ex ****buddy hitting me up again

[Ryan Adams]

shes sending me flirty pics slightly flirting with me. I know for a fact she has a bf. how should I go about this? she just sent me a snap of a picture of herself. she was gorgeous in the sack.

 

[skinnyguy]

Tell her she has a nice face and you want to finish all over it. Going sexual is the way to go with these h0es

 

[Ryan Adams]

well I dont think that's the best way to reestablish banging her.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I put up a snap of my buddy and me.she said she knew we would end up together. I said he is too attractive I had to seal the deal. she said tommy (my buddy) has dance moves and she doesnt blame me for tying the knot. (jokingly) I said you want his number . she said lol I wouldn't do that to you. I said lol why in the **** would I care what you do. is this her **** test?

 

[Glassguy]

You say you have fvcked this chick before. She has a bf. She is sending you pics.

You have one of 2 options:

1.) Be her friend through chit chat and show her that you are still a beta chump. Watch her lose interest.

2.) Get to the fvcking point on what you really want. You dont want to be friends, you want to fvck her again.

"Hey I have to run but it was nice to hear from you. Why dont you pick up a bottle of wine and come over _____night and we can catch up".

Then one of two things happen.

1.) She does in fact want to fvck you again, and agrees. Or she counter offers for a different day that she is free. Seal the deal.

2.) She wants attention and validation because she doesnt get it from her bf because he understands how all of this shyte works with women and he is playing his cards correctly. At that point she laughs off your request, and you simply tell her it was nice to hear from her, take care and if she changes her mind to let you know.

3.) She will play the bf card and play hard to get. "But I am seeing someone". I would say "either come over to hang out, or stop sending me pics if you are so concerned about your bf. You decide and let me know later. I have to run".

Then she either disappears again or comes over.

That is how you handle it. You waste no time in telling her (covertly) what you want. Stop wasting your time and go get it if you want it.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I'm going to heed this advice. will update.

 

[Glassguy]

Stop the endless banter.

I had a hot blonde plate of mine that broke it off a couple of months ago hit me up 3 days ago. It was pointless chitter chatter on her part but I got to the point really quick.

Her: How have you been blah blah.
Me: Been great. So do you want to have a drink or two and hang out or did you contact me for a pen pal?
Her: Well IDK. I just wanted to see what you were up to, but I know how you feel about platonic female friends.
Me: you have a good memory. You figure it out and let me know. If you want to come over, great, if not, it was nice hearing from you.

She is coming over tomorrow night.

DO NOT WASTE TOO MUCH TIME WITH POINTLESS CONVO. These women want to fvck and they want you to lead. If they werent interested they wouldnt be contacting you unless for validation. My plates (and former plates) know that I am busy and they know that I am not going to be a pen pal or emotional tampon.

Get to the point.

 

[Ryan Adams]

true ****. she wouldn't be sending pics of her in the gym if either she wanted validation. or she wants to rekindle the fvck sesh. I sent her hey why dont you grab a bottle of wine and a 12 pack and we catch up.

 

[R.U.G.]

She's just testing the waters or is not getting enough attention from her BF, and now wants it from you. When I am done with a woman, I am DONE. You should have a stable so when one is like this, you always have a relief pitcher in the wings waiting to take over.

 

[Ryan Adams]

she said gotta go to the gym. I said you'll be alright skip it

 

[Ryan Adams]

she said this. I dont wanna make my bf feel uncomfortable. I said ok well when you change your mind let me know.

 

[R.U.G.]

she said this. I dont wanna make my bf feel uncomfortable. I said ok well when you change your mind let me know.

Bro, if she's emotionally cheating on her new bf why do you want to get in on this drama? Move on. Not worth the headache.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I wanna bang her again....

 

[R.U.G.]

I wanna bang her again....

Playing it wrong then. You're orbiting. If you want it, then go get it.. Message her, Hey, let's get a drink. Stop with all this bs. Sh!t or get off the pot. Just prepare to be shot down or any repercussions from her bf. Hopefully, he's not a meatheat.

 

[lizardking82]

Oh my, just stop copying Corey Wayne with that "Let me know if you change your mind". Ex f-buddy contacts you, your default reaction should be "hey there sweety, is that p0ssy wet for me still?" Nothing more. If it's wet, she will be there like a little puppy and it will probably turn her on even more than you got the bAlls to get right to the point and you're not even being shy about it.

Had a case like this that worked out wonderfully, I will wrap it up shortly for you: known girl a couple of months ago, she was breaking up with her bf; conversation got sexual, but then her BF was back in the picture for a short while, I let her "go", got on with my stuff. A couple of weeks later she started replying to some of my stories on Instagram, we pick up a short convo and I go straight to the question "does the idea of facking me still get your p0ssy wet?" and she waits a couple of minutes and says "yes, it does". She came over from another city to my room a couple of days ago, a petite and cute curly haired, nice girl. We had sex like three times in about two hours and then she left.

Get to the point.

 

[R.U.G.]

Oh my, just stop copying Corey Wayne with that "Let me know if you change your mind". Ex f-buddy contacts you, your default reaction should be "hey there sweety, is that p0ssy wet for me still?" Nothing more. If it's wet, she will be there like a little puppy and it will probably turn her on even more than you got the bAlls to get right to the point and you're not even being shy about it.

Had a case like this that worked out wonderfully, I will wrap it up shortly for you: known girl a couple of months ago, she was breaking up with her bf; conversation got sexual, but then her BF was back in the picture for a short while, I let her "go", got on with my stuff. A couple of weeks later she started replying to some of my stories on Instagram, we pick up a short convo and I go straight to the question "does the idea of facking me still get your p0ssy wet?" and she waits a couple of minutes and says "yes, it does". She came over from another city to my room a couple of days ago, a petite and cute curly haired, nice girl. We had sex like three times in about two hours and then she left.

Get to the point.

Didn't I post the same above?

 

[Ryan Adams]

Playing it wrong then. You're orbiting. If you want it, then go get it.. Message her, Hey, let's get a drink. Stop with all this bs. Sh!t or get off the pot. Just prepare to be shot down or any repercussions from her bf. Hopefully, he's not a meatheat.

I did text her that...

 

[Ryan Adams]

all she said was will do.

 

[Glassguy]

all she said was will do.

Well, there you go. You dont say another word unless she reaches out again. And if she tries that chit chat BS, you simply say "Good to hear from you. Did you figure out when you are free to grab some wine and come over and chill?"

Its a yes or a no. If she continues to beat around the bush, just tell her that you are busy and to reach out again WHEN SHE FIGURES OUT WHEN SHE CAN COME OVER. Thats it. We arent going to get p!ssy, demanding and butthurt. We are just going to be silent again, showing that we really dont care if she comes over or not because we have a complete life without her and other female options.

She will either vanish because you arent going to fill her up with compliments and give her the validation she is seeking, so she will go else where to get it...or she wants to fvck again and will tell you a time that works for her. If she tries to beat around the bush again, you be silent. Congrats, you just saved yourself the bullshyte and your time wasted on her if thats the case.

If she comes over, you be super cool and sort of DISINTERESTED in sex with her. Trust me on this. Just be fun and chill. I like to see how things play out in this situation because most of the time she will give up and be all over you. Give it maybe 30 minutes and show her that you arent thirsty. Have 3 of your friends blow your phone up while you are there. When she asks who in the world is texting you so much, just tell her a few of your "friends".

I could do an entire thread on how to act when a girl comes over to "chill". You remain in an abundance mindset and never thirsty. Give it 30-40 minutes of just chilling with a IDGAF attitude about sex with her, dont even bring it up. If she wants to fvck, she will covertly tell you or she will be all over you after she cant take it anymore.

Thats all you can do at this point. You knocked the ball back over the net to her and she didnt give you an answer. Be silent.

 

[R.U.G.]

Never contact twice. You just sit back and go about your day and life. If she contacts you later, hey whatcha doing, wanna hang out? Then, Netflix and chill bro. You do not spend one penny on her; aside from food needed for a meal at home, some wine and a Netflix subscription. Though, Hulu or Amazon Prime could work too.