ive been with my current girlfriend for about three months, and throughout that time she has been getting advances from several other guys, including two of her exes. tbh i dont give a f***; i mean the girl is a solid 8 with a smoking body and so you'd expect that sort of thing, and she's refusing these guys point blank in any case.
however, her birthday is coming up, and she learned from a friend that one of her exes (the more persistent of the two) has bought her a present worth several hundred euros. again, this doesnt bother me, because i know that the AFC is going to spend all this cash putting her in a good mood whereas im going to spend at most 30-40 euros, and at the end of the night she's going to be crawling into my bed while he jacks it downstairs (we're having a house party).
i would just like to ask how you guys would handle this, both in the run up to her birthday and if im in the room when she opens the gift and gets the 'big surprise'? i could just be cool with it, but the guy is beginning to think that he 'has a chance' and id rather just do some simple thing that makes him stand back and go "well..sh!t"
so far ive been poking light fun of it, just basically calling it for what it is. such as any time she gets playfully mad at me, ill say "sh!t. what if i spend 400 euros on you? will that make you like me again? "
any input? am i going about this the right way or would you recommend something completely different?
however, her birthday is coming up, and she learned from a friend that one of her exes (the more persistent of the two) has bought her a present worth several hundred euros. again, this doesnt bother me, because i know that the AFC is going to spend all this cash putting her in a good mood whereas im going to spend at most 30-40 euros, and at the end of the night she's going to be crawling into my bed while he jacks it downstairs (we're having a house party).
i would just like to ask how you guys would handle this, both in the run up to her birthday and if im in the room when she opens the gift and gets the 'big surprise'? i could just be cool with it, but the guy is beginning to think that he 'has a chance' and id rather just do some simple thing that makes him stand back and go "well..sh!t"
so far ive been poking light fun of it, just basically calling it for what it is. such as any time she gets playfully mad at me, ill say "sh!t. what if i spend 400 euros on you? will that make you like me again? "
any input? am i going about this the right way or would you recommend something completely different?