Ex texted

[Paradiddle]

She said that she misses me and she's sorry. That's it. Two sentences only. Help me out on one thing guys, shall I reply with a 'No worries' or just ignore? I have read gazillion articles about NC and I am getting this text after around 3 months of NC. I have read a lot of you saying that you should reply and be polite and some of you don't suggest replying. I am confused.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Ha, at least she said she's sorry, my ex was kissing my ass and saying how great I was when we broke up and texted 3 months later to say I was the worst boyfriend ever... XD

Best to just not reply at all. Unless you would feel better by saying "No worries."

 

[Atom Smasher]

Is your intention to get back with her? If so, you need to ask yourself if it would be good for you to do so.

 

[Billtx49]

She’s missing your attention. If you’re done with her send nothing. If you’re not, send the noncommittal no worries, but it also sends her a below the surface message that she can still easily get your attention when she wants it.…

 

[Paradiddle]

Thank you for your suggestions. Since I have no intention of getting back with her (I would never ever get back with any of my exes even if I break up in the future haha), I did not reply. I will update if she communicates somehow again.

 

[EroticWriter]

Thank you for your suggestions. Since I have no intention of getting back with her (I would never ever get back with any of my exes even if I break up in the future haha), I did not reply. I will update if she communicates somehow again.

Why be concerned with her text when you said you have no intention of getting back with her?

 

[Paradiddle]

Why be concerned with her text when you said you have no intention of getting back with her?

That's the reason I started a thread to know if I'm right or wrong.

 

[Paradiddle]

Guys, she called me today. Wouldn't have picked up her phone but was from another number (her landphone which I had not saved on my phone). She was crying and said that she had made a mistake but was expecting me to call after the breakup. Haha. She said she wants to patch up if I'm not seeing someone. I said that's none of her business if I'm with someone or not. Just wanted to update.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

She said that she misses me and she's sorry. That's it. Two sentences only. Help me out on one thing guys, shall I reply with a 'No worries' or just ignore? I have read gazillion articles about NC and I am getting this text after around 3 months of NC. I have read a lot of you saying that you should reply and be polite and some of you don't suggest replying. I am confused.

Eat chilli, drink coffee, and have a large protein shake with milk and whey isolate.

Destroy a bathroom. Take Pic. And tell her it reminded you of her.

#nextset

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

She was crying and said that she had made a mistake but was expecting me to call after the breakup.

Crying?

You know women turn on the water works as a **** test.

Mistake? Translation : she tripped fell and landed on ****.

#nextset

Step game up.

 

[sazc]

Hopefully she has learned a lesson

 

[Paradiddle]

Hopefully she has learned a lesson

Haha hopefully, bro. But one thing, I am happy that I did not give up and get back with her. This forum has helped me a lot.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

they usually tend to do that after they sleep with the first guys they start fvcking..

the next day they have withdrawls and feel like ****, guys do the same thing.

the relationship/connection between you 2 has become completely Co dependent and toxic and the sooner you destroy that **** with a light saber the better. ex girlfriends will ruin your chit if you don't cut it and move on as quick as possible no question about it

 

[stovepipe]

Wouldn't be surprised if you picked up the phone hoping it was her. Just so you could feel the rush of turning her down.

 

[Paradiddle]

they usually tend to do that after they sleep with the first guys they start fvcking..

the next day they have withdrawls and feel like ****, guys do the same thing.

I think that's exactly the same thing in my case because she was also mentioning my hot body. Now it all makes sense. Glad I dodged a bullet!

 

[Paradiddle]

Wouldn't be surprised if you picked up the phone hoping it was her. Just so you could feel the rush of turning her down.

Wasn't on purpose but felt nice to turn her down.

 

[Paradiddle]

Eat chilli, drink coffee, and have a large protein shake with milk and whey isolate.

Destroy a bathroom. Take Pic. And tell her it reminded you of her.

#nextset

If she keeps bugging me. Haha.

 

[sosousage]

she pms u very likely just for attention but if you could get one time sex n block her then that would be brilant

 

[wifehunter]

Why is she sorry? Is she just inbetween orbiters and lonely?

She needs to qualify herself. Don't help her with that, it's HER business. In fact, make it impossible. That way, if she manages to succeed, you know she's truly sorry.

 

[Spaz]

I would reply to all my ex girlfriends, to all my ex flings, to all my ex "one thing that led to something else" girls when they message me out of the blue.

I think its good policy to keep orbiters around.

Caution: If u r still emotionally affected by an ex then it's best to ignore and dismiss.