Every day you wait, your choices decrease..

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Every day I wait...
Is another day of FREEDOM. In so many ways.

LOL. Had a 21 y/o, who, when questioning my indifference in response to her power tactics (crying, ultimatums, etc) said:

HB: "Yes I know you're 35 and I'm 21... But aren't you scared of being alone, like at 40?"
Mzilla (laughing): "Hahaha NOPE! Here's hopin'!"
HB: "Why are you laughing, I'm being SERIOUS!"
Mzilla: "Oh hon, I may be alone, but I ain't lonely. I'd reckon there are a lot of folks who are married and VERY LONELY".
HB: no answer, dumbfounded look
 

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MrLuvr said:
I was talking to a 32 year old guy today who said this to me.

Basically, he thinks that if he doesn't get married ASAP, every day that he waits it is going to get harder. i.e. the pool of women you can marry and have a family with will keep getting reduced.

Any of you guys in your 30s and 40s feeling this way?
That's ridiculous!

If he gets into his 50s...sure. But it is not going to get harder if you are in your mid 30s or even 40s. In fact, it should get easier because he should already be established in his career and he would know what he wants.
 

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I don't know.

I'm 25 now, there are hot young chicks all around me, but I can't get a date anymore... I'm too old.

Just one year ago, I was getting a couple dates a week.

Two years ago, I was getting laid almost every single day.

Now... I'm just too old.

Azanon knows his sh1t.

I wish I had married when I was 21. :mad:
 

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azanon said:
From what I saw, every single really hot, top desirable woman was "taken" by the time she made it to her senior year. The running joke was the hot ones were there getting a top quality "Mrs" degree.

So its mathematics; ~100% available when they came in as freshman; by the time they graduated, they were ALL picked over.
Yes, but where are they now? How many of them are still together with the girl/guy they hooked up with and in a happy marriage? Almost every guy I know in his 30s or 40s and is married with kids is living a miserable ,day to day existence of boring job, kids, nagging and bitter wife... ad nauseum.
 

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joekerr31 said:
dont know why guys think age is a definitive issue. sometimes it is, sometimes its not.

when i was in my 20s i wanted to bang mature women - and did!

i can only assume that there are plenty of women in their 20s who get off getting attention from an older male.
Hmmmm...we are talking about marriage here...not about banging.
 

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azanon said:
The optimist in me would always agree with the main sentiment here; there are plenty of women out there and that your value as a man should continually be rising as you move through your late 20s to even 30s.

Now lets talk realism from what I saw in my microcosm from 18-21;

I attended a relatively small private college that was definitely known for beautiful, young, intelligent women. The really good ones (read hot ones) were apparent to every young man that attended there. The college was small enough that you pretty much knew everyone, at least from a superficial standpoint.

From what I saw, every single really hot, top desirable woman was "taken" by the time she made it to her senior year. The running joke was the hot ones were there getting a top quality "Mrs" degree. It was simply impossible for a very desirable woman to make it through all of that without eventually some guy "snagging" her and establishing a LTR or, more common, an eventual marriage. Remember, we all agree most women do want marriage cause it benefits them more so if the right guy asks them (and the right guy WILL ask a very desirable woman), then they will say yes.

So its mathematics; ~100% available when they came in as freshman; by the time they graduated, they were ALL picked over.

I would have enjoyed for the humor aspects alone a 30 something year old trying to have "invaded" that closed-knit college atmosphere with an attempt to game one of those young women. Not only would such a guy not been accepted by any of the men into any clic there, probably most of the women would have wonder what's this 30 year old prowler doing on the campus.

So, be positive guys, pessimism doesn't help anyone. But the ones with the best shot at those women will definitely not be you. Some guys (the ones attending there) see them every single day and have class with them, and some do not (you?).

One can call something a "myth" all day long, but I'm not sure it will make it so.

If i were single, i can't imagine a potential dating ground that would be even 1/10th as bountiful as college was for me. Every 50 minutes, I saw more hot, young women than I could shake a stick at. When you actually attend the college you're "gaming" at, obviously you have a great excuse for "involving" yourself with them, the parties, etc.
18-21 are teenagers and party girls. Those are not women.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Blonde on the Right

38 y.o. BF she can't get enough of.

Girl on the far left

Whine all you want about your options shinking as you get older, it just leaves more women available to guys (like this) to hook up with when you marry your single mother of 2 because you thought she'd appreciate your sacrifice.
Does the one in the extreme right has anyone in her life? I'm 39 and probably as good looking as your buddy there. :)
 

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YES! The young women are attracted to older men. :rockon: Earlier this year, a 21-yr old girl was totally wanting me, and I'm in my early 40s, ... until I told her I live with my mom. :eek:
 

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This is an interesting thread. There is some truth that the ability to meet, court and eventually marry an unladen, prime-aged woman decreases after a certain age, due to the cumulative effects of reduced social contacts (i.e., the only women that you meet in your social circle are the divorced or obese women that could not attract a decent man), age related degradation (which is mainly due to the man getting out of shape, but also to a lesser degree graying, baldness, and optometrics), and to some degree for certain women, the "eww" effect. Also, for a long time in the USA, there was the demographic trend that made suitable young women a rare commodity (which has bottomed out, and now trending in the opposite direction.)

But the thing to remember above all is that there will be an increasingly plentiful supply of "biological clock" women in the market. These will be educated, career women who will hit the magic 3-0, and realize that they really need to find a good man. Such women will not think that they need a man of their own age (they may want such a man as it feels natural, but as they see such men their own age hit on 20 y.o.'s, they will realize that they need to look at men in their 40's (or even higher.) And the beauty of these women is that in large part, they will lose a lot of their pickiness that they used to have when they were 22 (they will far prefer the intelligent, white collar man to the blue collar man.) OK, so for the 50 y.o. man the totally fresh coed may be slipping away, but her mature sister will be available. And such women will know not to play as many games, since they know that per their reduced sexual market value, that they can't AFFORD to do so.

And also, a man who has not had to spend his earnings on raising a family will have been able to save, and would be in a position to retire early (or in my case, semi-retire at age 31), and could go spend long periods of time in foreign countries, where the pickings for women are much better.

Remember the Moslem rule - a man should go for a woman based on the age equation:

M = 2 * W - 7

Therefore a man ages only half as much as a woman.

Of course, not all women will make this transition. All social ages will have the stuck up spinster, and our age will have more than before. The good thing is that spinsterhood is trait that always gets culled out of the gene pool. The spinster of the 1920's did not pass on her ice queen genes, and Secretary of State Condi Rice, or CEO Carla Fiorina, etc. will not as well.
 

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Wouldn't consider this one a "10", but I almost fukked a 21 yr old hairdresser/sorority girl a couple of months ago.

Actually, she gained a little bit of weight since starting school. She showed me a freshman pic....9+ all the way, but she was still TOTALLY fukkable when I met her.

And she had all the spunk of a perfect "10". Yet I still managed to end up making out with her and rubbing her pu$$y at one of my parties, even after she found out my age.

This chick talks about "creepy old guys" all the time, and I am 15 years older, but she obviously doesn't place me into that category. It's not your AGE is how old you ACT.

My last LTR told me she never imagined she would be with a guy that was in his 30's, but guess what? Another hot college chick ended up with ME, a guy that's a decade older.

Again, I never imagined myself or most any other guy at my age getting play from barely legal hotties. And I'm sure the fact that in the past I didn't think it was possible or probable for me reduced my chances. It's all about the attitude.

Does the older man have the ability to seduce ANY younger woman? Of course not. Some will simply not be able to get past the mental block of hooking up with an older man.

But that isn't even what we are talking about here. The topic of the post was whether or not your options decrease as you get into your 30's and 40's, not whether or not you have the pick of the absolute best looking college girls.

It doesn't matter if your options shrink in one particular age group. I'm simply happy that the pool of options grows as a whole.
 

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That all depends upon your trajectory.

Just because you're in your 30s or older, doesn't necessarily mean its downward.

The age range may go up, but you may have better quality available to you if your quality is improving. That's about the best I can put it.
 

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I agree and disagree with the original thread starters statement.

Me personally I hook up with girls in the 21-23 age range with no problems. I recently coldapproached a 19 year old chic at walgreens who looked about 26 and she was actually 19. When I called her and when I told her how old I was that was turn off for her. She said she thought I was 25 and my age was the deal breaker. I did get a blow job from an 18 year old earlier in the year.

I am 31 years old but I feel that a girl who is past the age of 26 is a little old for me. I think once a girl is 23... she is for the most part mature enough to be in a committed relationship.

I have dated plenty of younger girls who have never dated a guy my age. They usually date guys there age, but after they date me they say if it does not work out between us I am going to date older from now on.

Talk to any girl that is 21 and has dated a 30 year old she will probably always stick with older men. When I say older I mean the 7-13 year range. Anything more is probably pushing it.


LET ME ASK THE MATURE GUYS ON THIS FORUM. You have an 18 year old daughter. Would you rather have her date a guy that is 18 or 28 years old. I bet the majority of you would rather have her date a 28 year old.
 

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lookyoung said:
LET ME ASK THE MATURE GUYS ON THIS FORUM. You have an 18 year old daughter. Would you rather have her date a guy that is 18 or 28 years old. I bet the majority of you would rather have her date a 28 year old.
I bet not.
 

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lookyoung said:
LET ME ASK THE MATURE GUYS ON THIS FORUM. You have an 18 year old daughter. Would you rather have her date a guy that is 18 or 28 years old. I bet the majority of you would rather have her date a 28 year old.
F*ck no. An 18 year old guy is lousy at getting into a girl's pants. To quote Eddie Murphy... "when you're 18, you're surprised you're f*cking, you look like this :eek: ".

And the AVERAGE 28 year old guy who goes after 18 year olds is bad news.
 

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Age range of girls i am seeing:

26
31
34
19

Thats 4 girls i am seeing in a few ways.

the 19 year old is smoking hot, tight body, i met her in a bar and she could not get enough.

this is what she said:

I like OLDER MEN.

OLDER MEN.

Actually i am going to change my response to this thread.

i want all you saps who need to rush to get married to get married.

that way the pool grows larger for guys like me.

hurry up, run off now theres some women who needs to be married, jump to it.

Got to get married, got to get married, got to get married, baahhaaa, bahhhaaa, bahhhaaaaaa.

Sheep following sheep.
 

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I wish I had the game that I have now, back when I was a college student.
 

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He's got the fatalistic attitude. It's can be seen that everyday day that goes by it gets harder to find a woman...but it gets harder not because the pool is shrinking, but because every day that goes by is weighing on him. He's getting to an AFC state and has to change his approach. Finding someone is very much dependant on having friends who set him up, going to events, meetups, online dating to increase the pool that was previously unavailable to him.
 
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