Ever tried the AFC switch

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Check this out, what if you start dating a woman, and switch constantly betwen AFC behavior and Don Juan behavior, but hear me out before you freak, by acting like an AFC i mean, tell her from the start you like her a lot, act like you really into her, show a lot of interest, and then switch to DJ and act busy and confident, i am currently dating a girl and i am in the process of turning into a DJ, so i do get my days when i have trouble having a DJ mentality and i catch myself acting a little AFC, wel, it turns out this chick is really going nuts over me, shes like WTF is up with this guy, hes like really into me yet shows confidence and lives a busy life.

Anybody done anything like this?
 

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I do this quite a bit, consciously and subconsciously. Even around my friends sometimes. They think I'm wierd now.

However I know that they talk about how pimp I am behind my back. Skills.
 

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I think master DJ´s work with this very same technique a lot, they tell women they love them and that they are the most beautiful woman in ther world, yet the women freakout because they also see that these guys are not wimps, they are out there with a life and with other posibilities.
 

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I can potentially do this with an ex of mine.

I have come to realize that I can say or do anything I want to her and I would be completely satisfied with the results since I am seeing another girl at the moment. That way, this cold-hearted bastard that hasn't had a good conversation with her for months can be a loving, sensitive, and kind-hearted chivalric knight at the same time.

It feels kinda like an act, but in a sense a slightly honest one.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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