Ever Dumped A Chick & Tried To Get Her Back?

soulforge

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Any cases of taking a girl back as a fuk buddy?

i,m at a point where i realise a relationship with this girl is only going to end in disaster.. but the sex was so damn good

How long would you normaly wait after a break up, to try and get her back as a fuk buddy??

It Was a 4 month kinda relationship.. been no contact 3 weeks...

Any of you guys get an ex back as a fuk buddy, how did it work out for you?

I know it usually ends in disaster lol
 

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You can get an ex as a FB, but only if she's still into you man.
Go on a date, and later you tell her straight out that you want to have a purely sex relationship. You can tell her before the sex (if you're ballsy), after the sex, or call her the next day to break the news.

I've had several girls agree to this - however it was not an equal relationship as I could feel that they still kinda had their hopes up I'd come around and commit.

But hey, we're all adults and I don't have a bad conscience as long as I'm 100% honest. I let them sleep over, otherwise it feels like I've paid a prostitute :p
 

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soulforge said:
Any cases of taking a girl back as a fuk buddy?

i,m at a point where i realise a relationship with this girl is only going to end in disaster.. but the sex was so damn good

How long would you normaly wait after a break up, to try and get her back as a fuk buddy??

It Was a 4 month kinda relationship.. been no contact 3 weeks...

Any of you guys get an ex back as a fuk buddy, how did it work out for you?

I know it usually ends in disaster lol

No man If she wanted to be a f-buddy SHE would NOT be in NC. She would atleast put in minimal effort if she wanted to continue to f*c you. It's as simple as that, she knows there are plenty of other suckers on pof that she can go back to.
 

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hockeyfreak79 said:
No man If she wanted to be a f-buddy SHE would NOT be in NC. She would atleast put in minimal effort if she wanted to continue to f*c you. It's as simple as that, she knows there are plenty of other suckers on pof that she can go back to.

True man.. i doubt she will reach out to me... as i dumped her, and there are many options on pof..

Mam these pof girls are truly not worth getting involved with
 

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I went ghost on this girl I use to fvck when she kept asking me to date her(yet we barely even know each other). I was in her area and I tried getting back with her for a quickie lol...plan didn't work out, still wanted me to tell her I love her.
 

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Well its been over a month since i last saw her.. i,ve managed to get another plate on board, the sex is ok, but she has a nice body..

But the sex with my ex who i was seeing was crazy.. I wanted to try some kinky stuff with her... 3sum etc.. i think she would have been up for it..


Anyhow since i dumped her, she went back on pof.. not sure of she is seeing anyone.. maybe she is, maybe she isn't..


Was thinking about trying to plate her up? Reach out and and try to get her back as a fuk buddy..


Previously it was a relationship.. lots of affection between us and sh@t...

But now just want to bang her once a while... altho i may fall back into the trap of catching feelings for her again..

It was kind of a mutual breakup... she pulled back after a petty argument and stopped communicating with me... but i officialy ended it with her..

Strong possibility she may rejects me, and i end up giving her all the power..

I like the idea of getting some sex out of her, try some fantasies.. but seems like a very risky move too...


Any of you guys dumped a chick and how soon did you get her back as a fuk buddy?

Did she come back to you after you dumped her? Or did you have to be the one reaching out to her?
 

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soulforge said:
Yeh there is problems... she can be quite rude and ****y sometimes... i had to call her out on her behaviour, but she starts playing the victim and stops all communication with me..

She sabotages the relationship.. i,m not perfect, we both handled the situation quite bad this time round...

But she makes zero effort to resolve things... victim mode kicks in... so i either grovel like a dog to make up with her... or the relationship is finished..

These are my choices!! Sound like a healthy long term relationship to you???


Either she does not care about the relationship... or she is too proud and stubborn to reach out and fix things..

Or she wants to gain the power in the relationship...


Any hope here at all??? I sense none, other than to dump her ass

Why in your right mind would you ever consider taking her back within the confines of a relationship? YOUR SELF ESTEEM HAS TO BE LOW TO EVEN CONSIDER THIS TOXIC B*TCH..... Really man, ask yourself why??
 

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KingBeef said:
Why in your right mind would you ever consider taking her back within the confines of a relationship? YOUR SELF ESTEEM HAS TO BE LOW TO EVEN CONSIDER THIS TOXIC B*TCH..... Really man, ask yourself why??


This is true man.. i am feeling pretty low right now.. i had a shoulder injury some months back, so i,m not hitting the gym so much.. lost some size and muscle..

Then i split up with this chick that I really liked.. so been on a little downer confidence wise!
 
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soulforge said:
This is true man.. i am feeling pretty low right now.. i had a shoulder injury some months back, so i,m not hitting the gym so much.. lost some size and muscle..

Then i split up with this chick that I really liked.. so been on a little downer confidence wise!
Throw yourself into your workout and life improvement. Remove things that remind you of her. You have to heal and get back into yourself.
 

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