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PlayHerMan said:
Women openly admit to manipulating men and I posted a video as proof. I ask you to respond to that and you avoided it.
The video is a farce. FAR FROM PROOF OF ANYTHING. Take a couple minutes and scroll through her blog if you wish located here: http://iamcreative247.blogspot.com/

She makes comedic videos as entertainment. She has a whole series titled "Bad Advice" in which she reads an email and gives what in her opinion is bad advice as some sort of entertainment. See here: http://youtu.be/2o6-yEOQZEc

Shes not admitting women are manipulative, but taking advantage of the butthurt men who cry foul when women leave them. ITS ENTERTAINMENT. Not that there is anything actually entertaining or humorous about it...

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Its not for him. Its for all the AFC men reading this site and trying to gain wisdom and improve themselves. I don't want them to waste precious time buying into the Dr. Phil drivel TheException is spreading here.
Doesnt take much to prod that ego of yours does it? How come whenever someone disagrees with you, you react with utter disdain? Their point of view is completely dismissed and they are deemed a "moron" with no explanation on your behalf. I find the whole thing fascinating.

I agree with some of your advice, but Im willing to bet you would say 100% of my viewpoints are "moronic". The majority of posters do not call you out or challenge you on certain points therefore when I do....its as if you have to automatically disagree with me on everything on account of your ego.

I think you care more about "being right" and having people prop up your "rep" than you do about actually discussing issues in detail, that would lead to good conversation and thus knowledge and growth for everyone involved.

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The idea that men are 100% responsible for everything that goes on in a sexual relationship is too absurd of an idea to be taken seriously. Women have brains and self-awareness too. They are not just mindless drones reacting to what men do :crazy: . People need to see how idiotic his claims really are (if they don't already). :up:
Another thing you typically do is take everything to the extreme. Feel free to quote me where I say "Men are 100% responsible for EVERYTHING". I do feel men's actions play a huge role in shaping a relationship and establishing "power". This whole idea that men "are not responsible" then by default has to claim that the majority of the responsibility falls on women. To think that a man is essentially helpless and has little responsibility in a relationship is just plain incorrect. We have the POWER. We can achieve whatever we want out of a relationship but we as men need to understand that our actions are the means to do so.

Man ACTS like a chump = gets treated by a chump
Man ACTS like a champ = gets treated like a champ.

Its THAT simple. And to deny that is foolish.

I read one of your posts awhile back and the reason I remember it was because it was dead on. It talked about how men are 99% beta faggots nowadays. Its exactly right. And I would suggest that we have the POWER to change those actions and reverse the trend of guys being the b1tch in the relationship and the woman being "the man".

I would love to just get your take on how that is "Dr Phil Drivel".
 

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It's a good video and these days I recognise everything in it as being true and I see it for myself in al the females I come into contact with.

But I think this video is still only of use for those already in a relationship. For single beta afcs like myself it is no help in actually acquiring a girlfriend in the first place.
 

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TheException said:
The video is a farce. FAR FROM PROOF OF ANYTHING. Take a couple minutes and scroll through her blog if you wish located here: http://iamcreative247.blogspot.com/

She makes comedic videos as entertainment. She has a whole series titled "Bad Advice" in which she reads an email and gives what in her opinion is bad advice as some sort of entertainment. See here: http://youtu.be/2o6-yEOQZEc

Shes not admitting women are manipulative, but taking advantage of the butthurt men who cry foul when women leave them. ITS ENTERTAINMENT. Not that there is anything actually entertaining or humorous about it...
She is just one example of many. What is your option on the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar? This is a book written by a woman explaining how women purposely manipulated men.

Your claim that women are not aware of their behavior when they attempt to manipulate men is simply false. The more you deny this.. the more of a moron you are.

You are wrong. Simple as that. :crackup:

Doesnt take much to prod that ego of yours does it? How come whenever someone disagrees with you, you react with utter disdain? Their point of view is completely dismissed and they are deemed a "moron" with no explanation on your behalf. I find the whole thing fascinating.

I agree with some of your advice, but Im willing to bet you would say 100% of my viewpoints are "moronic". The majority of posters do not call you out or challenge you on certain points therefore when I do....its as if you have to automatically disagree with me on everything on account of your ego.

I think you care more about "being right" and having people prop up your "rep" than you do about actually discussing issues in detail, that would lead to good conversation and thus knowledge and growth for everyone involved.
Only faggots whine like this. :cry:

Get a tissue and dry yourself off. Then lets get back to the real discussion.

Another thing you typically do is take everything to the extreme. Feel free to quote me where I say "Men are 100% responsible for EVERYTHING". I do feel men's actions play a huge role in shaping a relationship and establishing "power". This whole idea that men "are not responsible" then by default has to claim that the majority of the responsibility falls on women. To think that a man is essentially helpless and has little responsibility in a relationship is just plain incorrect. We have the POWER. We can achieve whatever we want out of a relationship but we as men need to understand that our actions are the means to do so.

Man ACTS like a chump = gets treated by a chump
Man ACTS like a champ = gets treated like a champ.

Its THAT simple. And to deny that is foolish.

I read one of your posts awhile back and the reason I remember it was because it was dead on. It talked about how men are 99% beta faggots nowadays. Its exactly right. And I would suggest that we have the POWER to change those actions and reverse the trend of guys being the b1tch in the relationship and the woman being "the man".

I would love to just get your take on how that is "Dr Phil Drivel".
So you say I take everything to the extreme and now you're doing the same. Show me where I said "men have no responsibility". :crackup:

You are making the claim that women have no self-awareness in their sexual relationships. You are WRONG.

You also make the claim that women never consciously or purposely try to manipulate men in their lives. YOU ARE WRONG.

There is a lot a man can do to avoid getting manipulated and awareness is one of them. That's why I posed this video. :crazy:

Anything else you have to say? We can argue as long as you want. You'll still be wrong. :up:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
She is just one example of many. What is your option on the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar? This is a book written by a woman explaining how women purposely manipulated men.
Actually this is a very interesting book. It goes way beyond just a woman claiming manipulation. She brings up some very intelligent and thought provoking ideas. Its almost like swallowing a second red pill in a matter of speaking to anyone who hasnt yet read it. The mass majority of women are not Esther Vilar however. She was receiving death threats for making such wild claims at the time. She comes off to me as a low quality women....and ironically when I search to find her marital status...I find none.

But lets bring some focus to your point because you have done a pretty good job of being incredibly vague. What specific behavior by women are you claiming as "purposefully manipulative" ? And try not to go off and find another youtube video or someone else's book.....I want PlayHerMan's brain to be used here.
 

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This video is pure bull****

Note: The point of this post is not to go on a white knight quest to defend the honor of women. No, rather, I find it quite upsetting the way the video preaches that women do all those evil, while assuming men do not. It is an extremely simplistic (and unrealistic) analysis of social dynamics.

This is a prime example of misogyny, and I must say, my faith in humanity has dropped down a notch. What he is talking abut in his video are things that EVERYONE does, whether male or female. Some do it more often than others, and some do it better. Some will even do it consciously, while a vast majority will do it subconsciously. Some will do it, thinking they are helping out, while others will do it malevolently. Heck, some people will even do it with a personal agenda. In the end however, we all do it, to varying degree. Generalizing this to women is pure illogical nonsense. Whatever the video accuses women of doing, men do it equally.

What he says about masks... We all do this. Again, it's at different level, but in the end, we always change our personality slightly, some more than others (the more assertive you are, the less you do it) depending on who we interact with. A prime example of this, look at your typical AFC who will go all "sugar and spice and everything nice" for women.

The same **** about finding the weakness of men and automatically using them. Men do this as well. It's not a matter of sexes, it's a matter of how much integrity a person has.

For the third principle, I do have to agree with him. We leave in an era of double standards, and they work both ways. However, at the risk of sounding like a brat, *****ing and moaning about that fact won't make it go away, and won't change it. It will only make you more bitter.

Anyways, I didn't watch the whole thing, I got bored of it. People should really stop blaming women (and society) for their misfortune and failures, and take a long, hard look at themselves instead.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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TheException said:
Actually this is a very interesting book. It goes way beyond just a woman claiming manipulation. She brings up some very intelligent and thought provoking ideas. Its almost like swallowing a second red pill in a matter of speaking to anyone who hasnt yet read it. The mass majority of women are not Esther Vilar however. She was receiving death threats for making such wild claims at the time. She comes off to me as a low quality women....and ironically when I search to find her marital status...I find none.

But lets bring some focus to your point because you have done a pretty good job of being incredibly vague. What specific behavior by women are you claiming as "purposefully manipulative" ? And try not to go off and find another youtube video or someone else's book.....I want PlayHerMan's brain to be used here.
Are you claiming women NEVER purposefully manipulate men? YES OR NO?

Then we'll go from there. :up:
 

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Note: The point of this post is not to go on a white knight quest to defend the honor of women. No, rather, I find it quite upsetting the way the video preaches that women do all those evil, while assuming men do not. It is an extremely simplistic (and unrealistic) analysis of social dynamics.

This is a prime example of misogyny, and I must say, my faith in humanity has dropped down a notch. What he is talking abut in his video are things that EVERYONE does, whether male or female. Some do it more often than others, and some do it better. Some will even do it consciously, while a vast majority will do it subconsciously. Some will do it, thinking they are helping out, while others will do it malevolently. Heck, some people will even do it with a personal agenda. In the end however, we all do it, to varying degree. Generalizing this to women is pure illogical nonsense. Whatever the video accuses women of doing, men do it equally.

What he says about masks... We all do this. Again, it's at different level, but in the end, we always change our personality slightly, some more than others (the more assertive you are, the less you do it) depending on who we interact with. A prime example of this, look at your typical AFC who will go all "sugar and spice and everything nice" for women.

The same **** about finding the weakness of men and automatically using them. Men do this as well. It's not a matter of sexes, it's a matter of how much integrity a person has.

For the third principle, I do have to agree with him. We leave in an era of double standards, and they work both ways. However, at the risk of sounding like a brat, *****ing and moaning about that fact won't make it go away, and won't change it. It will only make you more bitter.

Anyways, I didn't watch the whole thing, I got bored of it. People should really stop blaming women (and society) for their misfortune and failures, and take a long, hard look at themselves instead.
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Agree, what is the goal of this site to depedalize women and put men on a pedestal? Let's not forgot this happens to
 
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Admittedly, I didn't read any posts after the first page.

Let me preface this by saying that I love your posts, PlayHer Man. Big fan.

Having said that, I have to disagree with most of the video. I agree with the author's assertions that women are cunning and that they control men via mind games. I also agree with the men hitting women bit. If a b1tch punches me, she's going fvcking down.

Now to the stuff I don't agree with.

He suggests that women have deluded men into doing man's work. He mentions the most obvious examples: wars, digging ditches and coal mines. Haven't we always done these things because evolution has made us better suited for them? We're strong, competitive and protective. We're motherfvcking courageous. It is engrained in us to protect our progeny.

He also seems to think that men would like to be homemakers. Aren't women better suited for it? Rearing children is for women, in my opinion.

The author is basically trying to treat men and women as complete equals, and I think that's ridiculous. Fvck equalism. Feminists use the same logic to justify women's role in the government and legal arenas.

Decision making is for men. The middle east got one thing right.
 
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From what I could tell, the author of the video seems to assert that women orchestrated evolution. That's absurd.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Admittedly, I didn't read any posts after the first page.

Let me preface this by saying that I love your posts, PlayHer Man. Big fan.

Having said that, I have to disagree with most of the video. I agree with the author's assertions that women are cunning and that they control men via mind games. I also agree with the men hitting women bit. If a b1tch punches me, she's going fvcking down.

Now to the stuff I don't agree with.

He suggests that women have deluded men into doing man's work. He mentions the most obvious examples: wars, digging ditches and coal mines. Haven't we always done these things because evolution has made us better suited for them? We're strong, competitive and protective. We're motherfvcking courageous. It is engrained in us to protect our progeny.

He also seems to think that men would like to be homemakers. Aren't women better suited for it? Rearing children is for women, in my opinion.

The author is basically trying to treat men and women as complete equals, and I think that's ridiculous. Fvck equalism. Feminists use the same logic to justify women's role in the government and legal arenas.

Decision making is for men. The middle east got one thing right.
I agree that women and men are not equal. I also agree that "men's work" is better suited for men and that's why men have always done it.

However.. I do believe the video is correct about how men become whipped faggots in relationships. Its one thing to do men's work and another to do ALL the work while having lower social status than the people doing less work. That's one key point in the video --> Women enjoying higher social status while offering less to society.

Men should be the decision makers.. yet it seems women make an awful lot of decisions these days. They are also held to far less accountability than men. Even at work a few years ago I had a woman admit this to me verbally. Her exact words: "I'd be in so much more trouble for this mistake if I was a man".

Women get a lot of power from their perceived "lack of power". That's one of the most important points in the video. Its also a point a lot of men can't grasp because they won't let their egos get out of the way. :trouble:
 

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A source is a peer-reviewed academic paper or some form of information that re-iterates that information in a different way, IE certain TED talks. Anyone can write a book or make a youtube video and say anything. Literally anything. I could write a book about how unicorns exist and back it up with some papers proving certain aspects in horse DNA meant they were real and I'd probably fool a whole bunch of people. I might actually do that.
 

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IndeedSir said:
A source is a peer-reviewed academic paper or some form of information that re-iterates that information in a different way, IE certain TED talks. Anyone can write a book or make a youtube video and say anything. Literally anything. I could write a book about how unicorns exist and back it up with some papers proving certain aspects in horse DNA meant they were real and I'd probably fool a whole bunch of people. I might actually do that.
just furtherproof that the world of academia needs to be burned to the ground because you are spot on. not the only reason for burning academia as i have 10000 others.

academic papers really just sourcing other information as long as that source is "credible" which essentially means some people peer reviewed it or its in a book somewhere or someone with a PHD wrote it because we as we all know those are all incorruptible sources of information.

essentially an angelfire website could be the most accurate site in the world but because the source appears fishy its instantly bad...a man with a PHD could be a bold faced liar but that source is 100% valid. too much emphasis on "being an expert" and not enough on actually be correct.
 
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