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Ex LTR Acting the Fool Coz of Facebook

slickaz

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As if im not having a bad enough week with people crashing into my car and my plates dropping like pins at a bowling alley!!!

so last night i changed my facebook saying to smtn like -

"Slickaz loves women SO much..hes gonna get one"

Some other chic, that i dont really contact, but she is HB8 posts msg on my facebook
"yaaay! slick is on the market for a girl..mwaaaaaahhhh"

now i didnt read this.

My Ex LTR has been trying to get back with me and she was planningo n taking me out for a lavish dinner date on my bday.

She texts me

"Read your facebook..nice comments from your future h03s, its been great so far but we shouldnt see each other anymore.."

I text back
"If you're judgin me based on a comment on FB from somebody else..goes to show you dont know me..so ur right..we shouldnt see each other.bye"

Did i do right?
i knew i shouldna picked up communicating with her..but i couldnt resist..now im feelin even worse!



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Ive also noticed im havin a dry spell with approaching..i havent approached any new ones in about a week i think. due to work etc..and i feel wierd when i think about approaching now.lol.

How do you get out of a dry spell?
 

JDA70

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You did ok on the face book thing.

Ive also noticed im havin a dry spell with approaching..i havent approached any new ones in about a week i think. due to work etc..and i feel wierd when i think about approaching now.lol.
Why do you feel wierd?
 

slickaz

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i think bcoz i havent done it in a minute..i feel that wierd kinda thing that tells you..umm maybe not..i believe ya'll call it fear of approaching..or fear of freezing..lol..i mean i went out last weekend and i saw this gorgeous HB8.5. ive never seen her before..and she walked past me..gave me eye contact..i gave her eye contact..then she took her eyes ofa me..and i couldnt resist checkin her out top to toe..her friend saw me checkin her out and goes.."wooahh! wish sm1 wud check me out like that!..dude u just undressed her wit ur eyes..<or smtn like that>" to which i laughed..but let it slide..
now i know she told the HB8.5 that i was checked her out..because they settled in a spot to dance and HB8.5 kept looking at me..and turnin around..to show me she could shake her a55 right..but me...umm..yeh..

i hope she comes back because i promise im gonna approach..

DAMNIT!

plus sh*t like this bad week is just holdin me back from gettin confident..
 

slickaz

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Thanks dude...i needed that..just wasnt sure..i guess i was infact suffereing from oneitis..but its partially because she was just not getting out of my life..and i guess the irony is when she found out other women were interested in me <<she doesnt know girls have been sleepin over and ive been on dates etc..>> she wanted to threaten me? i dunno...maybe to see if id come runnin back and dump the other girls...i dunno..

but i wanna get more plates up..im a lil dry today..so lets hope i get some new numbers or dates set up before night fall..

Thanks again bru
 

JDA70

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slickaz

She was right there and you didn't go get it.
:crazy:
 

DonJuan11

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slickaz said:
My Ex LTR has been trying to get back with me and she was planningo n taking me out for a lavish dinner date on my bday.

She texts me

"Read your facebook..nice comments from your future h03s, its been great so far but we shouldnt see each other anymore.."

I text back
"If you're judgin me based on a comment on FB from somebody else..goes to show you dont know me..so ur right..we shouldnt see each other.bye"

Did i do right?
You did good, just a little harsh. I wouldn't have defended myself, you are giving her an ego boost when you do that.

"Yes it has been great so far, it's unfortunate you feel that way since I really enjoyed being with you. Take care of yourself and dont' forget to write"
 

slickaz

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Thanks lads..

JD070 - dude!! you shoulda seen this chic..i mean like..booty look like mcdonald cheese burger buns..just smooth no crease!!...forget restin a cup on it man..ud want the cup to tip just so you could lick the drink of her a55..lol..
i think that thang just kicked the daylights outa my game..hence the *jaw droppin blankness** on me..lol

Thanks again guys..i feel a lil better now that maybe i did do right by not trying to overly defend myself etc <altho donjuan11 is ryt i did a little.>

im goin to let this one go and move to the next chic i can lay my hands on..
 

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Well handled. But.. Do you think you could have made the same reply in a phonecall?

I really can't prove it, but women that get bravado with me via texting/IM always melt like processed cheese on the phone when they hear my voice and end up apologising to me. ;)

Everyone is a tough guy and an AW via the written word after all.
 

seagull

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That was a great reply, I don't think you could have come up with one better.
 
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