Ex who still has a thing for me calls me a ****...

[SolidGK]

Hello

If any of you have been reading my last posts then youll know that ive been trying to get back with my ex, and weve been apart for 8 months now. She tells all her friends she still has a thing for me, etc. and i still ahve a thing for her. I know this is very AFC like but i wouldnt be doing this if i didnt know that we are so good together and it could work out so well. Anyway, we started talking more and almost went to lunch, then i got drunk one night and she called me and we started talking and then i got pissed off for whatever reason and said something along the lines of
"if you want to call me when youre sober and we can have a mature conversation, then do that. if you want to keep being a drunken ***** then you can go and **** yourself."
needless to say it didnt go down too well....

about 4 days later i called her to say i was sorry (not for what i said but for the way i said it) but she pretty much hung up on me, so i called back at 1.30am to leave a message on her phone but she picked up so i said sorry and that was that. This was monday night.

Yesterday she was talking to my friend and said that she thought i was a total **** and that she doesnt care anymore and doesnt want to bother with me.
I think her getting so mad is ridiculous, but it probably hit home because what i said was true. Anyway, ive got 3+ other girls on the go so its not like im desperate or anything, this is just a challenge and a definate LTR material. By the way im 17....

like they say "she calls you an ******* and then BOOM"
or does this not neccessarily apply in my situation?
Thanks

 

[comote]

I think it is time to let it go dude. She is probably looking for reasons to hate you otherwise she has to feel bad about missing out on a great guy forever.
It is alot easier to hate an ex than not to and she has probably let it go.
If you want to give it one last shot I would tell her that but make also I would make it clear that if she says the word I will leave her alone and never bother with her again.
This will make her think and at least you can move on with your life.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Getting back with ex's is just one of those things that doesn't work out 99.9999999999% of the time. Find some other women.

 

[Starman]

I think if she has alot of anger inside for you..its a sign that she still cares..

but when she doesnt care one way or another..and has let go of the anger..thats when its completely a lost cause

 

[Legend]

i agree a lot with all these posts.

Do what you think it right...you both had 8 months to get over each other. Personally i would'nt let her to me. Hell man....i dont run back to ex's because i already had that. I want something new.....

Good luck

 

[bugsquish]

I know this is very AFC like but i wouldnt be doing this if i didnt know that we are so good together and it could work out so well.

I disagree because:
1) You broke up.
2) 8 months later you're still apart.
3) Your drunken conversation and her resulting insults.
I would let it go. You're young and able to DJ, you deserve to be free.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Umm, you're 17. Next girl.