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I see a lot of people complaining also.
But what does complaining solve?
I thought about it. You have to be your own man. You have to come up with a formula to be the man without "Being the man" and letting it be shown.
SUBTLE is the key. If your woman knows you are trying to "be a man" she will deter you.
My girlfriend tries her hardest to be "independent".
I usually put a dent in her game by not showing my emotions at all. I will confuse her.
I show my emotions one week in a subtle way, the next I act care free.
If she calls and breaks a date I tell her to call me when she thinks she has time in her busy schedule. She will call the next day and try to see if I will still go out with her.
What you should do is simply make the date, show up late (to show you are better then her) but no more then 15 minutes, if you are picking her up.
If she asks you for a date on a certain day, you tell her it is not good for you, but saturday is fine.
That is a subtle technique. I use this to trick my girlfriend into thinking my way.
You can never tell a woman to think your way, they will rebel and reject it.
Remember we are men and "don't know anything" right? So we need to not let them know.
It's in the bible, proverbs, "Be wiser then the next man, but do not tell him".
Same goes for a woman.
Of course we have fags, bleeding heart liberals, anti this anti that, feminist, but you just be your own confident man and ignore these facts of society that will not change. They will only proliferate.
Of course our society is corrupt, but what will that mean for us? We should not live in fear of society, we should embrace living.
I was in the supermarket today and a woman told me to go ahead of her, so I went. She cracked a sarcastic comment "some people are just angry and rude" and I ignored her. Why take her bait?
Silence is GOLDEN.
SELF Control is KEY.
Actions speak louder then WORDS.
Remember this when dealing with any woman.
If you can be figured out, you can be controlled.
This is the game you have to play nowadays.
What does "being real" get you? It gets you in trouble is what it does. I have been that way and have realized being real has caused women to step away, or try to control things.
So work hard, keep in control, have self discipline, you can control every action you make, it starts with your mind. You could look like the incredible Hulk and still be a weak man.
Read these books
The Holy Bible
Always good for inspiration and wisdom
Jack Welch "Winning"
"The Purpose Driven Life"
and
"Your hands can heal you"
Your hands can heal you is one of the greatest books I have ever read on self control. It is a book about master meditation and it is real.
It takes a lot of concentration to do what it says in the book but it's worth it.
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