So this is a strange one maybe I can get some perspective here that my gut isn't already telling me.
long story short i went NC. I didn't talk to her for 5 weeks after a pretty big fight in where i left her with mutual friends to find her own ride home.
I took some time and honestly got over her.
So i texted her something funny. She seemed surprised i texted almost to a shocked point. she stated how much she's missed me yadda yadda.
1 day later she's texting me while taking a bath telling me how she's thinking about me.
2 days later she ends up at my house drunk and states she can sleep in the driveway. I said no just come in and sleep and you can go in the morning.
This was the first time i saw her drunk while me in a totally sober state I could tell her life just seemed a mess. I thought in my head good god how was I supposed to date this woman? She seems miserable and frustrated at SOMETHING.
I could tell she wanted sex. She was doing the butt wiggle on the bed. But I didn't bite because I'm just trying to be friends with her now at this point.
She texted me once she got home, i ignored that. she texted me again the next day and i responded an hour later. She stated to me "I forgot how handsome you were."
I laughed it off. Ever since that night though she's been crazy amounts of distant. It was a gradual thing but now its grown into quite a large gap between us its been two weeks since the night she slept over.
Thing is last weekend she got extremely drunk and ended up texting me while I was out with another chick. but not just one text 5 texts all in a row. the last one saying
that she can go to the bathroom at the party and give me a show.
I'm shocked because she hasn't acted directly sexual since when we first started dating which was a year ago. I respond in a flirty manner and she doesn't respond. Instead she calls me the next day and is laughing about all the text and she says i can't believe i sent that to you.
I laugh to because honestly i thought nothing of it.
To me I think she's still attracted to me and is struggling with her relationship decisions. She pulled back on me like this once before and that's when she broke it off with me. I've told her i'm cool with friends and have sorta asked her advice on some new women i'm talking to.
She gets a little dismissive and sarcastically pokes fun at them, she has even gone as far as "you didn't sleep with her did you?"
MIND YOU it hasn't been a full month since i've reinitiated contact with her. I have no idea what to think about this. I'd like her to take a second look at our relationship but i'm not sitting around for it. but this distance is something outta left field!
long story short i went NC. I didn't talk to her for 5 weeks after a pretty big fight in where i left her with mutual friends to find her own ride home.
I took some time and honestly got over her.
So i texted her something funny. She seemed surprised i texted almost to a shocked point. she stated how much she's missed me yadda yadda.
1 day later she's texting me while taking a bath telling me how she's thinking about me.
2 days later she ends up at my house drunk and states she can sleep in the driveway. I said no just come in and sleep and you can go in the morning.
This was the first time i saw her drunk while me in a totally sober state I could tell her life just seemed a mess. I thought in my head good god how was I supposed to date this woman? She seems miserable and frustrated at SOMETHING.
I could tell she wanted sex. She was doing the butt wiggle on the bed. But I didn't bite because I'm just trying to be friends with her now at this point.
She texted me once she got home, i ignored that. she texted me again the next day and i responded an hour later. She stated to me "I forgot how handsome you were."
I laughed it off. Ever since that night though she's been crazy amounts of distant. It was a gradual thing but now its grown into quite a large gap between us its been two weeks since the night she slept over.
Thing is last weekend she got extremely drunk and ended up texting me while I was out with another chick. but not just one text 5 texts all in a row. the last one saying
that she can go to the bathroom at the party and give me a show.
I'm shocked because she hasn't acted directly sexual since when we first started dating which was a year ago. I respond in a flirty manner and she doesn't respond. Instead she calls me the next day and is laughing about all the text and she says i can't believe i sent that to you.
I laugh to because honestly i thought nothing of it.
To me I think she's still attracted to me and is struggling with her relationship decisions. She pulled back on me like this once before and that's when she broke it off with me. I've told her i'm cool with friends and have sorta asked her advice on some new women i'm talking to.
She gets a little dismissive and sarcastically pokes fun at them, she has even gone as far as "you didn't sleep with her did you?"
MIND YOU it hasn't been a full month since i've reinitiated contact with her. I have no idea what to think about this. I'd like her to take a second look at our relationship but i'm not sitting around for it. but this distance is something outta left field!
