ex gf gone to turkey for 6 months as a childcare rep I want her back how???

[danny0001uk]

Hi Peeps

Unfortunatley I found this site to late but heres the story so far.

My x broke up with me because she sAId it just wasnt wat she wanted how ever she applied for a job in turkey as a child care rep for 6 months and got the job she started on may the 3rd.

Heres the crunch the week she applied for the job in april she also broke up with me not giving any reason just saying its not wat i want bla bla bla however we still kept in touch and i spent the last 2 nites with her in the uk before she went

We did have a spell in april were i said to her i dnt want to be friends with her cause we want different things but she said i dnt wanna leave it on bad terms so we made up etc etc hence spending the last 2 nites she was in the uk 2gether.

However since she left she made it clear she was goin as a single women and we all kno what that means and we havnt been in touch since she left on may the 3rd.

On facebook when we broke up i deleted her cause i said i needed some time away from her etc etc however b4 she left the uk i tried to add her as a freind and she wouldnt accept so i questioned her about it and she said i need time and space even though shes goin 2 turkey for 6 months so she never accepted my friend request again.

Since shes been in turkey ive heared of mutual friends that shes been updating her status and keeping in touch with people on fb by sending them messages.

However she hasnt sent me any sort of message since shes got to turkey and i cnt see her wall or status updates as she wont accept me as a friend. So ive sent her a few messages on facebook and she hasnt replied to any of them even though i kno shes been using fb over there to keep in touch with her friends.

Its hurts me so much thats she has over 400 friends on fb thank she updates by writing on her wall and im not one of them i only hear whats shes up to by our mutual friends.

The thing is since weve broke up ive dated 10 other women but i still miss her so bad and it hurts me that she keeps in touch with eveyone else apart from me.

I kno she reads my messages but she hasnt replied to a single one of them!!!

I just want to kno what u think my next move should be? I miss her soo much and it kills me that she wont even reply to anything message i send her!

Thanks Guys

Danny (UK)

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I suggest man you delete your facebook and take a break from anything that reminds you of her. She broke up with you.... You need to move on and the first step is No Contact. Just take your facebook down for a couple weeks and focus on the things that you like. I'm not saying get a new girl or anything but focus on yourself. Do things that you enjoy doing.

 

[Ease]

Girls dont go to turkey to work as childcare reps, they go to get drilled by turkish men.

Sorry but she is getting chatted up by guys that look like this:

http://www.futbolca.com/resimasp/futbolcubioresim.asp?bohu=VOLKAN DEMIREL.jpg

 

[Strelok]

I want you to read very carefully what Ease said.

Now tell me what do you miss or desire about a girl who has been used and abused from turkish c0cks?
Do you think they're as gentle as you or consider girls as anything worth more that a hole? do you think she's not enjoying it to be fvcked raw dog?
She's getting what she wasn't getting from you,behind treated as a piace of meat from manly men who dont care about her feelings,its animal nature.

Picture this in your mind and you're view will change,maybe frustration or anger at first then you're not going to give a damn anymore.
It's kinda common for european girls(especially ugly eastern ones who cannot stand the competition in their countries due to the many cute ones) to go to turkey to get the hell fvcket out of them,as ease said che childcare thing is crap just an excuse.

Finally get an other girl or somemore and you'll bless your brain for allowing you to forget her in few days and laught about it.

 

[Lord Sidious]

My friend,


Please, do yourself a favor: forget about her once and for all!!!


Let us see a couple of facts:

1 - In spite of being a harsh thing, she did broke up with you. From that on you should do one thing only: move on!!! As simple as that.

2 - The reason why she broke up with you should be irrelevant! She broke up with you, that´s the only thing you´ll need to know. I do agree with the guys. I think it´s higly improbable she went to Turkey JUST for that purpose.

Yeah, it could be painful, but I promisse you won´t give a damn in the near future.


Take care, my friend.

 

[ArcBound]

She broke up with and as you said, without giving you a proper reason. So why are you trying so hard to win her back?

Then you delete her off facebook to get space, but you do a 180 and beg her to add you back?

Maybe she did go just for her childcare job. But do you think she's going to be in a foreign country for 6 months and go celibate there? Fact of the matter is she is probably going to get in a relationship or have sex while she is in Turkey. I know this sounds harsh, but you have to forget about her. Sending her messages isn't doing you any good if she isn't responding to them. You've already lost her, but if he keep trying to chase her down you're going to lose your mind and lose your dignity as well.

 

[sinnerman]

donot message her ever and donot ever add her back.i made this mistake with my ex.she was disrespectful so i removed her but she apologized later and i added her back..she on the other hand kept my request pending so i cancelled her request.if she sends you a request donot under any circumstances accept it..just keep it pending..that will drive her mad.