Ever lost your mojo?

[CalmCoolAndConfident]

For a while I was on the top of my game, I could flirt with just about any girl I saw and get a good response. The ****y funny was like a second nature, I was always "on". But lately it seems like Im "off" because Im not getting the good responses that I used to get. I try now and Im not getting anywhere. Has anyone ever lost their mojo, and if you did please tell me it came back.

 

[Jack McCrack]

i tossed my mojo out the window and the next morning it was asleep at my doorstep

i've kept it ever since

 

[Chosen1]

I think it's funny you ask this because it seems I had more "girlfriends" when I was younger. I get alone with most people but I guess I still have my mojo but I don't try as hard as I use to. Peace.

 

[apocalypse later]

You have your "on" days, you have your "off" days.

Some days, I think I sound like a genius. I wish I could remember the stuff I say. Some of it is so absolutely golden that I think I'm entertaining myself more than the girl on my lap.

Some days I sound like a moron. I try to forget some of the things I say, as they are completely stupid and I just want to put my palm to my face and make a violent smacking motion. Bad thing is, I tend to remember these stupid things moreso than the hilarious things.

To have more "on" days, here's what I reccomend. Try to remember some hilarious event from a few days ago, or watch a funny video. Anything to get you into a good mood. Otherwise, if I simply can't think of anything, I just do twenty minutes of cardio before I go out. That usually gets me really hyped and "in the zone".

 

[frisco]

Once you realize that mojo is something that comes and goes, and when you feel like you don't have it but are still unfaded by this idea of The Lost Mojo, you'll begin to notice that you can start to flow again confidently.

Nothing is ever lost, things just hide from you untill you can figure out how to bring them out of hiding.

 

[CrunchyNut]

Yea, just give it time. Something will click eventually; your mojo is always in the last place you look.

 

[Obsidian]

Once you realize that mojo is something that comes and goes, and when you feel like you don't have it but are still unfaded by this idea of The Lost Mojo, you'll begin to notice that you can start to flow again confidently.

quite right

It also sounds like part of your problem is that you are basing your success or failure on whether or not a particular girl (or most girls, or w/e) responds favorably. Preferably, you should judge yourself primarily by your attempts and your own manliness rather than by anyone else's opinions of you.

 

[AbsolutBeirut]

To me mojo is like something dependent on how well you perform. Say you've had a good day before going out sarging: doing your job well at work, having a girl eye at you while working out at the gym, receiving many comments from chick friends on Facebook, etc... If that happens, your first approach is likely to come out well. God forbid, the set blows you off really bad, your level of confidence drops. Approaches after that come out worse than before. At some point its just better to give up and split having no mojo left. Initially, your skills may not even be lacking, its just that the first couple of sets were too *****y and that affected your frame. I dont know if this happens to any of yous but that is definitely the case with me.

 

[Obsidian]

yes, that can definitely happen, but ideally you shouldn't care much how others think of you. Try not to let the flirting and facebook comments get you in a good mood. Likewise, don't let a lack of flirting or comments get you in a bad mood.

i may be wrong about this, but it's from the Book of Pook so, theoretically, it should be infallible divine wisdom

 

[Badmannaz]

MoJo= Attraction performance

I've lost mine...i even asked myself... "what happend?? i was a pimp like 4 months ago" well after getting "played" by the B*tch she took my mojo...it took a couple months until it found it's way back home..right now im on the Peak of my game...i just got done dumping one girlfriend..i think i was neglecting my 1st chick...and she's hotter..:kick:

 

[CalmCoolAndConfident]

Ok maybe its not mojo that Ive lost. I used to have all this energy in me that was just beggin to get out, and I used to mack and have fun, but lately no energy I feel worn out all the time and cant have fun with it anymore.

 

[Bonhomme]

Yeah, I lost my mojo for a while while I was extermely ill with chronic infections, food allergies, and chemical sensitivities.

When those biochemical issues were dealt with, my mojo came back better than ever!

 

[Badmannaz]

there's a little trick...don't masturbate all the time....when you do your releasing alot of testosterome...let it build up a little (1-2 weeks) and your levels will be higher.....you'll feel more confident more energetic and just feel better...there's no study that i know of that has yet to prove this but i did that for awhile and sure enough i had me some girls...

 

[CalmCoolAndConfident]

Hmm turns out pot kills ur sex drive, who'd a thunk it? Ive taken a break from it all, on the 2nd day sober I was back "on", i was back to being quick witted, smooth, and funny. I should probably mention I was a daily toker, I guess it really does slow you down. Oh and the whole not beatin off thing does infact work but theres a better way, go just untill then stop before (you no wut I mean w/o getting into detail) you get all that sexual energy but with no release it turns into social energy, takes ALOT of self control tho.

 

[AbsolutBeirut]

Before the lay of last week, I used to masturbate daily. I havent seen her since and yet did nt feel any urge to jerk it. Just the thought that I am going to get laid again helps me resist the urge. This doesnt help those that dont have a lay buddy, I wish I knew some way to help them out. All I can say is that it is worth it, last night when I was out I felt more confident than in my old compulsive days.