yeah don't listen to hoes.... pretend to listen.

 

[quakerstate]

yeah

yeah I had a girl like that. Oh your so nice and sweet and cute, there are so many girls looking for you. ****ing bull****. Turned me into an AFC. She didn't even want me so WTF IS SHE TALKING ABOUT?

 

[icepick]

Girls are very VERY VERY idealistic.

Has idealism EVER worked in a practical sense?

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by icepick
Girls are very VERY VERY idealistic.

Has idealism EVER worked in a practical sense?

Amen, nice post, right on the money

 

[sailorgirl]

read prosemonts post

What are you guys thinking??????? You obviously do not know women at all and just want to whine and complain instead of realizing men and women are just different period!!! No sex is better than the other we just think differently and as soon as you figure this out you will have nothing to complain about.

Again read prosemonts post this sight is getting very hateful non productive an childish to say the least

 

[Quick]

Actually sailorgirl, this isn't being hateful. It's just repeating some good advice from the bible. This also isn't what Prosemont was talking about. He was referring to bickering between members, not conclusions we've reached about dealing with females. This is a site for males to be honest and learn, not to be Politically Correct, and you have to realize and deal with that when you decide to come here. One of the main problems with most of us before we came here is that we bought into all the things that girls said they wanted in a man, and were therfore unable to get or keep a girl. Icepick is right on whe he speaks of idealism.

My favorite question when I talk to girls who are complaining about "there are no good guys" is to ask them to describe a good guy. Then I ask them to name the last guy they went out with that fit that description. This ALWAYS shuts them up because they've never done it. Girls have all these romanticized and media driven ideals of the perfect guy, and rarely have enough introspection to realize what actually draws them in and keeps them interested. If you wait for one of them to give you the kind of useful advice that you find here, you're going to be alone for a long time. A girl will not advise you to be a challenge and a mystery. Instead they'll tell you to be blunt and to "tell her how you feel", though that is some of the worst advice imaginable.

 

[( . )( . )]

To be honest , not taking advice from women should be a no brainer.

Again read prosemonts post this sight is getting very hateful non productive an childish to say the least

Its common fact not to take advice from women(a rare exception can be made on occasion), its been preached here and every other board/book dedicated to phucking chicks for as long as they have been around.
I dont see how you can call the truth and fact hateful and non productive.

No sex is better than the other we just think differently and as soon as you figure this out you will have nothing to complain about.

true.

 

[myfriendblu]

Re: read prosemonts post

Originally posted by sailorgirl
What are you guys thinking??????? You obviously do not know women at all and just want to whine and complain instead of realizing men and women are just different period!!!

Yea, the only one whining here on this post is YOU
And yes, I know women quite well, thank you very much you AW

 

[sailorgirl]

read my posts

read my posts and tell me I don't give good advice I am no priss and definately no feminist and definately not politically correct!!!

 

[Quick]

Don't take it so personally. I'm not going to search your posts, but i'll take your word that you're capable of good advice. When we say don't take advice from girls, we realize that it's a generalization doesn't apply to every girl on the planet, and that there are exceptions.

But there is a definite tendency of girls to tell you things that will make you unsuccessful with them and other girls.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Okay. Your problem is not in taking advice from women... it is in taking advice from stupid, *****y women.

A lot of times women (AND MEN) give bad advice because they have their own agenda. Find out what is this girl's agenda... and then you will know how to judge the advice. Is there any reason she would NOT want you to hook up with her friend?

But a lot of times someone on the inside (does this girl actually have an inside track to these other girls... how good of friends are they?) She might have info that you guys didn't get because she actually SPOKE to these girls, while you guys only were "spectators" and are judging based on the girls' actions, not on their actually feelings.

For example... one of my friends is VERY flirty... but that's it, she's basically a tease. She has a boyfriend who she would never ever cheat on. Whenever I bring her out to my guy friends, one of them is always like "oh she wanted me"... or "she wanted so-and-so" and I'm like... "Nope... actually this one wanted this one and she didn't want anyone and I wanted so-and-so"... Sometimes there is more to the story than you think you know.

In this girl's case... I can't possibly know what the deal actually was... but don't discount her advice just because you don't necessarily agree. And even if her advice IS sh*t, don't discount ALL women's advice based on one chick.

But of course........... since I am a woman... you probably won't take this advice anyway.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Okay. Your problem is not in taking advice from women... it is in taking advice from stupid, *****y women.

A lot of times women (AND MEN) give bad advice because they have their own agenda. Find out what is this girl's agenda... and then you will know how to judge the advice. Is there any reason she would NOT want you to hook up with her friend?

But a lot of times someone on the inside (does this girl actually have an inside track to these other girls... how good of friends are they?) She might have info that you guys didn't get because she actually SPOKE to these girls, while you guys only were "spectators" and are judging based on the girls' actions, not on their actually feelings.

For example... one of my friends is VERY flirty... but that's it, she's basically a tease. She has a boyfriend who she would never ever cheat on. Whenever I bring her out to my guy friends, one of them is always like "oh she wanted me"... or "she wanted so-and-so" and I'm like... "Nope... actually this one wanted this one and she didn't want anyone and I wanted so-and-so"... Sometimes there is more to the story than you think you know.

In this girl's case... I can't possibly know what the deal actually was... but don't discount her advice just because you don't necessarily agree. And even if her advice IS sh*t, don't discount ALL women's advice based on one chick.

But of course........... since I am a woman... you probably won't take this advice anyway.

case in point, i saw "now you have to do this this and this first before you can gauge where shes coming from, and then you can tell if her advice will be solid".

for phucks sake what a waste of time, why not just save a newbie and tell him dont take chicks advice
it would save so much time, effort, hassle to the poor saps

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
case in point, i saw "now you have to do this this and this first before you can gauge where shes coming from, and then you can tell if her advice will be solid".

for phucks sake what a waste of time, why not just save a newbie and tell him dont take chicks advice
it would save so much time, effort, hassle to the poor saps

Okay Tittyboy..... listen here... don't you have to do that whenver you take ANYONE's advice!? I wouldn't take anyone's advice without thinking about where they're coming from... male OR female... By saying that a chick's advice is worth less simply because she is a chick makes no sense. There are plenty of b*tches out there who give bad advice but there are also plenty of guys who give even worse advice... @ssholes, AFCs, whatever you want to call it....... I wouldn't take YOUR advice without at least TRYING to think about whether you know what the f*ck you are talking about or not... apparently, you don't know what the f*ck you're talking about and now I know at least one person to avoid advice from.

 

[( . )( . )]

for starters i didnt say ALL i said there are rare exceptions, read it properly next time.

debating with a chick whether we should take advice from her.. LOL this is a new one sosuave, when did girlproblems buy the domain name?

 

[MetalFortress]

Okay, sexy malibu and sailorgirl, why don't you wake up and think about this. Would you take your average guy's advice on guys? Or would you take a more-experienced GIRL's advice? This one should be a no brainer. Girls don't know how to get girls because they have no experience at it unless they're lesbians.

 

[Juan_Man]

The only women you should listen to are your mom and your sister. They WANT you to be successful with women. Your mom wants grandkids and your sister wants a little nephew or niece she doesn't have to take care of.

BTW, when I had female friends, I tended to give good advice, usually along the lines of "He only wants you for sex!!!"

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
for starters i didnt say ALL i said there are rare exceptions, read it properly next time.

debating with a chick whether we should take advice from her.. LOL this is a new one sosuave, when did girlproblems buy the domain name?

*gives boobies a lapdance*

The bottom line is don't generalise. Don't take advice from anyone, if you can't trust yourself, you can you trust?