blackhatter
Don Juan
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Started seeing my ex again of 2 years. To me, it's more like a Fbuddy deal, but she's been hinting at wanting commitment, which is weird because she's moving away in like 1 month.
The only problem is that we aren't having as much sex as we used to. We used to f*ck 5 - 7 times a week.. Now it's more like 2 - 3.
I know, not terrible, but it's not what it used to be.
Her usual excuse is that she's hurting from me railing her out the night before or she wants to 'ease back into being so sexual so the relationship isn't all about sex, but I don't know if it's entirely true.
The most unexpected thing was tonight I was over her place chilling and was laying in bed with her bout to fall asleep and she looks at me and she says
"babe can I please sleep alone tonight? I have work at 7am (she does) and I sleep better alone."
Now she's never asked this of me before. But I've learned that flipping out is always the easiest route to take, so I calmly said
"Sure, no problem."
Go up, left, and she got up and kissed me goodbye.
It's notable that we got in a few fights over the weekend.
Maybe I'm just looking too much into things, but do you think she may just be keeping me there for comfort for now?
The only problem is that we aren't having as much sex as we used to. We used to f*ck 5 - 7 times a week.. Now it's more like 2 - 3.
I know, not terrible, but it's not what it used to be.
Her usual excuse is that she's hurting from me railing her out the night before or she wants to 'ease back into being so sexual so the relationship isn't all about sex, but I don't know if it's entirely true.
The most unexpected thing was tonight I was over her place chilling and was laying in bed with her bout to fall asleep and she looks at me and she says
"babe can I please sleep alone tonight? I have work at 7am (she does) and I sleep better alone."
Now she's never asked this of me before. But I've learned that flipping out is always the easiest route to take, so I calmly said
"Sure, no problem."
Go up, left, and she got up and kissed me goodbye.
It's notable that we got in a few fights over the weekend.
Maybe I'm just looking too much into things, but do you think she may just be keeping me there for comfort for now?