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Don Juan
ok here's the deal without getting into too much detail because i have already seen many folks with pretty much the same exact issue.
i was with this girl for 5 years and she flaked once before and i chased and it didnt work then 6 months later i met someone new and she was back within 2 days of finding out.
we moved in together a few months later. i found a sick job i started getting paid BANK. at the end of 2005 she started getting a little fed up with me being kinda messy but wtf the apartment was too small and where was i supposed to put my stuff.. i got a file cabinet and organized my papers but apparently she was at her wits end and had started losing interest. instead of talking to me about how she was feeling she started talking to this dumb hairdresser friend of hers who was telling her to just break up, of course.
so my ex comes home one day and tells me to move out, like right now. i explained that it takes time to find a new place and save up for 1st last security and if we could try to sort things out, but she wasnt having it. so i took 2 days off from work trying to figure out wtf to do while also trying to clean up and address the things that had been bothering her, but she never came home, she stayed at the girlfriends house.
i was unable to find a place in 2 days so she finally comes back with her family and moves all of her $hit out (the lease is in her name mind you). we agreed that i would stay and the lease would get transfered to me and that we would be in touch about financial stuff if need be.
next day i text her asking how it went at the rental office, no answer. a week passes and i was onthe way out to go skiing and theres a flipping eviction letter taped to the door. i call her but she doesnt answer. i call her folks and they had her call me. but she didnt have anything to say about the lease but instead said i would pay 4k to her credit card balance within a month, and she would pay the remianing 2k, and then she rushed off the phone.
i got a little crazy over the next week, senther a couple more long winded texts (no begging or anything), but of course, no flipping reply. finally i stopped trying to contact her altogether.
come to find out this girl took her damn lease with her and moved into another complex owned by the same rental office across town without even telling me what the deal was, thus the eviction letter i got. $%&*
now this is where it gets humorous. my exs best friend has been checking up on me on AIM so i have been putting up funny away messages that arent too obviously fake, pretending i am just perfectly happy and stuff about another girl. i even put a tracker link with her picture and i see the exs friend checked the link like 10 times over a couple weeks. they want gossip, give it to them. i talk about gong out to eat and the movies and museums, etc. i am always busy and up to something FUN.
now, come to find out my ex got about 15 overdraft fees in her bank starting from the time we broke up right before valentines day to march 1. unreal. it appears as though she is trying to maintain the lifestyle i provided for her for so long, and unfortunately for her it isnt working. her parents already paid off her 6k credit card balance and so they are kind of miffed at her and they arent really talking. my ex also had to borow 1500 from someone to pay off her negative bank. NOW she is back in the hole, account negative again and dropping fast. it looks like miss ice queen is having a tough time standing on her own 2 feet. too bad her car that i was paying off is now linked to her bank instead of mine (290/month payment). this girl makes about 550 a week after taxes and has a new apartment (1100/month) and a variety of other bills that total another 750/month including the car.
my ex was very selfish and immature for handling the breakup the way she did, and now she is paying for it literally. of course i am still grieving and somewhere in my demented mind i still want her back, but i know she is not any good for me. i also know that she has ben talking to and maybe even seeing her ex. $%&*
has anyone seen this variation of the "ex left me boo hoo" story with any sort of insight on wtf this crazy broad might do next (in regards to trying to contact me) considering she is more than broke all over again and wont be able to pay even small bills after having already borrowed 7500 from people!?
oh and dont worry, i am NOT contacting her and in the off chance she does call, i wont be answering the phone.
it would be nice to have her stalk me a little though or try to come back crawling. i am getting too old for this crap, strictly DJ from here on out.
unreal.
i was with this girl for 5 years and she flaked once before and i chased and it didnt work then 6 months later i met someone new and she was back within 2 days of finding out.
we moved in together a few months later. i found a sick job i started getting paid BANK. at the end of 2005 she started getting a little fed up with me being kinda messy but wtf the apartment was too small and where was i supposed to put my stuff.. i got a file cabinet and organized my papers but apparently she was at her wits end and had started losing interest. instead of talking to me about how she was feeling she started talking to this dumb hairdresser friend of hers who was telling her to just break up, of course.
so my ex comes home one day and tells me to move out, like right now. i explained that it takes time to find a new place and save up for 1st last security and if we could try to sort things out, but she wasnt having it. so i took 2 days off from work trying to figure out wtf to do while also trying to clean up and address the things that had been bothering her, but she never came home, she stayed at the girlfriends house.
i was unable to find a place in 2 days so she finally comes back with her family and moves all of her $hit out (the lease is in her name mind you). we agreed that i would stay and the lease would get transfered to me and that we would be in touch about financial stuff if need be.
next day i text her asking how it went at the rental office, no answer. a week passes and i was onthe way out to go skiing and theres a flipping eviction letter taped to the door. i call her but she doesnt answer. i call her folks and they had her call me. but she didnt have anything to say about the lease but instead said i would pay 4k to her credit card balance within a month, and she would pay the remianing 2k, and then she rushed off the phone.
i got a little crazy over the next week, senther a couple more long winded texts (no begging or anything), but of course, no flipping reply. finally i stopped trying to contact her altogether.
come to find out this girl took her damn lease with her and moved into another complex owned by the same rental office across town without even telling me what the deal was, thus the eviction letter i got. $%&*
now this is where it gets humorous. my exs best friend has been checking up on me on AIM so i have been putting up funny away messages that arent too obviously fake, pretending i am just perfectly happy and stuff about another girl. i even put a tracker link with her picture and i see the exs friend checked the link like 10 times over a couple weeks. they want gossip, give it to them. i talk about gong out to eat and the movies and museums, etc. i am always busy and up to something FUN.
now, come to find out my ex got about 15 overdraft fees in her bank starting from the time we broke up right before valentines day to march 1. unreal. it appears as though she is trying to maintain the lifestyle i provided for her for so long, and unfortunately for her it isnt working. her parents already paid off her 6k credit card balance and so they are kind of miffed at her and they arent really talking. my ex also had to borow 1500 from someone to pay off her negative bank. NOW she is back in the hole, account negative again and dropping fast. it looks like miss ice queen is having a tough time standing on her own 2 feet. too bad her car that i was paying off is now linked to her bank instead of mine (290/month payment). this girl makes about 550 a week after taxes and has a new apartment (1100/month) and a variety of other bills that total another 750/month including the car.
my ex was very selfish and immature for handling the breakup the way she did, and now she is paying for it literally. of course i am still grieving and somewhere in my demented mind i still want her back, but i know she is not any good for me. i also know that she has ben talking to and maybe even seeing her ex. $%&*
has anyone seen this variation of the "ex left me boo hoo" story with any sort of insight on wtf this crazy broad might do next (in regards to trying to contact me) considering she is more than broke all over again and wont be able to pay even small bills after having already borrowed 7500 from people!?
oh and dont worry, i am NOT contacting her and in the off chance she does call, i wont be answering the phone.
it would be nice to have her stalk me a little though or try to come back crawling. i am getting too old for this crap, strictly DJ from here on out.unreal.
