Ever show this site to any friends?

[MikeYikes122]

I have a buddy right now who is freaking out about some girl who he met through some contacts at work. He supposedly "hit it off" with her, but she isn't responding to his messages he is sending on Facebook and he doesn't have her phone number.

Needless to say, the guy is a huge AFC, and I have a good feeling he has already creeped her out. I've known him for four years and he has always been like this. I've never known him to have a girlfriend, and I've never seen him hook up with or even kiss a girl. In fact, I accidentally stole a girl who he was longing for/stalking a while back and there were MAJOR issues between he and I for a long time.

Anyway, I don't know how to give him advice because it's not in my character to ever shell out unwelcome advice, so I was thinking about just dropping him a link to this site the next time he complains.

Anyone ever direct a real life to this site, or is there some way I could give him advice that wouldn't come as unwelcomed or me overstepping my bounds?

 

[wolf116]

Why not just ask him if he wants advice first. Some people don't.

 

[SinJester]

Not me, would be social suicide.

Gave some articles to an AFC friend once though. He thought it was all bullsh!t. However he not how a hot gf that he has been going out with for a long time. Go figure.

 

[wolf116]

A friend of mine introduced me to mystery method which eventually lead me here.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Why not just ask him if he wants advice first. Some people don't.

It's just not in my personality. If he asks, then it's a different story. But I'm not going to tell anyone how to live their lives or put myself on a pedestal above anybody.

 

[MikeYikes122]

There's also another element to all this.

I show a friend this site and it's immediately assumed that the only reason I have game is because I sit around and study girls on the Internet. Not only could that make me look like a nerd and a weirdo, but a decent amount of my game is natural. Not all of it, but a good portion of it is. I didn't learn everything I know from this site.

 

[wolf116]

So what. I know a guy who turned his life around studying game and I respect him more then I would a natural.

 

[joekerr31]

the older i get hte more im starting ot realize that 'no good deed goes unpunished'.

its amazing how many people will get mad at you for trying to help.

 

[wolf116]

I don't agree with just giving out unwanted help. But if you ask first if they would like some help I usually get a good response.

Of cause no one asks me for advice on women, they ask for gym advice.

 

[magnet7]

Do you ever show your penis to any friends?

Well, same goes for this site. Nuff said.

 

[MikeYikes122]

the older i get hte more im starting ot realize that 'no good deed goes unpunished'.

its amazing how many people will get mad at you for trying to help.

Yeah, I agree. I know some guys who are the kind of AFCs that they will not react well to some of the things that are taught on here. Like they might snap and threaten my life and call all of the stuff on here a misogynist abomination.

I've always maintained that there are two kinds of AFCs. Ones that want to be helped, and ones that don't at all - kind of like drug addicts I guess. The guys who want to be helped are self deprecating and usually insult themselves to get laughs. They usually are willing to accept that they need to change to get girls. Then, on the other hand, there are the kinds of AFCs who are in denial and completely jaded. They consider their behavior to be the proper way for guys to land girls. These are the kinds of dudes who post on LoveShack and take girls on romantic carriage rides for first dates. They profess their love for women after four dates and are looking to get married in their mid-20s. They not only don't want your help, they will tell you you're an a$$hole and disrespectful of women because you act alpha.

The latter, not the former, are the kinds of guys who I don't want to expose to this site at all. In fact, I don't want them to have even the slightest idea that I'm on here. Not only would they disagree, they'd try to change me.

I guess it's all about sorting out the reformable AFCs from the non-reformable AFCs when it comes to SoSuave enlightenment.

 

[KontrollerX]

If he's a good friend to you and not some assh0le that you suspect will turn on you the moment he gets even an iota of success then ask him if he would like some advice or simply leave the link to this place and a good post on this place somewhere where he will easily find it.

 

[selfmademob]

Don't let too many people know about our community or we will hunt you down! (no bounty hunter)

 

[Royal Ace]

if you're that afraid of social suicide but still want to help him just give him this site's link anonymously or something.

 

[DJDamage]

If I will ever direct a person to this site, I would tell them that I just look at the info here but never post. This is a place where you can talk about personal stuff that can be used against you.

 

[SinJester]

It's not social suicide. You guys are paranoid.

In high school it is. You get paid out for wearing something that slightly different to everyone else. Plus I have a history of being picked on. I once let people know that I made a website, huge mistake, enough said.

I just do believe it's acceptable in common society (PUA theory) and for every guy who will want to improve himself there will be one who will try and use it to shoot you down. I am not a pessimistic person there are just some things I like to keep to myself. This is one of them.

Do you ever show your penis to any friends?

Well, same goes for this site.

LOL

 

[War Against Betaism]

I showed one person this site and he said he'll start posting soon, I wonder if he's reading this thread right now.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Ive shown this site and society to only two persons .

One of them likes methods but dont read them anymore and dont pay attention to them and one of them thanks me everytime i talk to him .

And i wont show anyone else these things .

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

the older i get hte more im starting ot realize that 'no good deed goes unpunished'.

its amazing how many people will get mad at you for trying to help.

Like wolf116 said, some people just don't want help; no matter how hard you try to force it upon them.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Like wolf116 said, some people just don't want help; no matter how hard you try to force it upon them.

yea . And most of them would laugh and make fun of me if i told them that i study these things and i read everyday day about these things .