Just curious of the best way to deal with this. My gf of 2 years broke up with me around a month ago. Found out a week after the incident that she is seeing a new guy who was causing a little friction during our relationship (ie he was in love with her, tried to split us up, bad mouthing me etc). So I think fcuk it and start to move on. Doing well at work, keeping in touch with friends etc. Last night I receive an SMS from her saying “I have talked to your ex (one previous to her) and had an interesting conversation” then preceded to call me a Fcukin Cnut and that she is in love with Dan (the new guy). Maybe I should have left it but was in a bad mood and told her think what you like. She writes back and tells me that my ex just told her “During a break, I tried it on with her” she’s then says that “I’ve always been a cnut to her and everyone should know about it cause they think I’m gods gift.” I went a bit ape siht and wrote back “Believe what you want, I don’t care. I was 100% faithful to you when we went out. You shouldn’t care, you love Dan lol. **** off, grow up and don’t text me again”.
Now thinking that even though this never happened and the original ex is stirring siht up cause she is hoping now we are done she can get me back. We live in a small town and I do see her maybe once a week just generally out and about. Whats the best way from now to deal with it. Ignore her try to explain to any mutual friends first this is bull or just let everything run its course.
Do you think the no contact and the not caring is making her realise what she’s lost now this Dan ain’t all he’s cracked up to be. I ain’t taking her back under any circumstances. I have lost all respect for her but wanted this as painless as possible. I have a feeling this is the beginning of a mountain of crap.
Now thinking that even though this never happened and the original ex is stirring siht up cause she is hoping now we are done she can get me back. We live in a small town and I do see her maybe once a week just generally out and about. Whats the best way from now to deal with it. Ignore her try to explain to any mutual friends first this is bull or just let everything run its course.
Do you think the no contact and the not caring is making her realise what she’s lost now this Dan ain’t all he’s cracked up to be. I ain’t taking her back under any circumstances. I have lost all respect for her but wanted this as painless as possible. I have a feeling this is the beginning of a mountain of crap.
