Being_the_Don
Master Don Juan
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You should spend less time trying to figure out other people and do for yourself. You're in high school, that's another stage of your continual growing cycle. The girls just might think you're weird, so what? You might even think that some of them are weird, too. You've got positive traits about you (everyone does), build up on them. Don't let on to the others in your school that their attitude bothers you, that only feeds on the garbage that is already making you feel down. Do the things that you like to do, walk past those people like you're cool, like you know you're an important person. Not ****y or anything like that-just come across as knowing that you can be doing better things than waiting around for THEM to like you.Rint said:
It might seem hard but a lot of people are superficial and they often follow behind someone else, won't do anything unless someone else does it first. If you look at the good in yourself, build on that and accept that they are not better than you (nor are you better than they are) then you'll feel better. When you have that confidence it will show through. And there might even come a time when they will want to hang out with you and you could say "What? But you're too caught up in your own petty little things! I've got better stuff to do with my time." Build on the good within yourself and your confidence will become stronger and positive things will happen then. The foundation has to be yourself.