Everyday, Im thinkin of my ex, is this friggin normal???

[LostbutFound]

Its been about 2 weeks since i ended things with this girl...a week after I did it, I thought it would be stupid to let go of a girl that knows me so well, and I her....so I called her up and said lets just be friends....I dont hear from her or anything, Ill text message her and she didnt answer back...So im gettin the hint...

Only problem is, I cant stop thinking of her...Every damn day, I think about her and I dont know why...Its frustrating to me because I know that I shouldnt and I should move on and all that...but for some reason I keep thinkin of her and I get these thoughts in my head....I keep picturing her out having fun and not giving a fVck about what happened and all, I picture her with another guy already and stuff, it just sucks....

I dont know if any of that is happening, but whether or not it is, I cant help but think of these situations....Im like in a war with myself....I know I shouldnt think like this and that Im most likely overreacting and I try tellin myself that its BS and im better off, yet, I still think of stuff all the time....

Is this normal to be acting like this?? I feel like I cant have fun with anything because Im wondering what shes doing at that exact time...and it ruins my fun and chance of meeting other girls...I know it sounds real AFC and ill admit that, which is stupid because I know better than to be doing this, but im realizing easier said than done...

Any advice on this??

 

[LikRetsam]

a bit of details on your relationship por favor and how it ended/why.

 

[PlayerSupreme]

It will pass with time. You need to build a team of women to help you forget. This is what I did. I used to think about my ex everyday almost all day long when every I had any free time.

I even tried to force my mind not to think about her and of course it would.

I built a team of 10 women and dropped it down to 8 when I first showed up here...from there I went to 6 then 4 and back to 6 then to 3...

It takes opening yourself to other women to allow them to ease the pain.

Get out there and build a team. This time keep it under control.

Even though don juan was a mythical character, his role was that of a major player not a oneitis symp.

 

[Dirtheart]

The same thing is happening to me. I wake up every day thinking of my -ex and have to force myself not to contact her.

Yet, if you broke things off with her, then she has every right to forget about you, date other guys and have fun, and you should be supportive of that.

 

[ManOMan]

if its any consolation, TRUST me, she is thinking about you everyday too. She is probably angry and trying to play hardball.

All this images you have in your head about her having fun while you are miserable is FALSE.

I notice a pattern here with men and women. Women start to feel their anger and get very bitter and use this anger to get over their ex's

While men sit around all day and blame themselves and pity themselves about what a lonely world this place is.

Anger is a powerful tool in killing oneitus/ex's. Use it. Its part of the healing process.

 

[LostbutFound]

Thanks guys, I appreciate the advice...for those that were asking about the situation, its too long to explain, but If you look at my other posts, I have the entire situation explained...basically it would take to long to write all that up again...

initially the choice wasnt to break things off...like i said, all is mentioned in my previous posts if you are interested...but in the end I got scared that I would get messed with like a previous girl did to me so i cut out quick without even thinking about it....later on, i realized that was an decision that should been thought out and when i did, i realized it wasnt the right choice...

but now, i dont even think she wants friendship or anything....

I'd like to think that shes just busy with school and moving (shes moving into another house a couple towns away) but im not sure if they are doing that yet or not, when i was with her a couple weeks ago, they had a lot of things in boxes, so its possible....

BUT, i kind of have it in my mind that I might just be making excuses up such as shes busy with school and moving....I dont know if its all true or not, a friend of mine thats friends with her (have the same class in school) said they have a presentation they're working on, so in a sense she could be busy with that, but again, i might just be thinking up excuses...

Its damn confusing and I really hate being at this point...As far as the building up a team of girls, I have 3 that im talkin to at this point...HOWEVER, one I dont want anything to do with (princess, wants her way only...that type of thing) and the other one kind of knows my ex....Heres the big problem, this girl really wants me, so it would be easy to go in for the kill, BUT, if word got back to my ex, that would really suck....

Anyway im just rambling on here, but like I said if you guys want the full story, go to my previous posts http://www.globalmarketing.nu/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=49795 that pretty much sums up everything going on up to this point..