Ex Girlfriend At New Years Party

[thegoodstuff]

Recent break up. It's only been a month of no contact.

Relationship has been for almost 4 years, and it was very intimate. I'm not sure if I'm ready to do this. Same friends, so I'm getting screwed here.

Should I avoid this? Or go and have an awkward new years?

 

[eaglez1177]

I personally would just go anyways, say hello and maybe get a little small talk in (to avoid awkwardness), then get completely hammered. Better to have fun playing pong wasted with your friends, completely unaware of the ex, rather than worry about awkwardness and all that crap

 

[thegoodstuff]

I don't drink.

 

[MushroomGod]

Its prob better that you don't get wasted in front of an ex you had to go NC with so be glad you don't drink. Just have fun, say hi and leave it at that.

 

[Nutz]

Hire an escort or get a really hot friend to go and tell her to play it up to the max. Best revenge is a live well, and there's no better way than to get another girlfriend that's even hotter, younger, and more successful. If she's just hotter that alone can royally mess with her head.

 

[horaholic]

Recent break up. It's only been a month of no contact.

Relationship has been for almost 4 years, and it was very intimate. I'm not sure if I'm ready to do this. Same friends, so I'm getting screwed here.

Should I avoid this? Or go and have an awkward new years?

If you DO go, you can keep her as an option to get laid. that'd be better than watching some other dude take her out the door.