BackInTheGame78
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Apparently this is a "thing", but it's not new...been happening for a while.
Basically women on OLD look to disqualify you really for any reason as quickly as possible...and guys tend to give them reasons willingly when they don't need to.
Giving her access to your social media before a date? Why? It's only used to potentially disqualify you.
Answering loaded questions? Why? Again...only potentially used to disqualify you.
Sending her tons of pics? Why? Only used to disqualify you if they don't like the way you look in one of them.
Stop playing into their hands and stop giving them reasons to disqualify you. They might not make sense but when you have endless options, you have to be able to discard people quickly and have a system or method of doing so. While it might not make sense, that is irrelevant, it's happening.
Stop giving them a match to burn the haystack.
www.businessinsider.com
Basically women on OLD look to disqualify you really for any reason as quickly as possible...and guys tend to give them reasons willingly when they don't need to.
Giving her access to your social media before a date? Why? It's only used to potentially disqualify you.
Answering loaded questions? Why? Again...only potentially used to disqualify you.
Sending her tons of pics? Why? Only used to disqualify you if they don't like the way you look in one of them.
Stop playing into their hands and stop giving them reasons to disqualify you. They might not make sense but when you have endless options, you have to be able to discard people quickly and have a system or method of doing so. While it might not make sense, that is irrelevant, it's happening.
Stop giving them a match to burn the haystack.
I'd sworn off dating apps until I heard about the 'burned haystack' approach women are swearing by. So I put it to the test.
Jennie Young started a Facebook group for the Burned Haystack Dating Method that now has more than 100,000 members.
www.businessinsider.com