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Ever just been hung up with a girl you know is no good?

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Moofahsa

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I'm in this very situation. I know she is no good. I know she is going no where, but every single time I move on she does something that pulls me back. She moves away and comes on weekends, I finally next her..she moves back to my area...I push away, she comes on stronger.

I just can't toss her out and it is driving me mad.
 
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Moofahsa said:
I'm in this very situation. I know she is no good. I know she is going no where, but every single time I move on she does something that pulls me back. She moves away and comes on weekends, I finally next her..she moves back to my area...I push away, she comes on stronger.

I just can't toss her out and it is driving me mad.
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IMO, she pulls back b/c you haven't cut the chord between you and her. Grab some metaphorical scissors and cut your ties!

I can't express enough how much deleting trolls from your life MAKES YOU BETTER in the long run. If she is no good, she knows it. That's why she won't let you go. So, do what's best for you and cut the tie between ya.

Good luck.
 
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Moofahsa said:
I'm in this very situation. I know she is no good. I know she is going no where, but every single time I move on she does something that pulls me back. She moves away and comes on weekends, I finally next her..she moves back to my area...I push away, she comes on stronger.

I just can't toss her out and it is driving me mad.
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Dude I had the same problem a few years ago and this girl still calls every once in awhile. Even though I stoped accepting her calls and texts they still pop up. The sad thing is it brings back some good times but **** it she's done and I've already banged better. That's how you have to look at it.
 
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I had this problem with some crazy ***** before christmas. Either she really didn't know what she wanted or she just thoroughly outgamed me. She would come round and stay over and was sometimes nice but then others she would act like a b1tch and flake out on dates etc. She used to ring me at stupid times in the morning too, drunk and wanting to come over. She got me really pissed off and when she started not turning up or just acting disrepectfully, I would end up losing my temper and shouting or just ignoring her but then she would ring/text back several days later and end up staying round again. A couple of times she made up (I am assuming she made them up) stupid reasons for her behaviour like she was afraid of getting hurt and pinning it on me that I was nasty to her etc. like a fool I caved in until I finally decided to sort it out. In the end, I told her to come round because I wanted to talk to her but she kept saying she would and didn't so I ended up having a good shout at her on the phone, giving her some home truths and (also some plain insults) and told her that if she didn't finally delete my number; I would tell the police that she was stalking me. That turned out to be the only thing that worked; insulting her and shouting at her until she was in tears.
 
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Yeah. Some girls know how to play the game pretty damn good. They're like, sirens and sh!t. Even with all this DJ knowledge you just can't help but give in to their feminine charms.

Kinda like this one girl I knew. She reminded me of Sophia Bush. That girl was pretty fly.
 
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Moofahsa said:
I'm in this very situation. I know she is no good. I know she is going no where, but every single time I move on she does something that pulls me back. She moves away and comes on weekends, I finally next her..she moves back to my area...I push away, she comes on stronger.

I just can't toss her out and it is driving me mad.
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IMHO you have oneitis. If you had a few girls on the go, she would just be another one.
 
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IMHO you have oneitis. If you had a few girls on the go, she would just be another one.
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That is exactly what I don't understand, I have other women I can get with. I'm not a player by any means, but I have 2 others I can use as fall backs when I'm needed some. They are not super hot or anything, but we can hook up one night and then not speak to each other for weeks. I dunno, they are simple? They both look better than the girl I'm hung up on, I just don't understand.

I don't know, I think I invested so much time on this broad that I am scared to lose all the time I spent? I dunno. All I can say is ever since I got over my phobia of women my life has been so damned complicated it is unreal. It is like a freakin soap opera everyday, have a new baby daughter from a girl I have nothing in common with...I have had SEVERAL girls I got with turn into clingy freaks. Ugh
 
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Cut all contact and move on with your life.
 
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Focus on what is good and what is right in your life.

Lose focus on those things which are not good, right, or beneficial.

Change your focus and thoughts, and you have changed your world!
 
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Moofahsa said:
That is exactly what I don't understand, I have other women I can get with. I'm not a player by any means, but I have 2 others I can use as fall backs when I'm needed some. They are not super hot or anything, but we can hook up one night and then not speak to each other for weeks. I dunno, they are simple? They both look better than the girl I'm hung up on, I just don't understand.

I don't know, I think I invested so much time on this broad that I am scared to lose all the time I spent? I dunno. All I can say is ever since I got over my phobia of women my life has been so damned complicated it is unreal. It is like a freakin soap opera everyday, have a new baby daughter from a girl I have nothing in common with...I have had SEVERAL girls I got with turn into clingy freaks. Ugh
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That girl you're hung up on is your heroin while all the others are just marijuana. Heroin is a crazy habit to break but you have to do it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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How do you move on though? I dumped my gf about 6 months ago (because of a lot of reasons,there is a thread about it if you are interested), just cant seem to get past it.

HOW DO YOU MOVE ON?
 
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