Ex-girlfriend calls after 4 years!?!

[bosshogg77]

She said she was drunk and her friend left a message on my voicemail to call her back. I didn't know who it was because the friend left her own name. I called back and she said she was in my neighborhood and thought of me and then the friend left the voice mail. I deleted her phone number but it was still programmed in her phone after all these years.

Anyways, we talked for like an hour to catch up on old times and then we went out to dinner later that night. She nows wants me to hang out with her over her house tomorrow night and watch a movie.

The question is, what is the main reason for her calling me after 4 years and then inviting me over to watch a movie?!? Do you think she just wants to be friends or to get back together again? Or do you think she wants to have sex? I'm trying to figure out how to approach it when I go over her house.

She was a real beeyotch back then but after meeting her she seems to be cool now. What do you think is going on and what is her motive? She also said, throughout the course of the 4 years, she looked me up online and found my picture on my yahoo profile and saved it to her computer ( i didnt even know it was on there).

Thanks for any help!

 

[italostud]

Sounds like she wants some weiner-shnitzel up in her vertical smile. I'd go over to watch the movie. Make a move within the first 15 minutes of the movie. You'll know right there whether you're wasting your time, or if you're getting some.

Don't get back into a relationship with her. Bang her a couple of times for old-times sake, then cut contact.

 

[bosshogg77]

weiner-shnitzel up in her vertical smile? LMAO

Do you think that's all she wants or something more?

Thanks for the advice...

 

[sidewind3r]

it sounds so out of the blue that it might just be for the schnitzel but after the schnitzel she might want more.

 

[italostud]

Originally posted by sidewind3r
it sounds so out of the blue that it might just be for the schnitzel but after the schnitzel she might want more.

Read the second part of my post. I covered all the bases on this one.

 

[Q-Pid]

Sounds like she's on the rebound and wants some sex from you.

 

[spider_007]

"hit & run" comes to mind

 

[bosshogg77]

when we were talking about her slutty friend, she did say that she doesn't just have sex with anyone llike her. I didnt say anything. She did kiss me goodbye first after meeting her again, so either she's being really friendly or wants the schnitzel lol

 

[bosshogg77]

Originally posted by spider_007
"hit & run" comes to mind

hopefully i'll be da booty call guy!

 

[Royal Elite]

Go and have a good time.

she's trying to reconnect with you, and it's obvious you still have feelings for her, so you might as well go for it. Be relaxed, go have a good time, don't assume anything, and let the ball be in her court!

 

[backbreaker]

just because a girl throws ***** in your face, doesn't mean you have to take it.

she is your ex of 4 years, you have been fine without her, she is your Ex for a damn good reason I would imagine...

Keep it that way...

 

[bosshogg77]

Originally posted by backbreaker
just because a girl throws ***** in your face, doesn't mean you have to take it.

she is your ex of 4 years, you have been fine without her, she is your Ex for a damn good reason I would imagine...

Keep it that way...

If she wants to do the deed i'll be all over that, but i'll see what happens

 

[backbreaker]

As a DJ, you have to keep in mind the aspect that you just don't take ALL ***** just because it's *****...

You have standards...


I don't know about the relationship they had... if she had problems then, I would stay away... Women who just randomly call a guy for some reason have an agenda.


thinking with the little head, instead of the big head, usually ends up with both heads getting into trouble.

If you are on your game, you shouldn't be for a shortage of women..

If you are at a shortage of women, don't stettle for used goods

 

[penkitten]

what kind of chick carries an ex boyfriends number around for four freaking years after they break up?

it smells really rotten from over here.....

 

[flexion_]

Holy schnitzel!

 

[bosshogg77]

is she insecure or something or what? She was just in a ltr but they broke up some time ago and was engaged. Then I get the call, I wish I knew what she really wants.

I did see an anti-depressant bottle in her purse though maybe she high!?

 

[penkitten]

brother, shes not what you are looking for, even if she is looking and hunting for you.
she reminds me of someone i know that i call crazy mary. crazy mary is my friend and i love her to death, but truth is she is crazy.
carrying around your ex bf's phone number and then suddenly calling them when you have no other friends left and meeting up with them and making sure your antidepressant meds are left half way hanging out her purse for him to feel sorry for her or think "oh she takes meds now and so she is normal " is just the kind of thing she does,
she also secretly steals mail boxes and then returns them of another ex and his entire family. however, she will never admidt it ever ever.
please dont get tricked into a bunch of poor me drama , its not worth it.

 

[bosshogg77]

Originally posted by penkitten
brother, shes not what you are looking for, even if she is looking and hunting for you.
she reminds me of someone i know that i call crazy mary. crazy mary is my friend and i love her to death, but truth is she is crazy.
carrying around your ex bf's phone number and then suddenly calling them when you have no other friends left and meeting up with them and making sure your antidepressant meds are left half way hanging out her purse for him to feel sorry for her or think "oh she takes meds now and so she is normal " is just the kind of thing she does,
she also secretly steals mail boxes and then returns them of another ex and his entire family. however, she will never admidt it ever ever.
please dont get tricked into a bunch of poor me drama , its not worth it.

Maybe she just has a craving for my weiner-shnitzel? haha

 

[penkitten]

i wish that were true.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

If a girl was truly interested in you, she'd stick with you. But if you wanna be an AFC like I was before and don't mind being sloppy seconds even after she's fcked and chcked by 10 other guys during those 4 years. GO AHEAD, BE THAT AFC. BE THAT HORNY PERSON WHO COULDN'T CONTROL HIMSELF.

Now you're all worked up, the ball is definetely in her court now. You're no man, but a puppet.