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What I agree with most is that if women are frustrating you, it's because you're an idiot. I was this way for years but I just didn't know how to make the cards in my favor. I'm starting to realize I am actually quite a catch compared to most guys. This confidence has made me a lot less desperate and this less vulnerable to women's game playing. They just can't fvck with me now.
 

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skinnyguy said:
What I agree with most is that if women are frustrating you, it's because you're an idiot. I was this way for years but I just didn't know how to make the cards in my favor. I'm starting to realize I am actually quite a catch compared to most guys. This confidence has made me a lot less desperate and this less vulnerable to women's game playing. They just can't fvck with me now.
You're doing good man, you've improved soooooo much over the past few months it's unreal. Just the fact that you have the DJ mindset makes you a GREAT catch. At least you're seeing things for how they are now :) .
 

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Good vid. But this should be obvious to anyone who isn't thirsty for some pvssy without even needing to listen to it.

Too many dudes on here are so into trying to be a "DJ" and "prove" something in regards to getting chicks to others they are pedestalizing chicks at the same time.

Not that dudes shouldn't go after chicks (QUALITY ones) but improve yourself for you first and take everything people tell you with a grain of salt. (Never put total stock in a womans words.)

In other words have a life and not have a "life" based soley on chicks and trying to "prove" something to other dudes nor needing to "spin plates" to have one chick in the wings to replace another as if you are an incomplete person without one.

I don't view chicks as the "enemy". I view them as "cute game" little girls in womens bodies who don't know what the hell they want. And after dealing with them for a while you simply never get mad or bitter about them. You simply shouldn't care (not in a nutjob way) but worry more about what you've got to do in your life.

You have to look at chicks like little kids. They either enhance your life as you should theirs or you either put them on a time out, or even a permanent one.
 

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Jariel said:
I'm going to go against the crowd and say it all sounds like academic theory. Sun Tzu never picked up in a club or a bar, never dated a modern woman, never lived in an age where men and women have forums like this one to tell them how to increase attraction and interest.

I think whenever you start delving into history or the animal kingdom for your seduction theory, you start straying into academics.

The best teacher is and always will be experience.

Just go out there and have fun with women guys. Stop overanalysing and theorising everything. If you put your heart on the line or expect too much, you will inevitably get hurt, but that's another of life's first hand lessons. Pick yourself up and adapt, and don't make the same mistake next time.

In my personal opinion, all this textbook theory just makes guys uptight. Loosen up, stop thinking of women as the enemy and go enjoy some good company, good chat, fun dates and lots of great sex!
Very well said.
 

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The second point the video makes I think all guys will do well to remember and newbies and perpetual AFCs would be especially advised to listen to. That is, a woman, once she's gotten her man, will do what she can to change him. Isolate him from friends. Criticize his likes and hobbies. Get him to do things with her he wouldn't normally do. Etc.

These are predictable but crucial sh!t-test many guys fail. She doesn't actually want you to change; or, should I say, should you change the way she pushes you too, she'll soon lose attraction and dump you. Her attempts to mold you are her ways to figure out whether or not the guy she thought she was attracted to is the "real" you.
You are right, but the problem is alot of guys will gladly mold and change for the girl in order to get sex from her. They are not players to go out and get sex anytime anywhere they want, so they have bend to her to get it from her.

Unfortunately, in current climate, getting sex from the girl by being beta is more important than no sex and being alpha. People outside closed doors don't know what's going, all they care is a girl on your arm and you are getting sex from her, then you have status. They don't know if you begged for it or paid for it, as long as she's with you, you got something.

Feminism and women entitlement has screwed up society. Damn fools!
 

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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Helpful video, but I'm not so sure it's exactly everything one needs to know about women.

I don't disagree that it is indeed a war, but we have to remember that a great deal of the BS we have to deal with, they don't even realize they are doing themselves.

The video is too simplistic...A versus B. Most women have no clue that they go through life feeding off of a series of rationalizations predicated on plausible deniability. It makes perfect sense to them.

Great points made, but far from the full picture. I wonder what Sun Szu would have made of having an enemy that was, at times, completely irrational and totally motivated by not looking bad to themself and others at all costs.
 

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Don_Dom said:
Helpful video, but I'm not so sure it's exactly everything one needs to know about women.

I don't disagree that it is indeed a war, but we have to remember that a great deal of the BS we have to deal with, they don't even realize they are doing themselves.

The video is too simplistic...A versus B. Most women have no clue that they go through life feeding off of a series of rationalizations predicated on plausible deniability. It makes perfect sense to them.

Great points made, but far from the full picture. I wonder what Sun Szu would have made of having an enemy that was, at times, completely irrational and totally motivated by not looking bad to themself and others at all costs.
i assume he would of been the inventor of the get back in the kitchen meme.
 

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Don_Dom said:
Helpful video, but I'm not so sure it's exactly everything one needs to know about women.

I don't disagree that it is indeed a war, but we have to remember that a great deal of the BS we have to deal with, they don't even realize they are doing themselves.

The video is too simplistic...A versus B. Most women have no clue that they go through life feeding off of a series of rationalizations predicated on plausible deniability. It makes perfect sense to them.

Great points made, but far from the full picture. I wonder what Sun Szu would have made of having an enemy that was, at times, completely irrational and totally motivated by not looking bad to themself and others at all costs.
One of women's most successful con jobs is convincing men they are "complex" and unaware of their actions. Looks like you're still falling for it. :crackup:

The video really is the whole picture.

If you don't want to believe women are self-aware you should ask yourself why. Why is it so hard to believe that women know exactly what they are doing?

Many men want to deny the corrupt side of women so they can make excuses for allowing themselves to be dominated, whipped and abused. "Oh.. she doesn't know what she is doing! She can't help herself. She means well. She is confused. She is emotional. She is PMSing." Men will tell themselves this bullsh!t to justifying their submission to a woman. Excuses, excuses, excuses.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
I don't think its ever productive to live as a bitter, angry, paranoid man. Living this way in regards to women makes them too important and ironically.. it pedestalizes them.
So very true
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Jariel said:
I'm going to go against the crowd and say it all sounds like academic theory. Sun Tzu never picked up in a club or a bar, never dated a modern woman, never lived in an age where men and women have forums like this one to tell them how to increase attraction and interest.

I think whenever you start delving into history or the animal kingdom for your seduction theory, you start straying into academics.

The best teacher is and always will be experience.

Just go out there and have fun with women guys. Stop overanalysing and theorising everything. If you put your heart on the line or expect too much, you will inevitably get hurt, but that's another of life's first hand lessons. Pick yourself up and adapt, and don't make the same mistake next time.

In my personal opinion, all this textbook theory just makes guys uptight. Loosen up, stop thinking of women as the enemy and go enjoy some good company, good chat, fun dates and lots of great sex!
Agreed.
+1

As for the video. It makes it all sound like a mad conspiracy against us. Women like to make men into little b*tches, nothing new to me. Deception and all that is part of the game. I dislike the talk of how the system is rigged against us, but I am interested in their strategies and thought patterns.
 

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Chamber36 said:
Agreed.
+1

As for the video. It makes it all sound like a mad conspiracy against us. Women like to make men into little b*tches, nothing new to me. Deception and all that is part of the game. I dislike the talk of how the system is rigged against us, but I am interested in their strategies and thought patterns.
You "dislike"? :crackup: :crackup:

Your feelings about reality have no baring on reality.

Focus more on what makes logical sense and less on how you feel about it. That is the key to gaining real wisdom. Many men choose to be willfully ignorant over being wise. This pays off emotionally in the short term, but leads to a life of frustration and bad decisions in the long term.
 

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You are right, but the problem is alot of guys will gladly mold and change for the girl in order to get sex from her. They are not players to go out and get sex anytime anywhere they want, so they have bend to her to get it from her.

Unfortunately, in current climate, getting sex from the girl by being beta is more important than no sex and being alpha. People outside closed doors don't know what's going, all they care is a girl on your arm and you are getting sex from her, then you have status. They don't know if you begged for it or paid for it, as long as she's with you, you got something.

Feminism and women entitlement has screwed up society. Damn fools!
This is beyond true... I have many friends who are in a relationship with some chick who has them pretty much worshipping her and then they all go around saying they get pvssy. On certain occasions its even directed at me, I've retaliated once or twice but I try to hold my tongue for obvious "women hater" reasons. I'm getting more aware of what guys throw away just by seeing their everyday interactions with their chick. Like constant hand holding and how he's "always around" her.

Really upsets me because they throw away all their dignity and freedom just for that status. Where did all the men from the 50-60's go...?
 

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PlayHer Man said:
One of women's most successful con jobs is convincing men they are "complex" and unaware of their actions. Looks like you're still falling for it. :crackup:

The video really is the whole picture.

If you don't want to believe women are self-aware you should ask yourself why. Why is it so hard to believe that women know exactly what they are doing?

Many men want to deny the corrupt side of women so they can make excuses for allowing themselves to be dominated, whipped and abused. "Oh.. she doesn't know what she is doing! She can't help herself. She means well. She is confused. She is emotional. She is PMSing." Men will tell themselves this bullsh!t to justifying their submission to a woman. Excuses, excuses, excuses.
You're even more radical and wrong than I thought....

You claim women are fully aware of their actions and are purposefully manipulating men. Where is your evidence for this? Surely you dont watch some 15 minute video on youtube and consider that to be your valuable source of information?

YOUR 100% RIGHT ABOUT WOMEN NOT BEING MYSTERIOUS. They are easily explained, yet you have it wrong. They dont have some hidden agenda and motive to be the masters of men....thats silly and quite a laughable offense. However....their actions MAY SEEM manipulative to someone who cannot explain them.

Women communicate covertly, while men communicate overtly. This is why getting into a verbal fight with your girlfriend(or any woman) never ends well and seems to last forever. You can throw fact after fact after fact...but the woman never budges. Factual arguing is OVERT communication. The correct way to speak to women is through emotions which is COVERT communication.

So how does this apply? Well every action for a woman is based upon this method of communication. SHE DOESNT LOGICALLY KNOW WHY SHE ARGUES THIS WAY....SHE JUST DOES. Its the same thing with every other one of their actions:

-Guy is overly nice and not sexual = she friendzones him
-Guy is ****y, but not overdone. Is confident, not arrogant = she wants to fvck him
-Guy turns into chump after 5 months of dating and begs for pvssy = she doesnt want to have sex with him anymore.

So why do her actions correspond to male behavior in this way? HER BIOLOGY SPEAKS thats why. Ask any girl why she didnt find the "nice guy" in her life attractive....she'll say something along the lines of "I dont know....hes just not my type". She doesnt LOGICALLY know why she doesnt find him attractive....SHE JUST DOESNT. We men can educate ourselves and know why....its because being a "nice guy" is not attractive and does not give her vagina tingles. To compare it to us males.....why do we find a woman's face attractive or not? Well if you have done any research there is a perfect ratio of face that triggers OUR BIOLOGY. If you ask a guy who is unaware of the golden ratio....what will he say? "Hmmmm I dont know, I just think she's hott".

So you see.....dont mistake a females actions as "manipulative" or "motivated by control". Us men only manipulate ourselves if we remain ignorant about women and their biology. Claiming they are "fully aware" and wish to "pvssywhip every guy on purpose" is just as ignorant as the blue pill chump we encounter by the hundreds on a daily basis...
 

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TheException said:
You're even more radical and wrong than I thought....

You claim women are fully aware of their actions and are purposefully manipulating men. Where is your evidence for this? Surely you dont watch some 15 minute video on youtube and consider that to be your valuable source of information?

YOUR 100% RIGHT ABOUT WOMEN NOT BEING MYSTERIOUS. They are easily explained, yet you have it wrong. They dont have some hidden agenda and motive to be the masters of men....thats silly and quite a laughable offense. However....their actions MAY SEEM manipulative to someone who cannot explain them.

Women communicate covertly, while men communicate overtly. This is why getting into a verbal fight with your girlfriend(or any woman) never ends well and seems to last forever. You can throw fact after fact after fact...but the woman never budges. Factual arguing is OVERT communication. The correct way to speak to women is through emotions which is COVERT communication.

So how does this apply? Well every action for a woman is based upon this method of communication. SHE DOESNT LOGICALLY KNOW WHY SHE ARGUES THIS WAY....SHE JUST DOES. Its the same thing with every other one of their actions:

-Guy is overly nice and not sexual = she friendzones him
-Guy is ****y, but not overdone. Is confident, not arrogant = she wants to fvck him
-Guy turns into chump after 5 months of dating and begs for pvssy = she doesnt want to have sex with him anymore.

So why do her actions correspond to male behavior in this way? HER BIOLOGY SPEAKS thats why. Ask any girl why she didnt find the "nice guy" in her life attractive....she'll say something along the lines of "I dont know....hes just not my type". She doesnt LOGICALLY know why she doesnt find him attractive....SHE JUST DOESNT. We men can educate ourselves and know why....its because being a "nice guy" is not attractive and does not give her vagina tingles. To compare it to us males.....why do we find a woman's face attractive or not? Well if you have done any research there is a perfect ratio of face that triggers OUR BIOLOGY. If you ask a guy who is unaware of the golden ratio....what will he say? "Hmmmm I dont know, I just think she's hott".

So you see.....dont mistake a females actions as "manipulative" or "motivated by control". Us men only manipulate ourselves if we remain ignorant about women and their biology. Claiming they are "fully aware" and wish to "pvssywhip every guy on purpose" is just as ignorant as the blue pill chump we encounter by the hundreds on a daily basis...
The vast majority of your post has nothing to do with the topic. I wonder why. :crazy:

We are not talking about nice guys vs. bad boys or what makes a vagina tingle. We are talking about men being whipped in relationships.

If you think women have no self-awareness in relationships then you are brainwashed beyond belief (Yes.. by the Disney movies). We say alpha f*cks and beta bucks for a reason.

Sure.. when it comes to sexual attraction its 100% biological and the woman has no control over it. BUT THAT IS NOT WHAT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT. We are talking about relationship behavior.

YES.. women know they can't control the alpha no matter how attracted they are to him. Just like if most of us ever managed to date the real life MIRANDA KERR we would have little power in that relationship and we would be fully aware of that fact. Women are equally aware of power dynamics.. light years ahead of men (which is why this site exists in the first place.. to bring men up to speed).

If you don't think women lie, manipulate or play mind games while being fully aware they are doing it then you're a blithering idiot.

WOMEN ADMIT IT THEMSELVES. Watch --> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FXqq-7libkk

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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I disagree. I think women are fantastic and probably the universe's greatest invention. A man does need to develop an eye and taste for quality however, and that takes time, experience and intelligence. Not every man reaches the full measure of that potential, of course.
 

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How is it, Navigator, that you think that women are "the universe's greatest invention", and not MEN?
 

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All you have to do is open your eyes. This WHOLE world has been built by men. Even though this is true, we are expected to cram our tongs up a womens ass and treat them like angles ?? Nah, I'm ok... :crazy: The fact you were born into this world as a man automatically puts you above her (in terms of usefulness). Every job a women can do; a man can. Funny how it isn't the same the other way around....:crackup:

They are to be spoken down upon, not up upon....
 

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Atom Smasher said:
How is it, Navigator, that you think that women are "the universe's greatest invention", and not MEN?

Well they certainly are beautiful aren't they. :crackup:
For an invention to fill the measure of its creation, it must be of benefit. That's where "MEN" come in.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
We are not talking about nice guys vs. bad boys or what makes a vagina tingle. We are talking about men being whipped in relationships.
And who do you think allow themselves to become "whipped" in relationships? Chumps do.

PlayHerMan said:
If you think women have no self-awareness in relationships then you are brainwashed beyond belief (Yes.. by the Disney movies). We say alpha f*cks and beta bucks for a reason...Sure.. when it comes to sexual attraction its 100% biological and the woman has no control over it. BUT THAT IS NOT WHAT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT. We are talking about relationship behavior.
Well thats just it isnt it? Should a woman's behavior change just because she enters a relationship with you? I argue no. If you remain alpha and dont turn into a slobbering idiot she will treat you the same as when you were dating non-exclusive. She will still be afraid of losing you....even though she has you. The men who get "manipulated" in relationships are pvssy men who ALLOW THEMSELVES to get bossed around and taken advantage of. The way the man acts has a direct correlation to have the woman behaves...

Alpha man = woman walking on eggshells scared to displease her man. Has lots of sex to reinforce herself as a benefit to the man

Chump = fails women sh1t tests. Woman's attraction declines...more and more sh1t tests appear and then she leaves the chump. And this gets called manipulative? No its simply biology's way of reinforcing female hypergamy.

PlayHerMan said:
Women are equally aware of power dynamics.. light years ahead of men (which is why this site exists in the first place.. to bring men up to speed).
Id say that women are socially more adept than men, but it has nothing to do with "power". Women DO NOT WANT TO BE THE ONE WITH POWER. They want a man to be the powerful one and for them to "serve" him. Its funny....they dont even want to be the one's to make a choice about where to go for dinner...and you think they want to rule men.

PlayHerMan said:
If you don't think women lie, manipulate or play mind games while being fully aware they are doing it then you're a blithering idiot.
Again....men only call it manipulation where they do not understand.

PlayHerMan said:
WOMEN ADMIT IT THEMSELVES. Watch --> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FXqq-7libkk

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Another youtube source....are they paying you to promote their website?
 
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