Ex GF sleeping in my bed..

[Last Man Standing]

Ok, the first mistake you did was let her move away again, it just caused a whole **** load of problems, You should have just asked her if she wanted to move in with you.

I say call her up, and ask her if she wants to move in with you, if she says yes, then cool you have the upper hand and take it from there.

If not move on. and Know that you screwed up, and figure out how you can fix it next time around.

Smoke

You should be totured for giving such counsel!!

Why tortured?.....

Because a death sentence is too kind!

 

[SmokeX]

You should be totured for giving such counsel!!


Because a death sentence is too kind!

But I thought I was giving him some advice he can use to lay her :|

 

[woods]

Why tortured?.....

Let me clue in in on something there 18 year old Smokey:

You do not EVER have the upper hand by letting a bytch move in with you. You lose everything. Then, when you break up, you lose even more. DO NOT EVER advise someone to do this. You will learn the hard way someday, until then, keep your yap shut about it.

 

[Last Man Standing]

But I thought I was giving him some advice he can use to lay her :|

Why move in? So that he can get even more emotionally attached so that she can leave again and then he'll have suicidal thoughts!

You don't need to give a hor free room and board to lay her!

 

[SmokeX]

Haha My bad guys. LoL I feel like an idiot here I thought I was helping him out, instead I was gonna get him screw over :| Suicidal thoughts are bad too :|

I just thought I was helpin' lol

Smoke

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

ok i got some time to read your responses, thanks for the replies everyone..

I forgot to mention that the other guy doesn't live in the state she moved back to (montana), he did, but he moved to michigan, sometime after she moved back here.

anyways,

yea, I do realize that i over-analized the situation a bit, I can sure as hell admit that, considering the events of the other night..

But as for her moving back to montana yesterday, she doesn't have any family here except for her broke brother/sister-in-law, so she really doesn't have much of a choice at the moment except to move back to her parents in montana. It's not really like I could prevent that, and I definitely dont need her living with me lol. But that whole situation is another really long story.

anyways, my goal wasn't to get laid, although thats still fun and all.. I do admit that I am way too emotionally crippled when it comes to her. I really do believe that I loved her at the time we were together, and I can't help that I felt that way. We had a strong connection during our relationship that was cut short over neutral terms, which is why I think I'm still stuck talking about this girl. Yes i was a bit heated about the other guy, but that wasn't the reason why I was sad over it all.

I guess it's just hard because of the fact that the relationship didn't end due to a problem between us. And now that I know she's still attracted to me, it just makes things even more complicated, emotionally. I mean, how can I get over someone, when I know they still have at least some feelings for me, yet they live in another state now and I probably won't see them for a while? I know I shouldn't even hang myself up on this, but does anyone here honestly understand where I'm coming from?

I know i'm pussing out this whole thing, I usually can hold myself together when it comes to women/relationships, but i guess that's why i'm posting on here about it..