Ex threatens to call the cops

[SkrooU]

Called it quits with a plate weeks ago. She says she has never been dumped. She checks out my new okcupid profile a few days ago. It leads to us texting about things. I simply try to make peace with her. She says ok and forgives me. But then she starts arguing with me. Blames me for everything. Has her facts and timeline all messed up about went down. Giant headache I couldn't make sense of.

So I say I'm glad I got to meet her and sorry it didn't work out but there's a lucky guy out there for.

So then she flips out and sends me this novel text saying I was intimidated by her self reliance and I'm too needy. And she's mad because she wanted me but I messed up and moved too fast.

Wtf? So I say actually I was just bored with you because you are boring. You smoke pot and pass out on your couch all night. I like more interaction and ambition. Doesn't make me needy. Doesn't make you self reliant. Makes you too aloof to have a relationship with.

Then she starts trying to spin it as her saying goodbye and me being in love with her. Haha...I just said I don't love you. I only said i loved you when I broke up with you bevsuse i felt guilty. So sorry for the confusuon. It was wrong.

Then this happens -

Her - dude you are really messed up and exactly why i hate dating. Thanks for the reminder. Im not having this crazy conversation.

Me - im sorry you didn't get what you wanted. I tried to make peace but you wanted to argue. There's a lucky guy for you somewhere. I want to be single for a while.

Her - ok good luck. Goodbye

Me - I don't need luck. I'm great.

Her - no you need serious help. Goodbye.

Me - nice story darlin but you are the one diagnosed with a mental health condition and takes pills.

Her - i treat my problem. You need serious help with yours. you are becoming crazy obsessive. I am going to the cops with these texts if you contact me again.

Me - you're nuts! You keep texting me too and insulting me. Leave me alone. Goodbye. Blocking your number. Texts saved.

Ok what just happened here? I'm a criminal now? I need mental help? Seriously? Or is this lady nuts?

 

[Bible_Belt]

You didn't do anything wrong, in a legal sense. Obviously it is wise to not contact her again.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

ya fcked up when you knew she had a mental condition requiring pills.
Psycho btch that will ruin your life, "Iv never been dumped"
cnt goes around ruining chodes lives for the joy of it,
didnt get you into the heartbroken/onetius state
and she was pissed, wow burn that cnts house down
beat her mom, fck her grandma, rape her dog..

 

[Billtx49]

She's blame shifting if that's all you have texted her. She needs to come out on top for her ego or whatever it is that she needs to feel good about.
Unless you threatened her with physical harm or death via text the police will laugh at her.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Lesson learned don't get into texting battles with ex plates. Always stick with NC!

She did it to push your buttons and look it worked, you are here posting about it. Forget about her and move on.

 

[Desdinova]

Lesson learned don't get into texting battles with ex plates. Always stick with NC!

Agreed. Most of this conversation shouldn't have happened. When you're done with a woman, have your final goodbye and cut contact 100%.

 

[sazc]

Anyone reading this, heed my words - ANY female that even insinuates that they will file bogus charges on you is a female that MUST be avoided at all costs! the insulation alone is indicative of serious mental issues, weather or not they are on head drugs.
RUN! Please RUN! No pvssy is worth the chance.

If you would consider keeping this chick around then you need to take a good hard look at your personal standards, and how much you value YOURSELF, because you are lacking.

I'm not bashing anyone in particular, it just really concerns me when I see guys posting on here who stay with females who clearly have issues.

All that said, you've got to go totally NC. This female is a waste of your time. She's yesterdays news. she's looking for your attention and she is trying to get it by arguing with you. Remember, allowing an ex to draw you into an argument is allowing this same person to control your emotions. You and she are done. Stop wasting time there.

 

[KingBeef]

She has mental issues....requires drugs/medications....RUN

Better question is "Why were you even involved with her in the first place?"

 

[SkrooU]

"no you need serious help" lmao

hey op do you have an iphone? Just block her, that's what I do. Don't message her ever again. If she messages you, and knowing her she might, just ignore or risk being falsely reported to the police for harassment/intimidation/uttering threats/sexual assault.

Anyone reading this, heed my words - ANY female that even insinuates that they will file bogus charges on you is a female that MUST be avoided at all costs! the insulation alone is indicative of serious mental issues, weather or not they are on head drugs.
RUN! Please RUN! No pvssy is worth the chance.

If you would consider keeping this chick around then you need to take a good hard look at your personal standards, and how much you value YOURSELF, because you are lacking.

I'm not bashing anyone in particular, it just really concerns me when I see guys posting on here who stay with females who clearly have issues.

All that said, you've got to go totally NC. This female is a waste of your time. She's yesterdays news. she's looking for your attention and she is trying to get it by arguing with you. Remember, allowing an ex to draw you into an argument is allowing this same person to control your emotions. You and she are done. Stop wasting time there.

Oh ya I'm done. Blocked her number right when I sent the last text. I just wanted to make peace and say goodbye. She decided to turn it into a power game of whose ego should be more bruised haha. I think pointing out her ptsd and medication made her lose the game and she resorted to the police threat. haha whatever.

 

[SkrooU]

She has mental issues....requires drugs/medications....RUN

Better question is "Why were you even involved with her in the first place?"

I didn't know she had ptsd or was taking any medication. I didn't even know she was a pothead. People have a way of hiding things from you for a while. I ended things when I started seeing who she was.

 

[sazc]

I ended things when I started seeing who she was.

Smart!

I've been on here long enough to know that you all are a decent group of men. all of y'all, please be careful! there are plenty of messed up females out there.

 

[SkrooU]

This is exactly why I just want to ghost people.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

I didn't know she had ptsd or was taking any medication. I didn't even know she was a pothead. People have a way of hiding things from you for a while. I ended things when I started seeing who she was.

Yup that doesn't surprise me 1 bit. I've been there myself. It's typically after they have their claws in you and you've been going at it for a couple months.

My favorite example of this is a plate from a couple yrs ago. Legal assistant, owned her own house had a nice car. Seemed like a sweet girl next door type, even dressed conservative. Something was slightly off with her tho, go to find out she did hard time for possession of meth. Served 2-3yrs? She went crazy in her early 20's stripping and doing hard drugs.

She turned her life around but that was all I needed to hear. You can't ignore those red flags. Sometimes screening takes awhile, good work SkrooU. Next!

 

[sodbuster]

save that conversation to your computer, to the cloud, print a hard copy, etc.... you may need it and it's better to have it

 

[Atom Smasher]

This is a classic example why we as men need to make a preemptive strike (end the relationship) when she changes her feelings about you.

Arguing with a woman gets you absolutely nowhere, 100% of the time. You are not talking to a rational being. You are talking to an insane being when she is fired up emotionally.

You need to end it on YOUR terms, and you need to set the frame and maintain it, refusing to participate in her frame.

 

[Alvafe]

things you need to let go, your ego, you keep texting her because you didn't want her spin it to her need and keep breaking it, next time block girls like this sooner and don't argue, waste of time.

thing syou can do now, don't delete that msg ever, I would go and see what you can do about it, see if you can find a lawyer and make some questions, or jsut take this to the police and say youa re afraid she will try to attack you or something(since well her pills problems and all)