Ex starts texting me after summer of no contact

[Chrom3y]

Okay so like I said, after he whole summer of no contact with my ex, she suddenly decides to text me after the first day of school. Immediately I'm thinking something isn't right. All day in school she couldn't even make eye contact with me and tried to pretend she didn't see me when I walked by (pretty funny to me lol).

So later that day after my cross country meet, she texts me askin to go to the football game with her. I said no cause I don't like crowds much, then she asked "Would it be weird if we hugged each other tomorrow?"
Wtf? She claims "she wants things to be normal again". Things just don't add up, I figured she has some feelings comin back or something.

What do you guys think? I'm not really interested in going back out with her. But fvck buddy sounds good to me . Any input on this?

 

[KontrollerX]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594

Regardless of who dumped who simply read that guide and follow its instruction to the letter.

Also read most of the posts in SunnyD's post history here.

As well another female poster I think named Blue08.

Find out how their men gamed them so well.

Basically never promise this chick a return to a relationship with you.

Always be vague, deflect her questions of love of boyfriends and girlfriends with excuses or other means to change the subject.

Keep her at arm's length always wanting more of your time as SunnyD's man did to her.

When your ex finally realizes she's been used simply as a fvck toy for years on end her shame will be as great or greater than that of Sunny's and you will have won.

Whats more is she probably won't be able to pull herself away from you for at least a year or more (if ever) after she understands that you will never give her a true relationship again so just like Sunny she will be riding your c0ck pretty much for as long as you want.

So follow Dan's guide to the letter and after she's all obsessed and slobbering over you and greatful to be back sucking you off feel free to up the drama by adding another chick to the mix as one becomes available.

Your ex will be pissed you are seeing another girl in addition to her but as long as you remain indifferent to her anger with the full intention that she can GTFO if she doesn't like it she'll remain all over you.

Try to keep the two girls from seeing eachother in person and also things will work out even better for you if you get with an enemy of her's.

 

[jeffthechef]

I had semi onetis for this girl before...Asked her out the afc way..got the..Let's just be friends line

i did no contact for a year..easily...now she's always looking at me...trying to sit next to me..all of that ****

I never give her any attention even when she's sitting right next to me and trying to start a conversation..i give one word answers..or simple head shakes/nods.

and it just makes one my classes all the more interesting

If anything, fbuddies sounds fun..but i WOULD NEVER go back to her for a relationship..even being friends with her is hard for me...fbuddies or mere people who know each other's names sounds best

 

[Chrom3y]

She's a fvck buddy now lmao. Never had one before though. Do I just call and say "hey wanna fvck?" Or what?

 

[KontrollerX]

She's a fvck buddy now lmao. Never had one before though. Do I just call and say "hey wanna fvck?" Or what?

When you want to fvck just call her and ask if you can come over.

When you are over if she puts up any resistance and refuses to fvck you can walk out.

She'll then get the covert message that the only time she will be getting with you (if she wants any at all) will be time spent with your balls slapping against her backside.

She agreed to this fvck buddy scenario currently because she misses you and her emotions are effected.

She thinks if she lets you just use her for sex for a while eventually she can be your girlfriend again but you will not let this happen.

When she becomes ready to persue the girlfriend role she will try withholding the sex from you with bullsh!t conversations about you just using her or why can't we go back to the way it was or do you care about me blah blah blah.

When that sh!t starts go cold no contact and wait.

Eventually like SunnyD she'll start to miss you as well her ego will be severely hurt which is what will make her desire to get you back so strongly. The ego will become bruised by your walking away and going no contact when she starts the girlfriend bullsh!t speeches. The walking away will make her realize just how worthless and unimportant to your life she is and to repair her ego she will have to get you back in her life somehow and the only way to do that much like SunnyD is to spread her legs for you.

There will be no paying for dates, there will be no dates, its just you and her getting together to fvck thats what fvck buddy means, there will be no long periods of time where you and she hang out in a friendly fashion, you are meeting with her once again to fvck and thats it. This is the mindset you have to have to avoid getting sucked back in to a relationship with her.

You also did the wrong thing by letting this fvck buddy thing happen so soon.

You should of followed Metaphysical's guide and made her beg for a month or a couple of weeks to get back into your life.

That gives the girl anxiety which the female mind processes as love which creates an attachment need for you in her as well shows the girl how valueable you are as well as how valueable your time is.

You just agreeing to start seeing her again in a fvck buddy role shows her that you are not all that valueable as when she wants you in some way you snap to it and are at her beck and call.

Nevertheless thats just information for you to use in the future, you are where you are with her now in this fvck buddy scenario so from here on out do the right thing to position yourself for maximum power and advantage and as much lack of hassle as possible.

 

[Chrom3y]

Well we only broke up due to racial issues with her dad. Does it make a difference in that case? And I did ignore her for about a week of her texting me before we agreed to this. But if she bullsh!ts me then I'm def going back to no contact. Thanks

 

[S.Y.L]

^ that is a genious post

 

[KontrollerX]

Well we only broke up due to racial issues with her dad. Does it make a difference in that case? And I did ignore her for about a week of her texting me before we agreed to this. But if she bullsh!ts me then I'm def going back to no contact. Thanks

*Shakes head*

You guys with your lack of critical information given in your opening posts!

Note to Sosuavers: All that I said in the previous post applies to all breakups where the girl dumped you out of lack of interest in you ie you were just getting too boring for her or she thought she found something better and traded up etc.

In anycase Chrom3y your situation seems completely different to me now with the new information so I have to make a completely new post for you but I'll try and keep it short this time...

Since the issue was with her dad and that caused the breakup she may not of actually wanted to break up with you to begin with and thus she may be a quality candidate for a decent girlfriend so if you want to persue that route you can, if you like just the fvck buddy scenario run with that but yeah what I'm saying is with the new information you provided it would seem she did not reject you and dump you for you but due to her father's pressuring so in cases like that depending on how much hassle one wants in their life or not you can indeed consider her girlfriend material again if you want unless of course you think on a gut instinct level the racial pressure from daddy was just a lie on her part to trick you.

 

[eaglez1177]

When you want to fvck just call her and ask if you can come over.

When you are over if she puts up any resistance and refuses to fvck you can walk out.

She'll then get the covert message that the only time she will be getting with you (if she wants any at all) will be time spent with your balls slapping against her backside.

She agreed to this fvck buddy scenario currently because she misses you and her emotions are effected.

She thinks if she lets you just use her for sex for a while eventually she can be your girlfriend again but you will not let this happen.

When she becomes ready to persue the girlfriend role she will try withholding the sex from you with bullsh!t conversations about you just using her or why can't we go back to the way it was or do you care about me blah blah blah.

When that sh!t starts go cold no contact and wait.

Eventually like SunnyD she'll start to miss you as well her ego will be severely hurt which is what will make her desire to get you back so strongly. The ego will become bruised by your walking away and going no contact when she starts the girlfriend bullsh!t speeches. The walking away will make her realize just how worthless and unimportant to your life she is and to repair her ego she will have to get you back in her life somehow and the only way to do that much like SunnyD is to spread her legs for you.

There will be no paying for dates, there will be no dates, its just you and her getting together to fvck thats what fvck buddy means, there will be no long periods of time where you and she hang out in a friendly fashion, you are meeting with her once again to fvck and thats it. This is the mindset you have to have to avoid getting sucked back in to a relationship with her.

You also did the wrong thing by letting this fvck buddy thing happen so soon.

You should of followed Metaphysical's guide and made her beg for a month or a couple of weeks to get back into your life.

That gives the girl anxiety which the female mind processes as love which creates an attachment need for you in her as well shows the girl how valueable you are as well as how valueable your time is.

You just agreeing to start seeing her again in a fvck buddy role shows her that you are not all that valueable as when she wants you in some way you snap to it and are at her beck and call.

Nevertheless thats just information for you to use in the future, you are where you are with her now in this fvck buddy scenario so from here on out do the right thing to position yourself for maximum power and advantage and as much lack of hassle as possible.

Wow. You took the words right out of my mouth. EXCELLENT ****ing post. FOLLOW THIS ADVICE. I did this exact same thing with my ex gf and you know what? We've been f-buddies for about 6 months! Its fvcking awesome having a girl that you can just call up whenever you want to have fun, and just fvck.

But now that you mentioned her thing with your dad, that def complicates things. I dont think you should just really start leaning towards going back out with her though. Instead, look in the mirror, and say "All other things aside, will I truly and honestly be happy with this girl if I go back out with her? Is it worth it, and will it be different than before?"

As for my personal opinion, I personally think you should NOT go back out with her again. How long have you two been broken up for? I believe that once two people break up, theres really no going back, and that things will never be the same as before no matter how hard the two of you try, regardless of any other outside factors or reasons as to why things went south.

 

[Chrom3y]

*Shakes head*

You guys with your lack of critical information given in your opening posts!

Note to Sosuavers: All that I said in the previous post applies to all breakups where the girl dumped you out of lack of interest in you ie you were just getting too boring for her or she thought she found something better and traded up etc.

In anycase Chrom3y your situation seems completely different to me now with the new information so I have to make a completely new post for you but I'll try and keep it short this time...

Since the issue was with her dad and that caused the breakup she may not of actually wanted to break up with you to begin with and thus she may be a quality candidate for a decent girlfriend so if you want to persue that route you can, if you like just the fvck buddy scenario run with that but yeah what I'm saying is with the new information you provided it would seem she did not reject you and dump you for you but due to her father's pressuring so in cases like that depending on how much hassle one wants in their life or not you can indeed consider her girlfriend material again if you want unless of course you think on a gut instinct level the racial pressure from daddy was just a lie on her part to trick you.

Nah I know for a fact she wasnt lying about the father thing. Only her sisters knew about me when were going out. We went on and off for about 7 months during that time because she was afraid of him finding out, and she shed a lot of tears over the situation. Yesterday she told me she still loves me, but I dont know what to do. She's still horny as fvck but admitted she loves me still. And it's weird because in school she can't make eye contact with me, but she'll text me like crazy at night. I dont know if she's nervous around me or what, but its confusing and annoying. I really dont wanna get stressed over this again, junior year was one of the mos depressing school years of my life...

 

[eaglez1177]

Ok I think its obvious to me that you really dont feel like getting back together with her. Correct?

I think since her feelings are apparently still so strong for you, I think you have to say something to her. Just tell her how you feel about the situation man. You have to tell her that once things are over, theyre over, and theres no going back, and that you don't feel the same as before. Let her know that you want to stay single, and dont want all the stress and pressure of a relationship. Then cut off all contact with her completely. I strongly advise following the link that Kontroller gave you, it'll help ALOT.

Your gonna be a senior right? Senior year imo should not be spent chained down in a relationship. Go out, have fun, and get with as many chicks as possible.