Francisco d'Anconia
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Think Zen linke; be in the moment. The moment rocked, enjoy what it was, when it was. No looking back with regrets, it won't get you anywhere.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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Re: Re: Re: my story...
You should read the other thread. If a woman chooses to cheat, there's already a negative dynamic in her relationship. The guy and her cheating is just a byproduct of it. A happy, well adjusted women who's in a relationship where she feels appreciated by her beau will not cheat.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
You should read the other thread. If a woman chooses to cheat, there's already a negative dynamic in her relationship. The guy and her cheating is just a byproduct of it. A happy, well adjusted women who's in a relationship where she feels appreciated by her beau will not cheat.
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ok. we can both agree that women are not rational beings i think. i dont know anything about your mom, but i'll bet she fought with your father (or father figure, or whatever) at least once, and got upset over it. If she had gone out and fvcked some sketchy, random dude and it broke apart the relationship, wouldn't you be pissed? Over something stupid like a fight, when they can get back together. dont try to justify it by saying if she wants to cheat then its her fault and you had nothing to do with it, she may have well been overreacting to a temporary situation and things would have worked themselves out the next day, and she might have been in a happy, well adjusted relationship.
What you propose is wrong, by any standards, with any spin on it. Pulling someone's girlfriend is a b!tch move, and i wouldn't respect you for it, but chasing a married chick? I couldn't live with myself after that. i mean, how can you do that?
so wrong
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ok. we can both agree that women are not rational beings i think. i dont know anything about your mom, but i'll bet she fought with your father (or father figure, or whatever) at least once, and got upset over it. If she had gone out and fvcked some sketchy, random dude and it broke apart the relationship, wouldn't you be pissed? Over something stupid like a fight, when they can get back together. dont try to justify it by saying if she wants to cheat then its her fault and you had nothing to do with it, she may have well been overreacting to a temporary situation and things would have worked themselves out the next day, and she might have been in a happy, well adjusted relationship.
What you propose is wrong, by any standards, with any spin on it. Pulling someone's girlfriend is a b!tch move, and i wouldn't respect you for it, but chasing a married chick? I couldn't live with myself after that. i mean, how can you do that?
so wrong
"What you propose is wrong, by any standards, with any spin on it. Pulling someone's girlfriend is a b!tch move, and i wouldn't respect you for it, but chasing a married chick? I couldn't live with myself after that. i mean, how can you do that?"
Let's say that you are happily married and since women are wackos she ends up cheating on you with me. Do you think I would give a shyt about you and your respect?. That's the difference between trying to act and actually being a man. You could not live with yourself if you bang a married woman, I have and will at any chance I get.
Let's say that you are happily married and since women are wackos she ends up cheating on you with me. Do you think I would give a shyt about you and your respect?. That's the difference between trying to act and actually being a man. You could not live with yourself if you bang a married woman, I have and will at any chance I get.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Like I said ealier, you should read the other thread. You would then see how I can easily live with it. I don't do anything wrong (in my book). I don't go after married women; they come after me. There's a difference you know, or maybe you don't....
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Doen't it seem that guys like that think that the world revolves around them. As if anything negative in their lives has nothing to do with their actions (or lack of). That they have no control of those things and would rather blame someone else. That mentality doesn't really fit into DJism, does it?
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
if you can live with yourself, thats fine. I cant see how you would be happy tho. Most women are cold, and unkind. If you feel the need to go and pull them out of a relationship and have your way with them, fine. whatever, more power to you. But marriage is different. It means something, at least to the few of us left who believe in it. As for the rest of you, im sorry. You all see marriage as a joke, some sort of undesireable condition that is ok to mess with. I guess your gonna die old, alone and bitter. But thats fine.
really, if you all see no need to change your ways then sweet. Pick up all the leftovers you want from those guys' tables. But being a DJ isn't about getting pvssy, or about pulling a tough lay and then beating your chest and bragging about it. It's about being a man, a good person. Someone that everyone can look up to and be like "Damn, it would kick ass to be him. He is so awesome." They dont say that about dudes who bang wives with kids, and there's a reason.
you know you can get pvssy, why do you need to prove it to yourself? Why go through the rigamarole of breaking up a family, just so you can say "I can bang some 30 year old with stretch marks?" Go for the young and fresh stuff, have fun. You don't need to screw with other peoples lives to have fun.
Well, w/e. I no longer care. That's my opinion. It may not be right, but i like it. And if you disagree, well then im sorry. I hope you can find something in the world to believe in, because apparently meaningful relationships aren't it.
really, if you all see no need to change your ways then sweet. Pick up all the leftovers you want from those guys' tables. But being a DJ isn't about getting pvssy, or about pulling a tough lay and then beating your chest and bragging about it. It's about being a man, a good person. Someone that everyone can look up to and be like "Damn, it would kick ass to be him. He is so awesome." They dont say that about dudes who bang wives with kids, and there's a reason.
you know you can get pvssy, why do you need to prove it to yourself? Why go through the rigamarole of breaking up a family, just so you can say "I can bang some 30 year old with stretch marks?" Go for the young and fresh stuff, have fun. You don't need to screw with other peoples lives to have fun.
Well, w/e. I no longer care. That's my opinion. It may not be right, but i like it. And if you disagree, well then im sorry. I hope you can find something in the world to believe in, because apparently meaningful relationships aren't it.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Wow, it sounds like someone like you had a women who burned him after meeting someone like me!
Anyway, thanks for taking the time and effort to worry about a poor soul like me even if it doesn't matter that I'm extremely happy, love women (ya think) and feel completely at ease at only concerned about my own actions and not any one else's. Your concern is surely not necessary but it is appreciated...
i recently had an experience with a 24 y/o married woman with 1 child (i am a 20 y/o college student)
i met the girl through a friend of mine who works with her, they work for miller light and do beer promotions.
this girl was easily an HB 8. i knew she was married and had a kid to begin with, and at first i had no intention of trying to get with her or running any game on her. as the night progressed (house party then bar), SHE began approaching ME and flirting etc. I had talked to her a few times but like i said i wasn't trying for it, and I didn't intend to get laid that night.
eventually she was coming on so strong that I said fck it and started responding - we went back to my place and ended up having sex 3 times (once that night and twice in the morning) - afterward she explained to me how unhappy she was in her marriage and that she was trying to get a divorce, and not to feel to bad about it. we agreed it was a ONS, but she has been texting me alot lately and i can tell she wants it again
yes i felt guilty afterwards and i know it is wrong - i would never game or give in if it were someone i knew was in a happy marriage, but my friend that introduced me told he she had some affairs before and was not happy with her husband. im not sure if i would do it again
btw i found out later that her husband is a sniper in the military :crackup:
anyway, that's my experience
i met the girl through a friend of mine who works with her, they work for miller light and do beer promotions.
this girl was easily an HB 8. i knew she was married and had a kid to begin with, and at first i had no intention of trying to get with her or running any game on her. as the night progressed (house party then bar), SHE began approaching ME and flirting etc. I had talked to her a few times but like i said i wasn't trying for it, and I didn't intend to get laid that night.
eventually she was coming on so strong that I said fck it and started responding - we went back to my place and ended up having sex 3 times (once that night and twice in the morning) - afterward she explained to me how unhappy she was in her marriage and that she was trying to get a divorce, and not to feel to bad about it. we agreed it was a ONS, but she has been texting me alot lately and i can tell she wants it again
yes i felt guilty afterwards and i know it is wrong - i would never game or give in if it were someone i knew was in a happy marriage, but my friend that introduced me told he she had some affairs before and was not happy with her husband. im not sure if i would do it again
btw i found out later that her husband is a sniper in the military :crackup:
anyway, that's my experience
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
bigezzee wrote :I dont usually say this, but i hope you die. Like, car crash and death, because this is the most offensive thing on the board, i think.
Dude.... don't blame the player... blame the game. or Blame evolution.
Dude.... don't blame the player... blame the game. or Blame evolution.
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My ex-wife fvcked around and had a 23 year old redneck from Oklahoma slap his sac on her azz in his single wide, Although in her words, It was " a really nice trailer."
I didn't have proof positive, though I had extremely sound suspicion, That the b1tch had ****ed around for 18 months. I found out in our second session of marriage counseling.
I did some amateur P.I. work and found this redneck c0cksuckers cell phone and home address. . .I called the li'l ***** with him on one phone and the ex-wife on the other. I let the mother fvcker know that I knew he had cluttered up her butter gutter and I would exact my vengeance so he'd better learn to sleep with one eye open. I dropped a load via acupuncture up her dirtchute then filed for divorce.
So far, He's a card carrying member of N.A.M.B.L.A., and has had dutch gay porn sent to his and his parents' house and his place of business. And I 'm just getting warmed up . . .
You guys who've never been on the recieving end may not comment. Those who have know what I'm going through.
Karma
I didn't have proof positive, though I had extremely sound suspicion, That the b1tch had ****ed around for 18 months. I found out in our second session of marriage counseling.
I did some amateur P.I. work and found this redneck c0cksuckers cell phone and home address. . .I called the li'l ***** with him on one phone and the ex-wife on the other. I let the mother fvcker know that I knew he had cluttered up her butter gutter and I would exact my vengeance so he'd better learn to sleep with one eye open. I dropped a load via acupuncture up her dirtchute then filed for divorce.
So far, He's a card carrying member of N.A.M.B.L.A., and has had dutch gay porn sent to his and his parents' house and his place of business. And I 'm just getting warmed up . . .
You guys who've never been on the recieving end may not comment. Those who have know what I'm going through.
Karma
MacDiddy
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Karma: Although vengeance is sweet, I would have thought that your experience would have motivated you to become a better person, but instead you've turned into a vengeful and spiteful person, unless of course that was your nature anyway...
Can you not face up to the notion that maybe this 23yr old redneck has something that you don't, or can provide to your exwife what you couldn't. eg. pleasure, life satisfaction, companionship etc..
No one need be on the receiving end in order to sympathize or condemn what you;re doing..
Can you not face up to the notion that maybe this 23yr old redneck has something that you don't, or can provide to your exwife what you couldn't. eg. pleasure, life satisfaction, companionship etc..
No one need be on the receiving end in order to sympathize or condemn what you;re doing..
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Vengeance is a dish best served ice cold. . .
Let's make this absolutely clear, I am a better person.
The last thing I want or need is anyone's Goddamned sympathy. I own my destiny and make no excuses for it.
Either you're content with letting people get the upper hand or bible thump and "Turn the other cheek". Either way, I will not allow anyone to dictate anything regarding the direction of my life.
Karma
Let's make this absolutely clear, I am a better person.
The last thing I want or need is anyone's Goddamned sympathy. I own my destiny and make no excuses for it.
Either you're content with letting people get the upper hand or bible thump and "Turn the other cheek". Either way, I will not allow anyone to dictate anything regarding the direction of my life.
Karma
Wow! Marriage really brings out the best in everyone.
There's a reason why infidelity isn't a crime. Some may believe it to be wrong. Some may believe it to be a non-issue. But the fact that each and every case of infidelity occurs because of so many possible reasons actually makes it really hard to label it with a solid 'wrong'.
People who have never been cheated before will probably never understand how difficult it is to cope with such an event. But people who have never cheated on their spouse will never know how difficult it is to stay faithful when you're in an unhappy and unsatisfying marriage, especially when there are young kids involved.
Cheating and infidelity is up to the individuals involved. They have chosen the act, and the act speaks of their unhappiness. They have done it for a moment of excitment, satisfaction or happiness. Whatever it is, they probably felt good about themselves after the act. If you can't handle it and you are willing to commit a crime when none existed before, so be it. That's your decision, as was it the decision of your spouse to cheat on you. Now tell me, who's wrong or right here?
There's a reason why infidelity isn't a crime. Some may believe it to be wrong. Some may believe it to be a non-issue. But the fact that each and every case of infidelity occurs because of so many possible reasons actually makes it really hard to label it with a solid 'wrong'.
People who have never been cheated before will probably never understand how difficult it is to cope with such an event. But people who have never cheated on their spouse will never know how difficult it is to stay faithful when you're in an unhappy and unsatisfying marriage, especially when there are young kids involved.
Cheating and infidelity is up to the individuals involved. They have chosen the act, and the act speaks of their unhappiness. They have done it for a moment of excitment, satisfaction or happiness. Whatever it is, they probably felt good about themselves after the act. If you can't handle it and you are willing to commit a crime when none existed before, so be it. That's your decision, as was it the decision of your spouse to cheat on you. Now tell me, who's wrong or right here?
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
People going into a marriage with the expectation that your spuse will not cheat on you no matter what are deluding themselves. You have no control of your spouse as they are independant, free thinking flawed human beings. Only influence, respect and love stands a chance. Lose anyone of those elements and you're setting yourself up for dissappointment. Coz thats what it really comes down to... DISAPPOINTMENT,
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How married have you been youngblood?
Karma
MacDiddy
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Karma dude.. Its very interesting reading about your marriage failure, the cause and effect on your past and current psychological condition, and how the direction of your life pans out from here on end.
However, don't take this as an offence but, your marriage failure is serving as an example to others of what not to do... and in some cases, of how not to behave. Of course taking into consideration the cause and effect. I might add that the reverse might also be true. Anyway. the lessons of your ongoing experience hasn't gone to waste.
However, don't take this as an offence but, your marriage failure is serving as an example to others of what not to do... and in some cases, of how not to behave. Of course taking into consideration the cause and effect. I might add that the reverse might also be true. Anyway. the lessons of your ongoing experience hasn't gone to waste.
backbreaker
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what is N.A.M.B.L.A?
Okay, I usually try to steer clear of married women, but this one time I ended up breaking down.
I had just turned 21 about 3 weeks earlier. It was my 2nd time giong to this bar and there was this spunky, really cute white waitress (i'm black and I love spunky women) that was waiting on my friend and I.
I wasn't there long at all, so when I left I gave her a nice tip and left my business card.
The next couple of times I would come in, she would always be working and would always wait on me. So one time I asked her how old she was, ,because she looked younger than me. She told me she was 24.
So time goes on, about 2 months and everytime I am there (it's hands down the best bar in town) she is always there. It's to the point now that when I am in another section she would come and talk to my friends and I.
So one day she asks me, why I never come with a woman. I told her that's on a need to know basis. I asked her where her man was at, and she said "at home". Turns out she was married, for 5 years!
So she keeps asking me about my job, what exactly I do, keeps prying to see if I am dating anyone... So I ask her "why do you care so much if you are married?"And she couldn't say anything.
Anyway, so I come in and play pool there one day, and she comes and "bumps" into me and gives me this smile. So another waitress, who I am cool with as well, says " you know she likes you" and I am like "she's married".. Plus, there are three of us (my friends) and even though she is always talking to ME, it could be she is trying to get close to one of my friends.
So one day, about a week later, a girl I was seeing, who later because my GF wanted to go out to eat and that was the only place with decent food open at night, so she dragged me there, and plumps down in the secion of the girl. It was kinda funny and cute at the same time, because my ex was honestly hotter than she was.
So she around us, takes our food, and asks "are you two a couple?" and she says "yes" and i say "No" (we weren't, it's a long story, I wouldn't date her, but she kept telling everyone she was my GF), so I clear the air and say "we are talking, but we have some issues that need to be worked out before we date"
So my Ex asks "damn, that's kinda personal for a waitress isn't it?" I tell her I see her all the time when I come in here, her and I are pretty cool.
So when she comes back she just plumps down and sits with us, and is making commets like "Brandon never told me he was seieng someone". So when she leaves my ex says "are you ****ing her?" and I say"No, why would I do that, plus she's married"... which made her ease up and think nothing of it any longer.
So I go to the bathroom, and the other waitress who I am cool with pulls me asaide and tells me the married chick can't stop talking about me and my date ,and how hot my date was etc.
So I leave... and the next monday, my oneitis at the time, the girl that actually brought me to this site, actually, for the first time ever, called me up and asked me did I want to go grab a bite to eat... I was a little skeptical but she said it was on her, so I was like what the hell.
You can only guess where she wanted to go, plus she had just turned 21 and had never been, so we go there this time as well.
Now this girl is probably even hotter than the other girl I had brought up there. We didn't sit in her section this time (she is always at work) but she came and sat with us and she couldn't stop looking at her. Once we got ready to leave she comes up to me and says "your trying to make me jealous"
So it all came to a head later this week.. and I was telling my friends that something was going on with this chick.
So that saturday I got plastered and one of my friends and I went up there to shot some pool.
So we are playing pool, and the married chick was in the same section as me, and she kept bumping me and smiling and making sure she touched me when she passed. So my friend was like "dude, I think she wants to **** you".. and I'm like "yeah, I think I am coming to the same conclusion"
So not only was this chick there, but there was this other chick, bad as hell, that I talked to very brliefy, but she flaked on me so I stopped calling. So she sees me(the flaky girl) and asks for a hug and I tell her I don't don't hug flakes, they might break. So she gets red and starts making up bull**** excuses to why she couldnt' call me but how she really did want to see me. So I get a phone call and I have to step outside to teake it, ,and it just so happens both of these chicks are outside smoking.
So the married chick says that she really wants a drink after work. So I tell both of them, they can come up to my house, I have a mini bar and I lived litearly 1 minute away. So we all exchange numbers and I tell them to give me a call when they get off work, I will swing by here and they can follow me home.
So I get a call from both.. first the flake calls, and tells me that she just "can't do it" because her BF might get mad.. I honestly expecte this, which is why I invited both. So about 10 minutes later I get a call from the married chick and she asks it is still okay if she comes over. I said sure. So I go back to herjob and she follows me home.
So we are watching a movie and drinking, chilling. I'm was to drunk to remember exactly what happened to lead up to it, but I just know that about 10 mintues after she walked thought the door we were on the couch making out. So i start taking her shirt off, and then her pants, and she is like "no, stop.. I can't do it" So I am like " you know you want to" and she says "yes you don't know how bad I want to but I can't cheat on my husband". So we just sit there and make out.
So I walk her down to her car later that night, and I get a call like at 10 in the morning from her... for no reason, just to talk. Then one at 12, then like 3, then she asks me to come and meet her sister at the bar, it was her day off and she wanted to see me, plus I get free drinks with her.
So I go up there and her sister is very, very good looking , but that's another post. So I go to the bathroom, and when I come out she is standing right there and puts her tougne down my throat and asks me do I have company tonight, and invites herself over.
So she follows me home again, and my friends were at my house when I got back, playing Madden. When they saw the waitress, both of them were shocked. Being smart, both my friends took the hint... They cracked on her a little, made her feel comfortable then left once the game was over.
So the whole night we are having an arguement over who was smarter.. So we got the bight idea to take an IQ test on line... Actually it was a 1 point difference. So my laptop was on the floor, and while she was taking the test I was massaging her back, then kissing her neck, and after the test she said "**** it" and we went at it.
3 days later, she wanted me to meet her husband, which I did without a problem.. remember no one, besides my two friends, knew we had ****ed (3 times by now) It was so bad that she left her husband after we all meet (I had a date as well) and came back to my house that night.
They got a divorce about a month later, and he found out sooner or later. When he did see me at a club about 9 months ago, he pulled me aside and I told him, dude, I didn't know you, your wife at the time litearly threw herself at me... I mean you can get mad at me all you want but it's not going to change the fact that your wife had fallen out of love with you. Him and I got along pretty well, and I even hooked him up with an ex of mine who if I am not mistaken he is still dating.
The chick and I are still cool, but because of circumstances, we stopped ****ing around... I ****ed her a couple of months ago and she still likes me, actually wants to date me, but she has 2 kids, so that won't happen.
Okay, I usually try to steer clear of married women, but this one time I ended up breaking down.
I had just turned 21 about 3 weeks earlier. It was my 2nd time giong to this bar and there was this spunky, really cute white waitress (i'm black and I love spunky women) that was waiting on my friend and I.
I wasn't there long at all, so when I left I gave her a nice tip and left my business card.
The next couple of times I would come in, she would always be working and would always wait on me. So one time I asked her how old she was, ,because she looked younger than me. She told me she was 24.
So time goes on, about 2 months and everytime I am there (it's hands down the best bar in town) she is always there. It's to the point now that when I am in another section she would come and talk to my friends and I.
So one day she asks me, why I never come with a woman. I told her that's on a need to know basis. I asked her where her man was at, and she said "at home". Turns out she was married, for 5 years!
So she keeps asking me about my job, what exactly I do, keeps prying to see if I am dating anyone... So I ask her "why do you care so much if you are married?"And she couldn't say anything.
Anyway, so I come in and play pool there one day, and she comes and "bumps" into me and gives me this smile. So another waitress, who I am cool with as well, says " you know she likes you" and I am like "she's married".. Plus, there are three of us (my friends) and even though she is always talking to ME, it could be she is trying to get close to one of my friends.
So one day, about a week later, a girl I was seeing, who later because my GF wanted to go out to eat and that was the only place with decent food open at night, so she dragged me there, and plumps down in the secion of the girl. It was kinda funny and cute at the same time, because my ex was honestly hotter than she was.
So she around us, takes our food, and asks "are you two a couple?" and she says "yes" and i say "No" (we weren't, it's a long story, I wouldn't date her, but she kept telling everyone she was my GF), so I clear the air and say "we are talking, but we have some issues that need to be worked out before we date"
So my Ex asks "damn, that's kinda personal for a waitress isn't it?" I tell her I see her all the time when I come in here, her and I are pretty cool.
So when she comes back she just plumps down and sits with us, and is making commets like "Brandon never told me he was seieng someone". So when she leaves my ex says "are you ****ing her?" and I say"No, why would I do that, plus she's married"... which made her ease up and think nothing of it any longer.
So I go to the bathroom, and the other waitress who I am cool with pulls me asaide and tells me the married chick can't stop talking about me and my date ,and how hot my date was etc.
So I leave... and the next monday, my oneitis at the time, the girl that actually brought me to this site, actually, for the first time ever, called me up and asked me did I want to go grab a bite to eat... I was a little skeptical but she said it was on her, so I was like what the hell.
You can only guess where she wanted to go, plus she had just turned 21 and had never been, so we go there this time as well.
Now this girl is probably even hotter than the other girl I had brought up there. We didn't sit in her section this time (she is always at work) but she came and sat with us and she couldn't stop looking at her. Once we got ready to leave she comes up to me and says "your trying to make me jealous"
So it all came to a head later this week.. and I was telling my friends that something was going on with this chick.
So that saturday I got plastered and one of my friends and I went up there to shot some pool.
So we are playing pool, and the married chick was in the same section as me, and she kept bumping me and smiling and making sure she touched me when she passed. So my friend was like "dude, I think she wants to **** you".. and I'm like "yeah, I think I am coming to the same conclusion"
So not only was this chick there, but there was this other chick, bad as hell, that I talked to very brliefy, but she flaked on me so I stopped calling. So she sees me(the flaky girl) and asks for a hug and I tell her I don't don't hug flakes, they might break. So she gets red and starts making up bull**** excuses to why she couldnt' call me but how she really did want to see me. So I get a phone call and I have to step outside to teake it, ,and it just so happens both of these chicks are outside smoking.
So the married chick says that she really wants a drink after work. So I tell both of them, they can come up to my house, I have a mini bar and I lived litearly 1 minute away. So we all exchange numbers and I tell them to give me a call when they get off work, I will swing by here and they can follow me home.
So I get a call from both.. first the flake calls, and tells me that she just "can't do it" because her BF might get mad.. I honestly expecte this, which is why I invited both. So about 10 minutes later I get a call from the married chick and she asks it is still okay if she comes over. I said sure. So I go back to herjob and she follows me home.
So we are watching a movie and drinking, chilling. I'm was to drunk to remember exactly what happened to lead up to it, but I just know that about 10 mintues after she walked thought the door we were on the couch making out. So i start taking her shirt off, and then her pants, and she is like "no, stop.. I can't do it" So I am like " you know you want to" and she says "yes you don't know how bad I want to but I can't cheat on my husband". So we just sit there and make out.
So I walk her down to her car later that night, and I get a call like at 10 in the morning from her... for no reason, just to talk. Then one at 12, then like 3, then she asks me to come and meet her sister at the bar, it was her day off and she wanted to see me, plus I get free drinks with her.
So I go up there and her sister is very, very good looking , but that's another post. So I go to the bathroom, and when I come out she is standing right there and puts her tougne down my throat and asks me do I have company tonight, and invites herself over.
So she follows me home again, and my friends were at my house when I got back, playing Madden. When they saw the waitress, both of them were shocked. Being smart, both my friends took the hint... They cracked on her a little, made her feel comfortable then left once the game was over.
So the whole night we are having an arguement over who was smarter.. So we got the bight idea to take an IQ test on line... Actually it was a 1 point difference. So my laptop was on the floor, and while she was taking the test I was massaging her back, then kissing her neck, and after the test she said "**** it" and we went at it.
3 days later, she wanted me to meet her husband, which I did without a problem.. remember no one, besides my two friends, knew we had ****ed (3 times by now) It was so bad that she left her husband after we all meet (I had a date as well) and came back to my house that night.
They got a divorce about a month later, and he found out sooner or later. When he did see me at a club about 9 months ago, he pulled me aside and I told him, dude, I didn't know you, your wife at the time litearly threw herself at me... I mean you can get mad at me all you want but it's not going to change the fact that your wife had fallen out of love with you. Him and I got along pretty well, and I even hooked him up with an ex of mine who if I am not mistaken he is still dating.
The chick and I are still cool, but because of circumstances, we stopped ****ing around... I ****ed her a couple of months ago and she still likes me, actually wants to date me, but she has 2 kids, so that won't happen.
