ex wants to be fvck buddy

[cavedweller]

I have an ex who wants to 'hook up', once in awhile, for a little poke..

Can some of you post here with some of your fvck buddy stories?

Maybe give me a little advice on how to manage the situation.

 

[SoldMySoul]

I have an ex who wants to 'hook up', once in awhile, for a little poke..

Can some of you post here with some of your fvck buddy stories?

Maybe give me a little advice on how to manage the situation.

There is nothing wrong with having a casual hook up. Only if you are mentally capable of dealing with it and possibly sustaining it. If you still have feelings for the ex you will be inviting unwanted trouble.

In my experience of having fvck buddies, somebody usually has their feelings hurt. It has always happened!!!!

 

[cavedweller]

SoldMySoul,

I hear where you are coming from..

I no longer have any feelings for her, nor, do I need any of her problems or bvll****..

I may work on a plan to hit it once or twice a month...

 

[maqnetik]

its a T R A P

 

[HoneyHitter]

its a T R A P

Most certainly!
There are too many women out there for you to run into this trap. This is like her last resort to get your attention. This only works in your favour when you can act like a jerk and really don't care.

But I doubt whether you can... otherwise you wouldn't have been in an exclusive relationship with her in the first place.

 

[horaholic]

I've had good and bad experiences with this. The more frequently you do it, the more chance for drama, thats all you can ever count on.

 

[maqnetik]

Most certainly!
There are too many women out there for you to run into this trap. This is like her last resort to get your attention. This only works in your favour when you can act like a jerk and really don't care.

But I doubt whether you can... otherwise you wouldn't have been in an exclusive relationship with her in the first place.

shes going for the bomb on 4th down

:nervous:

 

[Following_of_Me]

My ex and I do it every couple of months. We both have acknowledged we dont ever want to date again; it just doesnt work. But we remain good friends, and the benefits come along now and again when we're bored I guess.

 

[Moofahsa]

Run

 

[SweetDannyJ]

Totally do it if you're certain of your feelings. Communication is key.

We've been ex's for 3 years. Went out for five years.

We still hangout every couple Sundays. Watch a movie or two and spoon, then off to bed. It rocks.

There was once, early on, when she told me she could fall in love but this was before the fb relationship was truly established. Now we have large fun. We know each other's sweet spots and how to get it done. It's totally emotionless other than the passion for sex itself.

I honestly think the key is that we talk about our lives. Who she's dating and vise versa. She asks me advice about dudes and I get reciprocated with b1tch info. It keeps our friendship strong. We laugh together about relationship problems either of us, or people in general, have to face and truly appreciate that we are free and void of the sh1t that goes with having a bf/gf while we hangout.

We could be a rare case but it's been totally worth it to me.

 

[Joe Stud]

Sweet, Dan! Way to go!

 

[cavedweller]

SweetDannyJ,

Sounds like you have a good game...

 

[cavedweller]

its a T R A P

I believe you are right..I have slept on the idea for a week and I have decided to drop it..

Thanks guys for your ideas and posts..

 

[cavedweller]

An up-date here: ( I am single and I am going to stay that way)

Fvck buddy with an ex?

I was going to drop the whole idea and forget her, but, she sent me an e-mail today wanting to 'hook up' and give me a little pvssy..

hmmmmmmmmm

I may have to ride that pony...

 

[cavedweller]

SweetDanny,

She e-mailed me again..

So, today I let her come over and we had some wild 'monkey sex'..

Will this work? I don't know..

All I am looking for is a fvck buddy, so, I will play my game plan..

I don't want a deep relationship or a wife..

If it starts to get too emotional I plan to 'hit it' and 'quit it'..