Ex BPD art major painted an unflattering picture of me

[sazc]

Want some advice?

Take that picture, and make it your profile picture. Tag her in the description and say thanks for the fan art. Laugh and smile, and even give her advice on what to add to it.

^^ THIS is your answer. You want to take your power back and re frame this whole thing? Grab that pic and make it your screen shot and say something witty and comical about it!

Anything else is going to have her laughing her arse off that she got to you!

 

[Dingo]

Why would you even care ?... She's got you where she wants... Laugh it off... Disarm the bytch....

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Dude chill.. chilllll

That's epic, if youre triggered from something anyone does to tease you..

YOU ARE RESPONIBLE FOR YOUR REACTIONS.

no blaming or getting butthurt.

No such thing as bad publicity..
The advice already said here is great

If anything use that annoyance as motivation to look better.

If you're balding and getting overweight that doesn't mean ****, as long as you're proactively improving yourself..

Though this might bug some people RSD has loads of content on these kinds of insecurities, you have to have the ability to laugh at any deep insecurity you have.

 

[sazc]

I have no issue dating men whom are follicuarly challenged. As one poster said, shave it down and own it - that is sexy.

 

[bigneil]

Hey all.

Broke up with my BPD ex a month ago who I cannot believe I was strong enough to get the hell away from. bytch was insane.

anyway while we dated since she is an art major I let her take a picture of me shirtless to then paint in her free time. I'd forgotten about it after a while but this cvnt painted the picture of me with a pot belly and a receding hairline which at the time she swore she was going to paint me with a six pack abs and full head of hair. (im currently working out and trying to save to get hair restoration treatments).

The problem is she put the picture up as her Facebook profile pic and I've noticed since we've shared the same social circle a lot of people I know we're commenting laughing and making extremely fcked up remarks about my looks in the painting she did.

I'm furious. I need help guys. wtf with these bpd cvnts!

Any publicity is good publicity!

Imitation is the highest form of flattery!

 

[screwball]

I hear you guys. you've motivated me to stop feeling sorry for myself and paint my own portrait. six pack abs and full head of hair something as a goal to put as my main FB picture.

BPD women be damned

 

[homie]

Not funny.

So I had sent the BPD bytch a FB message and she replied. I asked her nicely to please take it down and she countered offered with telling me she might put it on her e-bay account to sell with the other crap artwork she tries to pawn off on her followers. I tried to LGBF her to see if she would take the bait and do it for a friend but no go. (I left out telling her I was going to sue her in my opener)

I've read a few of the BPD threads on SS and I feel bad for you guys having to deal with these psycho cvnts. Bytch is spiteful as all hell and captioned the picture "Dad Bod" after our brief conversation with new commenters making smart ass remarks at the pic of me. It wasn't like I even dumped HER. I swear to GOD I wanted to write her back and say Yea you weren't calling me "Dad Bod" while I was ****ing you like my daughter bytch!

I honestly don't know what to do. I'm trying to go no contact but this psycho has me hostage with MY picture!!!!!!!!!!!!

Haha, this IS funny.
You mad bro. Remember what Buddha said "what others speak of you is not yours, it is theirs" or something like that lol.

 

[AlphaNate]

My man, her frame is shaken.

So if her frame is shaken, it's okay to allow yours to be shaken?

You need to re-evaluate.

 

[kronreiff]

I just sent her a message on FB if she doesn't remove that crap painting she did of me im going to sue her. I'll give her a few days to take it down or im going to her house an beat her awful.

I'm pissed as hell right now!!!

I'm also going to paint my own self portrait and have it rated online vs her crap as proof she wasted her time art majoring.

these cvnts need to be taught a lesson.

thank you guys for hearing me out.

Will update end off week

OP, where's your frame and sense of pride? Your're going to let one ***** out of 3.5 billion get into your head that bad? Sounds to me like you have severe confidence issues. I don't think it's just her either. I think if I painted that picture and posted it, you'd be just as angry at me. Rebuild your frame and forget about this BPD loser. You're a man, find your purpose in life and chase it down like a mad dog not caring about what ANY woman might say, do or think. Now, go heal yourself from this life lesson and never look back.

 

[dude99]

OP. Walk away.