Evil Lurks In The Human Soul - We are at war

[Jester]

Ladies and gentleman, mostly gentleman, i have encountered evil unlike any i've ever witnessed.

We are tested throughout our lives, perhaps for a greater purpose, perhaps just by chance. One thing remains constant though, if you stand up for your ideals and for your honor, you will not fail.


My girlfriend of a year and half, whom was expertly screened, has turned out to be a pathogical liar. She has cheated on me, drank, smoked weed, gone to clubs without my knowledge, and never even gone to many classes in college. I proved this all for the first time last night, and dumped her in the same instant. I am a vindicated man. Though she was in college since september, i have not cheated on her, i have stood up for my ideals, and i have been a true DJ. I was then, and still remain righteous.

I am also not unhappy. Though i once falsely believed i was in love with her, i now know for certain i was wrong, and that she never loved me either. And so i feel only excitment about the future i have to come.


Guys, i am so happy right now, i wish you all could feel this way.


Theres probably more to say, but none of it needs to be said. Just watch your back my brothers, and if you feel in your heart that a girl is shady, get rid of her.


Its going to be a good life....No rain...No rainbows

 

[Rad]

Good for you man. Put these broads in there place.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

 

[Superman X]

Jester, awesome job overcoming this sh!t. This is the mentality that we all need to have, the true unstoppable persistant mentality.

However-- I'd like to ask your something. What do you consider righteous and honorable? Do you believe in "giving to the giver and taking from the taker", treating good people honorably, and dealing with evil people in a Machiavellian manner, or do you believe that you should "turn the other cheek", and treat others well no matter how they teach you?

Myself, I believe in the former. I'd be interested to know which one you believe in.

-Dan

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Yup - I had two girls that were liars to the extreme, and I mean to the extreme, and they both wanted marriage!

Thank God, I found out who they were and where their loyalties were, and it wasn't with me but for themselves. The first sign of a hor is selfishness...if you see this trait in a girl, run!!!!

Jester, you felt great relief, just like I did, because you were lifted from a heavy burden of falsehood and deceit that would have only led to disaterous results...when the truth is sought and found it provides a great awakening of the mind and consoling to the soul.

You are lucky, many guys are married to women such as this and are miserable! Some have children with these hors and now must relate to these women on a weekly basis and must pay child support for 18 years. And most of the money she gets is not spent on the child but on herself! There are many angry men out here.

But it realy is not the fault of the women, rather it is fault of the man that blinded himself to who he was 'really' with because he lusted after her physical beauty and not who she was as a person. There is a price to pay for our lusts!! Seek women vith values that are aligned with yours, and look at her character/actions to judge her and not what she says!!

You are a lucky man to have escaped!!!

 

[Julian]

your post put a smile on my face, good work bro.

 

[Jester]

In plain words, righteousness, is the shiznit. lol.

give to the giver and take from the taker? Absolutely but thats just a strategy of how to get a girl to like you more and nothing but.

I treat all people well pretty much period. Of course i dont let myself get walked on. I dont make fun of anybody unless their my friends, or unless im really just messing around.

if someone is making fun of somebody in a mean way, i make fun of the first person.

3 keys to happiness.

Eliminate insecurity.
Eliminate vainity
And eliminate your ego

ill explain all that in a post some time

 

[Capt.Jack Sparrow]

Thanks for the adivce, I'm glad your happy.

 

[drixsa]

Jester-

i don't know why you are so suprized.

you send your G-F off to college. It is just too hard to do the long term thing espically when you are sitting at home waiting for her.

its better that you found out soon than later but it was kind of rediculous that you thought that it would work out.

To be honest it doesn't matter how well we screen out girls b/c they are all flawed and sh*t will always come about.

It may have been too much to put those boundries on her b/c by doing so she is missing out, or even worse she thinks that she is missing out.

I may have a different perspective than most b/c all my friends are now freshmen in college and i have taken a different path than they have, only looking in once in a while.

i wouldn't say that it is impossible but it is really hard to maintain a quality LTR at college for lowerclassmen AND have the LTR be a long distance relationship.

to me cheating and lying are really the only problems that i have with this girl (i am not crazy about her not going to class though ) but being that college is a time for kids to learn and mature (or just party and do stupid things), she needs to figure out who she is. Obviously she wasn't strong enough to have that relationship at this time in her life but maybe you were not strong enough to realize what your girl friend was or was not capable of...

 

[Jester]

If one person can carry out a task. Another person can do it as well. Some might have to work harder, some might have to take a longer time, but it can be done.


I can do anything, period. Which means everyone else, unless they are handicapped in some way, can do the same.

I went into this with no illusions. Most relationships like that dont make it past october. Youve said some very true things, but they do not apply to all people. I have been in rooms full of alcohol and not taken a sip. Offered weed by my friends and not taken a hit. Had chances to **** with hot girls but yet still i declined that.
I was deceited into believing my girlfriend was the same. I was wrong.



but you know what? because i was righteous throughout, i have no regrets. I did not break up with a girl i believed i loved without merit. I did not waver in the face of adversity. I did not weaken beneath the feet of doubt. I remained righteous and so i am happy.

and im also happy cause now i can use everything ive learned to its fullest potential.


There are good people in this world my friend, its just a matter of finding them.

 

[Cloud-uk]

I can do anything, period.

I love it when people say this, it just shows total confidence- the kind of confidence you have as a child. Genius .

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Jester

I went into this with no illusions. Most relationships like that dont make it past october. Youve said some very true things, but they do not apply to all people. I have been in rooms full of alcohol and not taken a sip. Offered weed by my friends and not taken a hit. Had chances to **** with hot girls but yet still i declined that.
I was deceited into believing my girlfriend was the same. I was wrong.

Im really not into smoking but don't have an issue with people that do but there is not much partying going down if there is not alcohol involved, alcohol and books are what college is about.

[/QUOTE]but you know what? because i was righteous throughout, i have no regrets. I did not break up with a girl i believed i loved without merit. I did not waver in the face of adversity. I did not weaken beneath the feet of doubt. I remained righteous and so i am happy. [/QUOTE]

I posted a POLL in the don juan discussion when thinking about my own G-F; i asked "would you rather cheat on your GF or be cheated on. I realized that more guys would rather cheat and not have to deal with being cheated on than stick to their own values & beliefs (or their lack of them) i think ill bump the post back up. But i am pretty sure i would know which way you would vote.

It is actually now hard for me to believe that people would be willing to cheat on GF's that they made a commitment to be monogomous with. I guess some people just really do not value their word enough (your rebuttle wanted ;D)

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There are good people in this world my friend, its just a matter of finding them. [/QUOTE]

ahhhh Amen.