Ever pass up on a girl and regret it later?
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Starman
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yea been there man..
and reversing it is almost IMPOSSIBLE..it seems like when chicks get rejected..they are vindictive..and HATE you for the rest of your life..
I even tried every DJ skill I had,..and even did AFC things as a last ditch effort (i.e. buying little gifts, sending "I mis u" cards, etc)
and still NOTHING
hehe
this particular chick in mind even went as far as saying "I was never attracted to you! " "you arent my type!"
when she VERBALLY told me she likes me ALOT and that she found me attractive..
when I called her on it..she said she NEVR said those things..and if she did she was probably drunk
hahahaha
and reversing it is almost IMPOSSIBLE..it seems like when chicks get rejected..they are vindictive..and HATE you for the rest of your life..
I even tried every DJ skill I had,..and even did AFC things as a last ditch effort (i.e. buying little gifts, sending "I mis u" cards, etc)
and still NOTHING
hehe
this particular chick in mind even went as far as saying "I was never attracted to you! " "you arent my type!"
when she VERBALLY told me she likes me ALOT and that she found me attractive..
when I called her on it..she said she NEVR said those things..and if she did she was probably drunk
hahahaha
seulaxplaya
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sure have and it teaches u to just trust ur gut and go for it
this girl in high school was sooo into me. she would tell her friends and stuff and try to get me to ask her out. she was so ugly though. i saw her in a bar the other day and she was a knockout. HB8.5 now. i thought i would have it easy, as she was once really into me. not the case. she acted like she didn't know me and was very cold. lol.
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I asked this girl out and she rejected me; later she asked me out and I rejected her.
We were perfect for each other, too, but I guess we both got what we deserved.
We were perfect for each other, too, but I guess we both got what we deserved.
squirrels
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Yes...
Many times.
No follow-up info. I'm sure the story is the same for us all.
Many times.
No follow-up info. I'm sure the story is the same for us all.
Starman
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here is a little insight into the female mentality of being rejected:
I know this HB .. who met this guy..the guy DJ'ed her, had sex with her a few times..then told her he NEVER wanted to see her again! (she was sort of stalking him and being too eager)
This chick is still interested in this guy who treats her like crap..but she says he is a real A$$hole..and her fantasy..is to get him to fall in love with her..so she can DUMP him. she said "I have to WIN!"
I know this HB .. who met this guy..the guy DJ'ed her, had sex with her a few times..then told her he NEVER wanted to see her again! (she was sort of stalking him and being too eager)
This chick is still interested in this guy who treats her like crap..but she says he is a real A$$hole..and her fantasy..is to get him to fall in love with her..so she can DUMP him. she said "I have to WIN!"
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Here we see CHALLENGE at work.
Starman
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yup..challenge..rejection..and how when women get rejected .. they immediately wanna punish the rejecting person
but it still holds true for males too..I wanna be a super successfull, happy, powerful man in the future..and show every chick that has ever rejected me they Lost out..
that is male mentality
but female mentality is like rage, bitterness, and retribution for being rejected
but it still holds true for males too..I wanna be a super successfull, happy, powerful man in the future..and show every chick that has ever rejected me they Lost out..
that is male mentality
but female mentality is like rage, bitterness, and retribution for being rejected
ZeeOwl
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Hmmm.... Interesting analysis Starman.
Reminds me of something that happened to me once... I was dating (actually we we unofficially living together at her place) this woman for a few months. She gave me the "I need room", let's take a break. There'd been a lot of negative tension lately, so I thought it was a good idea too. Went to spend a few days at my place. Didn't call her (I was still an AFC, but I didn't feel like calling, was enjoying the break). After about 3 days, she shows up at my place with my stuff. Comes down on me for not calling her. Tells me she wants to break up. I'm like "what the?..." I decided to play it cool. Told her "Sure, if that's what you want. I'm fine with it.". She storms out of my house, freaking mad. I'm like "what the?!!!!?... She's nuts." Tried to talk to her afterwards, but nothing doing. She hated my guts.
Obvious to me now it was a test, and I failed miserably. Though I don't know what she was testing for, and therefore what I did wrong. But she seemed to feel rejected, and that put me in the "I'm going to make him pay for this 100x" zone from then on...
Reminds me of something that happened to me once... I was dating (actually we we unofficially living together at her place) this woman for a few months. She gave me the "I need room", let's take a break. There'd been a lot of negative tension lately, so I thought it was a good idea too. Went to spend a few days at my place. Didn't call her (I was still an AFC, but I didn't feel like calling, was enjoying the break). After about 3 days, she shows up at my place with my stuff. Comes down on me for not calling her. Tells me she wants to break up. I'm like "what the?..." I decided to play it cool. Told her "Sure, if that's what you want. I'm fine with it.". She storms out of my house, freaking mad. I'm like "what the?!!!!?... She's nuts." Tried to talk to her afterwards, but nothing doing. She hated my guts.
Obvious to me now it was a test, and I failed miserably. Though I don't know what she was testing for, and therefore what I did wrong. But she seemed to feel rejected, and that put me in the "I'm going to make him pay for this 100x" zone from then on...
both ways
Its happened to me lots of ways, theres been a few times when despite clear interest signs I lacked the bottle to do anything.. which sucks..
A couple of girls I was interested in when I first met them, but they didn't seem interested in me.. then later I get to know them better, realise I don't like them, but find out they are into me now.
basically, trust your gut, go for it, go on a couple of dates if things don't work out you've not lost much at all.
Its happened to me lots of ways, theres been a few times when despite clear interest signs I lacked the bottle to do anything.. which sucks..
A couple of girls I was interested in when I first met them, but they didn't seem interested in me.. then later I get to know them better, realise I don't like them, but find out they are into me now.
basically, trust your gut, go for it, go on a couple of dates if things don't work out you've not lost much at all.
boy does this hit home...one time i had this chick who was all over me...i loved the attention and played it out just a bit too long...by the time i got around to asking her she was already taken. Nothing eats at ya like that. Knowing what you could have had. So I went from cloud 9 to living hell knowing that some other moron was getting her.
Then get this...she breaks up with the guy months down the road..I sense my opportunity...not gonna make the same mistake twice...well this chick wouldn't gimme the time of day..very rude to me..borderline silent treatment..almost as if I was the guy that just broke up with her...totally floored me..was as if she took out her hatred for her ex on me. Cordial to others, bitter and cold to me. So now I can't ask her out cuz she hates me..and I literally didn't do anything to her
Then get this...she breaks up with the guy months down the road..I sense my opportunity...not gonna make the same mistake twice...well this chick wouldn't gimme the time of day..very rude to me..borderline silent treatment..almost as if I was the guy that just broke up with her...totally floored me..was as if she took out her hatred for her ex on me. Cordial to others, bitter and cold to me. So now I can't ask her out cuz she hates me..and I literally didn't do anything to her
Silquee Smoove
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Yeah, I've been there
I turned down this really gorgeous, big breastased, woman and she came around but eventually started dating this college guy. It burns to think about it still. And she was a virgin, too! She had short, blond hair and man, those tig, ol' bitties!!!
Anyhow....
I turned down this really gorgeous, big breastased, woman and she came around but eventually started dating this college guy. It burns to think about it still. And she was a virgin, too! She had short, blond hair and man, those tig, ol' bitties!!!
Anyhow....